Aesthetic appreciation was the term I was looking for, yes. Anyway, to help you understand:

Yes, I draw more on sexual fantasies for arousal and 'getting off' than I draw on visual input. That's why I easily get bored with porn and either close it down or look for something that intrigues me very quickly. It's the same with women I meet and talk and spend time with. I cannot find them sexually attractive unless I find them interesting, or something else drives me on. Obviously 'lady parts' matter, but maybe not as much as they matter to you.

Beautiful women can and often will be enticing to me, but only that; if there is nothing interesting or new about her, I lose interest and the exterior suddenly loses most of that attractiveness I saw previously.

Hope that cleared it up. I'm also very tired and it's hard to describe as I've rarely given it much thought.

Yeah, that has occured to me. I think it's a bit of both, really, depending on what mood I'm in.

Thank you for your psuedo-psychological assessment.

Either way, I honestly don't tend to go for 'aesthetically pleasing' when it comes to porn. I just like to get it over with. I have a hard time 'getting' the whole thing of getting off simply by seeing someone have sex. It's more fuel for the imagination for me, so it doesn't matter all that much what they look like.

Sasha Grey, however. You could say that I'm not drawn to her sexually or emotionally. At the risk of sounding pretentious; it's more of an artistic appreciation. In that regard the lesbian scene you mentioned might well be ideal, hah.

I guess what you would call artistic appreciation I would call aesthetic appreciation. You don't have to be drawn to her sexually or emotionally to aesthetically appreciate her. I just can't empathise with finding a beautiful woman not sexually attractive. The idea is alien to me. Do you not enjoy looking at lady parts then or do you more enjoy sexual fantasies?

www.youtube.com/watch?v=zxOR2GHJDoM

Link related somehow, it adds context to what I'm trying to say... I'm too tired to finish the rest of this post so good night I guess.

Aesthetic appreciation was the term I was looking for, yes. Anyway, to help you understand:

Yes, I draw more on sexual fantasies for arousal and 'getting off' than I draw on visual input. That's why I easily get bored with porn and either close it down or look for something that intrigues me very quickly. It's the same with women I meet and talk and spend time with. I cannot find them sexually attractive unless I find them interesting, or something else drives me on. Obviously 'lady parts' matter, but maybe not as much as they matter to you.

Beautiful women can and often will be enticing to me, but only that; if there is nothing interesting or new about her, I lose interest and the exterior suddenly loses most of that attractiveness I saw previously.

Hope that cleared it up. I'm also very tired and it's hard to describe as I've rarely given it much thought.

Yeah, that has occured to me. I think it's a bit of both, really, depending on what mood I'm in.

I think you are confusing 'crush' and finding someone aesthetically pleasing to the point of not wanting to see her get gangbanged by three steroid-pumped, balding gorillas.

Yet she isn't more 'aesthetically pleasing' as many other pornstars which I bet that you have no problem knocking one off to. It sounds like you are more emotionally sentimental towards her rather than it being a purely physical attraction. Also, you don't have to watch her get dick shunted, I barely watch that kind of porn. I recommend watching a lesbian scene between Sasha Grey and Stoya. Pic related.

Thank you for your psuedo-psychological assessment.

Either way, I honestly don't tend to go for 'aesthetically pleasing' when it comes to porn. I just like to get it over with. I have a hard time 'getting' the whole thing of getting off simply by seeing someone have sex. It's more fuel for the imagination for me, so it doesn't matter all that much what they look like.

Sasha Grey, however. You could say that I'm not drawn to her sexually or emotionally. At the risk of sounding pretentious; it's more of an artistic appreciation. In that regard the lesbian scene you mentioned might well be ideal, hah.

I guess what you would call artistic appreciation I would call aesthetic appreciation. You don't have to be drawn to her sexually or emotionally to aesthetically appreciate her. I just can't empathise with finding a beautiful woman not sexually attractive. The idea is alien to me. Do you not enjoy looking at lady parts then or do you more enjoy sexual fantasies?

www.youtube.com/watch?v=zxOR2GHJDoM

Link related somehow, it adds context to what I'm trying to say... I'm too tired to finish the rest of this post so good night I guess.

Aesthetic appreciation was the term I was looking for, yes. Anyway, to help you understand:

Yes, I draw more on sexual fantasies for arousal and 'getting off' than I draw on visual input. That's why I easily get bored with porn and either close it down or look for something that intrigues me very quickly. It's the same with women I meet and talk and spend time with. I cannot find them sexually attractive unless I find them interesting, or something else drives me on. Obviously 'lady parts' matter, but maybe not as much as they matter to you.

Beautiful women can and often will be enticing to me, but only that; if there is nothing interesting or new about her, I lose interest and the exterior suddenly loses most of that attractiveness I saw previously.

Hope that cleared it up. I'm also very tired and it's hard to describe as I've rarely given it much thought.

Yeah, that has occured to me. I think it's a bit of both, really, depending on what mood I'm in.

The fuck is "operation yewtree?" (pic unrelated)

Police operation going on in the UK about celebrities touching up young girls and shit, currently there are quiet alot of TV personalities being arrested and questioned etc about incidents in which they done something to a minor