Happens :p

All of what?

Erh... I dunno where I was going with this.

I just wanted to say hi but I thought that would just seem awkward.

But this is no better, I realise.

A little awkward, mostly confusing for poor me, but okay. Hi there

I kinda came here to ask about the whole trans thing I guess. Sorry. Was hoping I'd maybe get some insight into some of the process myself before I go through with it.

Well, I'm at work, so just a heads up that my replies may be slow, but go ahead, ask away. I'd be glad to get some insight

I see.

Well I'm just kind of curious on it myself as I haven't really fulfilled much of anything of what I hoped to but anyway. I think I'mm supposed to do the real life test in not too long but I don't feel ready for it, what do you think I should do?

I'm kind of struggling to get my physical image to match up with what I think of myself as, really. I'm unsure if I should just keep working on that before I go through with the real life test .

Going out in public for the first time can be pretty nervewracking. I remember that and have actually accompanied a couple other trans women for their first time out. It really helps to have someone with you, anyone, highly recommend it. Other than that, my advice is just push yourself to do it because you may never feel ready for it or at least not for a very long time. Once you've gotten past it, it's infinitely easier. And even if your look isn't 100% where you want it yet, don't worry about it. I guarantee the odds of anyone at all caring, if they even notice, are very low. And the realization of that fact, that no one is out to belittle or criticize you and few people care of you're trans and fewer will voice it, can really help with the transition into living your life as you full time, and then you'll get your look where you want it. And then ultimately you'll be able to get your confidence to the point that you aren't worried about whether your look is perfect or not. So I say push yourself into doing it, it's a huge step that can propel your transition forward. I think I got a bit rambly in there but I think my points are all clear haha

Well only thing I'm worried about is the whole small village community thing so there's that.
Well not too worried, I don't much care for that when I think of it, but my biggest issue is actually losing the weight necessary and whatnot and start doing things properly. As well as having this personality where I'm either just too shy or too stubborn (not really sure of which) that makes me try and tackle this on my own.

I'm also really insecure about how I look because I haven't made like... any kind of progress in any way so it's worrying me and I'm 21 and I'm just not sure.

And I too felt like I han't made any progress at all for a long time but I suddenly made a **** load of progress. Once you really start taking the steps, the following ones are easier to take

I'm 21, it's not too late to start transition, but I still wouldn't recommend trying to do it on your own. You certainly can but it will makes things much more difficult. What are you worried about in regards to your age and what do you mean by doing it properly? And yeah, losing weight can be tricky if it's what you want, and hormones will likely only make that more difficult. I was underweight my entire life until starting hormones and now for the first time ever I'm trying to lose a little because of how much I gained haha so as much as I would say just get on it with those, it's he easier to drop the weight beforehand

Yeah I'm trying to lose weight and stuff beforehand before I try myself on this in reality. Concerned about bone structure and stuff.

Well I have a friend but I'm a bit worried about disturbing her.

Well I haven't gained weight in years so I guess there's that but I haven't lost any either.

Sorry I'm a bit drunk.

Gotcha. As far as bone structure goes, I would hurt you to not concern yourself with that, cuz there's just really nothing you can do about it, and worrying about that gets you nowhere and only leads to you beating yourself up over something that can't be changed. What you can do, is just look fabulous as **** with your bones as they are and love your body. And as for your friend, ask her. Sure it can be an awkward thing to ask of someone, but what are friends for if not helping to guide you further along on the path of faggotry. And that's alright, I couldn't even tell you were drunk

Thanks, I appreciate the help.

And yeah I really want to ask her just kind of worried about bothering her but I'll try to get in touch with her more from now on.

Well I shouldn't drink but right now I just felt like it, only a few beers so far but I'm a bit of a lightweight and its some strong ass beer.

No problem
And have a fun night with that haha though I already don't know how people can drink regular beer, let alone ass beer

I am lonely and playing DnD... that's why.

But yeah, thanks again.

So erh I uhm... I'll rather wait til until after you're donewith work, wanna just ask something.

