1. Shit bro, sorry to hear that.
2. It's kinda shit if your mother's side of the family alienates you, but understandable from original husband's. Kinda shit cause, well she did sorta break a huge arrangement that, going off what is typically the norm of the situation of either A: Parents of both parties split the difference on a wedding or B: Kids only pay for it so i'm staying with A: of trusting her to be a good wife in return to a good husband and remain loyal to each other. Mean to forgive her, but hold it over her head rest of life. Husband's side should hate her guts, just saying.

my mothers side is extremely large and love getting together for any excuse majority of the time. Loved seeing them.

Father's side only gets together for christmass or funerals and is tiny. I love them to death.

If you're some edgy ass hole who just says fuck family because reasons, you just tween edgy level of edgy.

Hell, seeing some one after so long should only make you happier to see them. My mother's family is extremely conflicted in their political ideals that I can totally see arguing in what with one group being the cliche upper-middle class blonde white family republicans, which is weird for new jersey, and the other side being new york liberal/socjust light. But they still get together and love each other because that's what families do. Least should do.

1. Shit bro, sorry to hear that.
2. It's kinda shit if your mother's side of the family alienates you, but understandable from original husband's. Kinda shit cause, well she did sorta break a huge arrangement that, going off what is typically the norm of the situation of either A: Parents of both parties split the difference on a wedding or B: Kids only pay for it so i'm staying with A: of trusting her to be a good wife in return to a good husband and remain loyal to each other. Mean to forgive her, but hold it over her head rest of life. Husband's side should hate her guts, just saying.