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#17 - frixionx (06/11/2012) [+] (31 replies)

Guys, help
..my girlfriend could possibly have a brain tumor. she's had her mri scan, she went in with her mum while the hospital staff told me to wait outside although she wanted me there with her. it was killing me sitting there and waiting. it was just a scan, it was all okay, nothing could happen. but i still almost cried that i couldn't be in the room with her.
she called me over as soon as she was out, so i could spend some time with her while she got changed.
we're closer than anything, but her symptoms have been getting progressively worse over the past year, and doctors say its a high chance its a brain tumor. results in about 2 weeks.
if it is a brain tumor, she'd most likely need an operation..
we're so in love
whenever i have to leave her house, she never knows what to do with herself and is severely depressed for a while, and so am i
if she needs an operation, theres a chance stuff could go wrong, and she could lose part of her memory, or lose her hearing/speaking ability. i've been terrified that she could forget me because of the operation.
she's told me that if that ever did happen then i shouldn't ever give up trying to make her fall back in love with me. she said that i've done it once, i can do it again.
its breaking me thinking about that
all our times together
all gone for her
i've asked her to write about me before she goes in for her operation, just incase.. she said she already has some stuff written.
i love her more than anything. how could i deal with something going wrong? im terrified and its breaking me apart. i dont know what i'd do without her at all, the only reason i even want to get up in the mornings is to talk to her, she's my everything
just.. some help guys please
i dont know how i would react if i was by her bed and she woke up from the operation and had no idea who i was
she makes me so happy, i'd do anything for her. she made me promise her that i'd be there by her bed if she needed an operation..
just, help..

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#20 to #17 - DANEATSfatKIDS (06/11/2012) [-]

Make a video of her with you. Have her tell her life story and everything she can think of. Have her tell how she met you. How she knew she loved you. Then video something happy between you two. Something beautiful. Then there is always the video and your love behind, make a bunch of copies but keep them to yourselves. That's all I can think to help with something like that. Because then even if something bad happens like horrible, you always have a visual reminder of your time together. And try to be happy. Itll make her better. Try to be happy and take document of the happiness and show it to her and yourself. You know seeing her face happy might be better than reading her words. But do both. Just thought id try to help.

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#270 to #20 - frixionx (06/11/2012) [-]

i'm going to reply to this comment seeing as this one affected me the most.
but thankyou to all the people who read this, i didn't actually expect anyone to thumb it up, or even read it.
sorry for the sob story too.
thank you so much for all the replies, it feels good knowing complete strangers actually do care, and it made me feel a bit better about the situation.
i'll do what you said dan (which is actually my name too). made me tear up reading it. you guys really did help, so again, thank you all.

but a question, dan: i find it so hard to act happy when i'm not. its almost impossible for me, and she already knows this and can easily see it. how would i do that?

@mattginge, nope, i've never seen the notebook and neither has she. do you think we should watch it together? we both don't really know what its about, and that's a bit weird that you mention it because we randomly talked about watching it a few weeks ago.

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#611 to #270 - xPLDxPunisher (06/11/2012) [-]

Right now, the only thing you can really do is let time decide how this will work out. Don't act happy if you're not, dishonesty will get you nowhere but more depressed. Be strong. You have to be for her. The best thing you can do is be positive. Make every second you spend with her better than each preceding second. Though my situation is nowhere near as difficult as yours, I know the hardest thing to do is to accept the situation. Once you do that things will become much easier. You need to be there for her every step of the way.

You have every right to be scared. I'm scared for you. Be strong and everything will be okay.

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#629 to #611 - frixionx (06/12/2012) [-]

okay.. it sounds weird, but sometimes she's even the one trying to cheer me up about it, even though she's scared too. we help each other.

i do try to make it better each time, i try to do stuff everyday to show her how much she means to me.

thankyou again, i've said it a lot to other people, but really.. you guys are helping so much..

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#623 to #270 - DANEATSfatKIDS (06/12/2012) [-]

I agree with xPLDx to not act happy if you aren't. As for watching the notebook you may not want to... It is a beautiful movie but really sad and kind of depressing for your situation. Any way the key to being happy for her is basically doing happy things. Do whatever you did when you got together originally and remember the things that made you laugh back then. Think of all the things that used to make you smile and make her smile. The best medicine is laughter. She knows you are there for her so just be honestly happy and look past the sadness to the light through the cracks in the ceiling you are in a serious situation but you are young and in love. You can embrace that.

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#630 to #623 - frixionx (06/12/2012) [-]

don't think we'll watch it then.. it would probably make us worse:/.

and that's actually what she told me to do - she said if she does forget me, then act how i did when i first met her. we've been looking through old pictures when we first met, and she likes it..

again guys, i may not have a big response to each message, but i am taking it all in and i do respect every reply i get.

