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#42 - S-sauce? 05/24/2013 on fuu 0
#12 - ....and it's your tutor's fault how?  [+] (1 new reply) 05/18/2013 on How I Felt +2
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#17 - superchall (05/18/2013) [-]
Because he admitted to not reading my last report and marked it based on the images alone...
#58 - Every pres does good and bad things. The issue with Bush is th…  [+] (1 new reply) 05/15/2013 on Churchill +1
#249 - anon (05/16/2013) [-]
only a few of the US' presidents sat on the "good president" side of the neutral line. The rest of them were either on the neutral line or inside "bad president" territory.
#166 - I think that dwelling too much on the opinions of others, even… 05/14/2013 on Ah +4
#159 - I can't stop watching this... the adorable-ness is ******* mes…  [+] (1 new reply) 05/14/2013 on Ah +3
#161 - wanicochil (05/14/2013) [-]
#155 - That's how I used to feel too. For a period of time I used to …  [+] (4 new replies) 05/14/2013 on Ah +7
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#158 - wanicochil (05/14/2013) [-]
I do believe you and I've had this thought for a long time now, but the only thing that is keeping me back is how much of a laughing stock I would be to my family (And extended family) if I did any drastic changes to my personality/appearance, and I don't want to go through that
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#189 - trivdiego (05/14/2013) [-]
I was a loser in middle school. I just didn't get stuff like how to talk to people in a way that would make them like you. I got really nervous around the popular kids and I was really insecure. what I did was take a step back, and identify the problems. I saw the way other people acted to make friends, and I started acting that way too. I'm not saying I got all YOLO and shit but I did stuff that I wouldn't normally do in order to make friends. People are attracted to you mainly by how much confidence they feel you have. If you at in a manner that suggests extreme confidence (not arroganc, however) then others will be likely to respond positively
#173 - soloparasiempre (05/14/2013) [-]
i used to think that too about my family and especially my friends, but the truth is they won't care all that much. they might makes some jokes, tease you a bit, but you just have to smile and joke it off. at least that how it was in my case. the awkwardness you'll feel at the beginning is worth the way you'll feel when you and everybody else gets used to it... that, of course, is if you change for the better.
good luck! here's an inspirational image for you
#166 - xheavymetalx (05/14/2013) [-]
I think that dwelling too much on the opinions of others, even your family, holds you back. If you're afraid of them supposedly making you a laughingstock, you'll never make progress. It's important to take their advice into account, but negative feedback only keeps you down. At one point, it becomes a "go for broke" situation. Either you take the leap of faith, or you stay on the ground because you're scared something might happen.

Pic related. Since it seems you like anime. I have so many fucking pics that I don't know what to do with.
#116 - I think both are bad reasons, but at least the first one takes… 05/14/2013 on Im ready for the Feminazis +4
#134 - I know that feel, sorta. I've been in a similar situation but …  [+] (7 new replies) 05/14/2013 on Ah +7
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#146 - happypancake (05/14/2013) [-]
^ this motherfucker right here knows what he's talking about. Sound advice, friendo
#141 - wanicochil (05/14/2013) [-]
That's kinda the thing though, I know it's weak willed but all my life to motivate myself I've depending on other people

Doing good in school was to impress my intellectual friend

Working out was to impress girls

I'm a person that needs to impress other people with what I'm doing to motivate myself, and I hate it about me but I can't seem to fix it no matter what I do

I guess I could potentially start reading and learning something, I might actually give that a go when I'm not 19 hours sleep deprived, you actually did raise my spirits a bit, thanks
#155 - xheavymetalx (05/14/2013) [-]
That's how I used to feel too. For a period of time I used to be depressed as fuck 24/7 and I would be on the internet for hours on end because I didn't have friends I could talk to, and I was so socially awkward I couldn't meet new people. I felt like my purpose in life was to appeal to other people and I was apparently failing at that, so what was the purpose of my life?

But... one day.... that ALL changed. At one point I took a step back and realized that I have so much more potential than this. And SO DO YOU. Within days, I completely changed my attitude and image around 180 degrees. I got a ton of classy-as-fuck clothes, started talking to people I didn't know, reinvented how I looked, and did whatever it took to uplift myself as a person, which included filling my alone time with productive activities. Eventually, there came a point where people started having mad crushes on me and new people I met actually ended up becoming good friends. And I didn't even try to impress them. I simply impressed myself. There's a saying that goes "The only person you should try to be better than is the man you were yesterday". I still live my life by that quote.

And it all started with a sudden change in attitude. Maybe your day isn't today. Maybe it isn't even tomorrow. Maybe it's because you just flat out refuse to believe me. But one day, I know these words will come back to you and you'll realize that you too have it in you. Untill then, stay strong, my good man, and always think of what I said. Also, if you ever need someone to talk to, just hit me up. I find that meeting new people is always an interesting experience, in any case.
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#158 - wanicochil (05/14/2013) [-]
I do believe you and I've had this thought for a long time now, but the only thing that is keeping me back is how much of a laughing stock I would be to my family (And extended family) if I did any drastic changes to my personality/appearance, and I don't want to go through that
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#189 - trivdiego (05/14/2013) [-]
I was a loser in middle school. I just didn't get stuff like how to talk to people in a way that would make them like you. I got really nervous around the popular kids and I was really insecure. what I did was take a step back, and identify the problems. I saw the way other people acted to make friends, and I started acting that way too. I'm not saying I got all YOLO and shit but I did stuff that I wouldn't normally do in order to make friends. People are attracted to you mainly by how much confidence they feel you have. If you at in a manner that suggests extreme confidence (not arroganc, however) then others will be likely to respond positively
#173 - soloparasiempre (05/14/2013) [-]
i used to think that too about my family and especially my friends, but the truth is they won't care all that much. they might makes some jokes, tease you a bit, but you just have to smile and joke it off. at least that how it was in my case. the awkwardness you'll feel at the beginning is worth the way you'll feel when you and everybody else gets used to it... that, of course, is if you change for the better.
good luck! here's an inspirational image for you
#166 - xheavymetalx (05/14/2013) [-]
I think that dwelling too much on the opinions of others, even your family, holds you back. If you're afraid of them supposedly making you a laughingstock, you'll never make progress. It's important to take their advice into account, but negative feedback only keeps you down. At one point, it becomes a "go for broke" situation. Either you take the leap of faith, or you stay on the ground because you're scared something might happen.

Pic related. Since it seems you like anime. I have so many fucking pics that I don't know what to do with.
#424 - Well yes, that's right. And that's the point that the original…  [+] (1 new reply) 05/14/2013 on Lets invade people 0
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#425 - heartlessrobot (05/14/2013) [-]
It is unless you're a drug lord/dealer.
#420 - "And of course when less things are illegal there's less …  [+] (3 new replies) 05/14/2013 on Lets invade people 0
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#422 - heartlessrobot (05/14/2013) [-]
Well, when shit's legal people don't do it as much because there's less peer pressure. You never hear of kids pressuring each other to drink a soda, do you?
#424 - xheavymetalx (05/14/2013) [-]
Well yes, that's right. And that's the point that the original post was trying to make. When you decriminalize drugs, addiction goes down. Is that not a good thing?
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#425 - heartlessrobot (05/14/2013) [-]
It is unless you're a drug lord/dealer.