I see i see, I think loneliness and being down and such may not be a good time to drink but you're an adult haha you can do what you want. And sure, if you want to ask something after work, I'll be off in about two and a half hours

I suppose, I know it's bad but I keep doing it anyway from time to time.

Sure, I'll probably be on then.

Well it's mostly just my looks actually and I dunno I keep asking about what chance I have....

Okiedoke, now actually I'm pretty curious as to what it is haha

I answered myself....

I totally understand that. It's hard to overcome worrying about that but it gets easier if you work on it

I see, yeah I worried about that a long time myself, but really it's the same as bone structure don't worry about it, not really anything you can do. Also, hormones will cause your face to become a bit rounder which can negate a more masculine facial structure.

I guess, still worried though even if friends tell me otherwise. Just can't help worrying about it.

Oh whoa okay haha I totally did not see that another comment had been made. So what about looks and chances and whatnot?

I seemed to have fallen asleep.

Dunno, just skeptical on my own facial structure and whatnot.

*give

No

I am confused as to why this is on my profile. I'm not gonna complain, but I am certainly confused

Ms. Sato wanted to come by to tell you that she loves you

I am so aroused

Really?

Ms. Sato wants to know if you want to bully her brown maid she imported from the South Pole

I'm more into subbing, really

Then put on your maid outfit and go rub Ms. Sato's feet

Didn't know you're into that

He asked

**Elk used "*roll picture*"**
**Elk rolled image** I was just kidding. Your comments about Tinder seemed odd, so I was trying to figure out what gender you were, and I found that comment, and I thought it was funny.

Gotcha, sometimes hard to tell when people are joking. Was it really that hard to figure out my gender? Haha

**Elk used "*roll picture*"**
**Elk rolled image** I automatically assumed girl from the first comment because you were complaining about those guys, but then you started talking about talking to girls.

Yes, it was.

I suppose that does confuse things a bit. I am girl, just gay girl. Plus I was mostly trying to make friends, so that's how I wound up talking to most people on those things

**Elk used "*roll picture*"**
**Elk rolled image** n00dz

Yup okay

Something I can help you with dear?

Ah yes, I see, that clears things up

I'm in love with you.

Haha haha somebody loving me

You belong to me now.

Who's breaking the news to my girlfriend?

You won't need to worry about that soon enough.

...that is only more worrisome

Everything will be okay, don't worry <3
See you soon, very soon...

That is shockingly not soothing

I'm not sure where you might have heard that

Your profile says female
only 3.something of the population is gay
it's a safe assumption

and your profile pic reminds me of a certain manga paneeeeeeeel

It's from a cartoon, not sure why that would make you think of a mango. And That statistic sounds low to me, but whatever percent of the population is gay, I'm part of it. I'm a glorious fag in a few ways

Oh, Yeah!
You're not glorious enough to post in **** tho??

why do you think my username is twiceasfun?
Indeed, I have yet to post in **** , though I may at some point

i dunnoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo..........
Don't forget about meeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Forget about what regarding you? haha what is the relevance of that picture and why is the name edited to be greed? I am confuse

Mentioning meeeeeeeee static2.fjcdn.com/thumbnails/comments/5537660+_9d4bbce615893278bedf44b47357268b.jpg
I thought it was the name of the character at first lol

Okay sure why not. And that link is just the picture again by itself, doesn't really explain anything haha

I-I'm fallin' 4 you... /All+glory+to+the+hypnotoad/funny-pictures/5538104/28 it was made by an user , sorry copied the wrong link

Oddly enough, the comment that was replying to was made by me on my previous profile. Love this gif

It was destiny binding us together <3 . Love u 2

Fantastic :p

I...wait, seriously?

haha seriously what? :p

I'm not really okay with my whole face, so I'm surprised that an attractive girl finds me...not bad.

I don't form much for opinions on a guy's looks

Ah, well, neato! At least now I don't feel so bad.

You shouldn't :3

I try my best not to .

Good