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#155 to #20 - mattginge (06/11/2012) [-]

^this. Ever seen the notebook? Think about doing something along the lines of that.
In the mean time i hope she gets well soon and the two of you live a good and strong life together

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#231 to #17 - tjcomics (06/11/2012) [-]

My girlfriend just died 3 days ago... she got in a car accident...she was fine the day after. but a blood vessel in her brain popped... the last i saw her, she was curled in a ball, sweating.... she passed and i couldnt even cry. i went home and went insane... i have the ring... i was going to propose next week... its horrible ... i'm still crying right now.

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#276 to #231 - frixionx (06/11/2012) [-]

i'm so so sorry..
i have no idea what i would do if that happened to me.
you really need to talk to someone close to you, and please, don't try anything stupid. you will never forget her. lead a good life for her, it sounds cheesy but that's what she would want.
don't let it get to you too much.

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#297 to #276 - tjcomics (06/11/2012) [-]

Me and her met when i was 12.. she was 14.. my birthday was 9 days ago. i always called her my baby girl, no matter the age difference.. we had so many obstacles, and we got through them. we moved in together 2 years ago, worked by each other, never left each others side. But enough about me, more for you.. i have her sister to talk to any how...
You need to not hope for the best... Hope really doesn't affect anything... i learned, hoping for better only depresses you worse then if you dont plan, dont prepare for it... prepare in any way possible... If you hope for the worst, and everything is fine, you get so pumped, so happy that it went right, and it is truly amazing. If you hope for the worst, and the worst happens, atleast you were prepared, ready for it, not affected as much for it..

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#327 to #297 - frixionx (06/11/2012) [-]

it's about both of us now, i really don't mind. i still feel for you, and you most likely need more than her sister to talk about it to. psychologist/therapist or something?
i don't hope for the best.. she tells me to, but my thinking is exactly the same as yours. expect the worst, get ready for it. then it wont hit you as hard.
then, if nothing happens, you're gonna be so relieved and the feeling is amazing.
it's made harder by the fact that we're 2 hours away from each other. i try to see her as much as possible, and so far that's only 2-5 days a month. but that doesn't stop us being madly in love and missing each other every minute. we'd both do anything if we could spend each hour together.

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#615 to #327 - tjcomics (06/12/2012) [-]

I don't use psychologists or therapists, i use friends. i do stuff not to forget what happens, but use it as a reminder of something i might have been able to stop, to make me learn and move on... of course, not move on to another girl any time soon, but still. i know my girlfriend died as happy as she could be, and I embrace that. me just talking about it on here, has made me feel better. no matter slightly, or not. She may have done horrible things, but she learned. I have done horrible things, but learned. i now know, to never let anyone go alone. if they die with no one, it will be way worse then them dying with someone they know they can have next to them... If you can, move in with her. if you cant, get an apartment with her. never leave her side. if worse comes to worse, atleast know she died in peace of mind.

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#628 to #615 - frixionx (06/12/2012) [-]

i know what you mean, i can't talk to psychologists or anyone. it feels weird.
judging by what you wrote, it sounds like you blame yourself for that happening though? you can't do that..

and we're both quite young. we want nothing more than to move in with each other, but it just isn't an option right now which really upsets me..

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#19 to #17 - Derpcakes (06/11/2012) [-]

We are here for you man. Stay strong.

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#399 to #17 - mrvalane (06/11/2012) [-]

Do not give up even if she does forgets
Do not do the stupid thing if she passes on
Keep strong
Talk about it, no matter the tears
Whatever you do make yourself laugh
<MFW reading your comment

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#627 to #399 - frixionx (06/12/2012) [-]

made me tear up:/.. i'll try..

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#427 to #17 - norwegiansnowman (06/11/2012) [-]

it isnt fair that good things like this happens to good people like you. Internet may be a crazy place and we have alot of retards in here. But every now and then we see their real side. we are brothers, we make eachother laugh through every part of life. Even if things go wrong, we are here to back you up man.
If you ever need someone to talk to, im here, and I guess most of funnyjunk is.
Stay strong brother, everythings gonna be alright.

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#533 to #427 - frixionx (06/11/2012) [-]

thankyou so much..

ps; i am reading ALL of these comments even though i don't reply to every individual one. they are all helping a bit and i thank you all tremendously. had no idea all of you would take the time to even read it. i admit, i thought i'd get downvotes and get called a faggot if anything

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#551 to #533 - norwegiansnowman (06/11/2012) [-]

hey man, we might be retarded but leaving a brother behind is not an option.
we have much better moral standards then 4chan. so bringing a feel story to relieve some pain or nervousness is totally fine, and we support eachother, not matter what.
Sometimes we forget, but we are a community. It's us against the rest of the internet. We are fjers, whilst some of us may be retarded, we are brothers

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#625 to #551 - frixionx (06/12/2012) [-]

thankyou:/.. i don't really know what to say to all these except thankyou. really didn't expect these responses..

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#571 to #551 - bearmagnet (06/11/2012) [-]

dont forget to frame a picture of you two together (your favorite picture if you think it would help) so that the first thing she will see when she wakes up is you two and one of your memories together

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#626 to #571 - frixionx (06/12/2012) [-]

that's actually a good idea, i'll do that and put it by her bedside so she can see it when she wakes up, thankyou

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#610 to #17 - hlgrindstaff (06/11/2012) [-]

I'm so sorry... my cousin had a brain tumor last year and he was 14. One of his eyes were twitching nonstop and he had surgery and he's just fine. I only hope she'll be okay...
I suggest having the best time of your life. Take as many pictures, videos, notes, anything memorable, as much as possible.
Keep us updated, will you, please?

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#633 to #610 - frixionx (06/12/2012) [-]

it went by without any complications? i'm happy for you.. and thankyou

and believe me, we're gonna try..
(long post, if you read it all or not is up to you)

i'm more scared because her mum is not in the best of health. hasn't been for a long while, and her mum's getting worse too.
her mum suffers from seizures, and can get up to 15 per day. she get's them at any time, has no triggers, but stress is sometimes a factor.
2 days ago, becky, (my girlfriend) told me she was scared because her mum looked like she was getting worse. and she was right, the day she said that, her mum had a seizure and had to be sent to hospital. she went into a coma for 6 hours and they had to keep her overnight and the next day. i teared up when i heard what happened, seeing as i'm very close to her mum too.
becky's absolutely scared about losing her mum, they're so close (closer than anyone i've ever seen) and she does everything she can for her. she keeps on telling me she doesn't know what she'd do without her mum, that she cant live without her. i made her promise me that she wouldn't do anything stupid, and she said she couldn't promise that.
i'm scared that her mums seizures could be hereditary, and could be passed down to her.
becky does sometimes make me angry.. well, not angry. but annoyed. she doesn't like telling me when she's not feeling okay because she thinks that's attention seeking. i told her i'm her boyfriend and i WANT to look after her, but she still thinks its attention seeking and doesn't want to bother me. she gets really, really bad, sometimes where she can't even walk or stand up, and daily migraines. yet she tries to hide it all the time, to the point where i'm constantly asking her if she's okay. sometimes she'll still try to hide it, so she doesn't seem attention seeky.

and i will keep you updated, it feels really good to have people here that are interested. i can message you directly if you really want, when i have more news?

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#634 to #633 - hlgrindstaff (06/12/2012) [-]

I'm really sorry man. I hope everything works out for Becky and her mom. I wish the best of luck. And yeah you can message me, but keeping commenting works too so everyone that wants to know can be involved.

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#87 to #17 - TheTurnbull (06/11/2012) [-]

DO it like The Notebook bro if she loses here memory, and we're here for you, FJamily for life

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#577 to #17 - TigerMann (06/11/2012) [-]

First of all, get the hell off of FunnyJunk. Your girlfriend has a damn brain tumor and you're on fucking FunnyJunk?! GO TO HER BRO!

Second, accidents like that aren't that bad, they can be treated easily. And they usually don't happen.

Make a video of your times with her, put together a scrapbook, make something like those, and IF the small 3% chance of an accident happening does happen, just show her that.

I'm not the best person to go to for these sort of things, maybe ask a friend or something.

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#624 to #577 - frixionx (06/12/2012) [-]

we're both quite young, and are over 2 hours away. i spend as much time as her as possible, and it kills me to leave her.

i'm bogged down with my nan just coming out of surgery (she needed a new kneecap), college, exams, etc. a lot to do..

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#631 to #624 - frixionx (06/12/2012) [-]

don't get me wrong, she comes first. i'm only 17, and my mum doesn't let me travel too often. it's mostly her thats stopping me.

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#23 - Schmeckle (06/11/2012) [-]

FEEL OVERLOAD

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#218 - hewenttojareds (06/11/2012) [+] (1 reply)

this is the first post that actually made me cry

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#237 to #218 - blanchardd (06/11/2012) [-]

Same here

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#377 - buzzkillen (06/11/2012) [+] (8 replies)

Dear Funnyjunk,
I've been vacationing in Florida for the past week and I've spent most of my time on the internet and playing diablo 3. I've been pretty cold towards my mom. She is single. My mom was raped when she was 19 and had me. She's given everything she's ever had to me. She's worn the same pairs of clothes for the past 3 years and somehow was able to buy me a new laptop. Anyways I've been ignoring her for the past week not going shopping and secluding myself in the computer room of my aunts house not talking to anybody. Yesterday was her birthday. I didn't get her anything and spent about 15 minutes swimming in the pool with her. The rest of the time i was playing on my new iPhone watching youtube videos. We went to a fancy restaurant which had shitty service and small portions. I got on 10 minutes ago and saw this post. I cried for 3 minutes. I then planned out what to say to you funnyjunk. I planned how to express to you how amazing of a mom i have how much she does for me and that I will always love her. No matter how shitty I turn out I will always have my Mom and I love her so very much.

From BuzzKillen

P.S. Sorry for the long read

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#408 to #377 - N. Korean citizen (06/11/2012) [-]

YOU FOOL, YOU MUST ~~RAPE~~ HUG HER!!!!

and tell HER how important she is to you... NOT US!!!

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#380 to #377 - kevinzheng (06/11/2012) [-]

i cried a damn ocean

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#435 to #377 - norwegiansnowman (06/11/2012) [-]

tell her what you did too us.
She loves you so much, tell her that you do the same. that you wouldnt trade her for anything in the world. I may not be a woman. but after what you told us, that would be a damn good birthday present for your mom.

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#505 to #377 - wiredrage (06/11/2012) [-]

dont tell us, tell her

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#453 to #377 - symustafa (06/11/2012) [-]

Never forget the people who raised you. My parents are the most important people in my life, no matter how old we are, where we are or why. Because no matter what you do, you know they will always be there for you. I myself am scared of the day when they are gone because there's gonna be no one to go to. I mean, your girlfriend or wife won't be the same. At least you can relate to your parents.

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#404 to #377 - N. Korean citizen (06/11/2012) [-]

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#415 to #404 - N. Korean citizen (06/11/2012) [-]

sorry. http://www. youtube . com/watch?v=RtpKqMpqGU0

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#115 - ihavenoname (06/11/2012) [+] (2 replies)

i fucking knew i was gonna cry today because of you fj

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#473 to #115 - andrewbuck **User deleted account** (06/11/2012) [-]

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#388 - shadsword (06/11/2012) [-]

fuck you OP. im still in the office and im crying like a bitch

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#452 - virtigo (06/11/2012) [-]

I literally CRIED

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#291 - captainmuffbrow (06/11/2012) [+] (1 reply)

**captainmuffbrow rolled a random image posted in comment #26 at Bisexuals **
I came on here to look for funnys. Now all I feel is the sads

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#309 to #291 - AmusableBman (06/11/2012) [-]

that picture...somehow works

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#566 - thatsimple (06/11/2012) [+] (1 reply)

Fuck im relieved that im not the only pussy crying

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#583 to #566 - N. Korean citizen (06/11/2012) [-]

two things...im watching that movie right now and BAAAAAAAAAAAAAWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW D'x

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#226 - biggayal (06/11/2012) [-]

I wish i could call my dad, and tell him "I love you" one more time. To tell him that I'm glad he was there for me, when he was. To tell him he's the best damn dad I could have ever asked for, even if he was gone on business half the time.
I love you, dad.

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#206 - RoyalMillard (06/11/2012) [-]

I Can't ....

I'ts too much.... please

I'm literally crying now...

shit.

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#543 - JustSomeEmoKid (06/11/2012) [-]

go on funnyjunk they said, It'll be fun they said

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#451 - redryumaru (06/11/2012) [-]

You got me FJ. You finally made me actually cry. CAN WE STOP FEELING NOW?

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#337 - jjholt (06/11/2012) [-]

mfw someone walks into my room and starts talking while this video was playing

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#324 - Z A H A (06/11/2012) [-]

*sniff*
ive been ignoring all the other feels today...

this one got me..

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#563 - cupotruth (06/11/2012) [-]

i just cried... i really just cried... the other post made me feel sad but this one...

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#554 - IReapZz (06/11/2012) [+] (1 reply)

> little sister walks in, see's me crying
> instantly comes over to hug me to cheer me up
> she's 7, i'm 17. she comes up to my hip, so i kneel
> after the 10 second hug, she tries to wipe away the tears with the tiny uncoordinated fingers
> instantly realise how much i love my family
.. thank you

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#564 to #554 - thatsimple (06/11/2012) [-]

your comment made me cry even more

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#351 - allytiger (06/11/2012) [-]

I know FJ is being spammed with random feels now but this one actually gave me one.

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#604 - crazyflac (06/11/2012) [-]

AND IT WAS JUST A COMMERCIAL!?!?! They need make a movie.

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#442 - yovader (06/11/2012) [-]

I... Cried.... ):

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