I'm not responsible for other people misusing the term white knight, but I definitely think the word deserves merit in certain situations.

I CAN say it's a privilege that women don't HAVE to go to war in drafting situations, because regardless of the reasons, it's an obvious benefit that you aren't being FORCED to go to war in the case of a draft.

Okay, murder is different than rape. With murder there is a dead body and clear evidence, with rape it may or may have not happened and if you're accused of it it is extremely difficult to prove yourself innocent, and I don't know if any women have actually falsely been accused of rape and gotten in trouble for it.

I know it's not easy to be a stay at home parent (and I do have quite a lot of experience taking care of my half-sisters 4 children) but it's not terrible. I mean, you get to be in the comfort of your home, often able to wear pajamas, while watching T.V while taking care of the kids. If you want to take the kids to do this, then you do it.

I mean, if kids are so uncontrollable it's probably the parents fault anyway, unless there are some mental disabilities in the kids.

I would choose to be a stay at home mom than a dad that is forced to work a job he hates any day, without a second thought.

Keep in mind, I wasn't really trying to take a lot of time to put a lot of thought into the way I structured this.

Women and children first is not outdated, in any natural disaster they are still the priority.

I never said women should go to war, just that it's a benefit that they don't have to.

No, I'm not expecting people to call a supposed rape victim a liar, I'm expecting to not basically consider the guy a rapist just because a woman said so, countless mens lives have been ruined over false accusations. Those people that make false accusations are seemingly regular people.

I say white knights because I'm not talking about people simply defending someone, I'm talking about men that get overly aggressive when defending a woman when they don't even know if they're the bad guy in the situation. I have seen women start fights with a guy, the guy does nothing wrong, and gets a bunch of other guys jumping down his throat just because a woman is mad at him so they assume he did something wrong.

There are plenty of women that have a husband without a well paying job that still don't have to work, and many people would argue that taking care of the house would be much better than having to work some shitty job that you might dread going to every day, without the option to not do it. Sure more and more women are working and supporting their familes, because they WANT to, not because they are forced into it.

Sure, you should be a decent person, but people are even more decent to women than they are to men, your point is exactly my point.

hell, many women choose to go to work once the kid starts school.

I have been called a white knight MANY times, and I know I wasn't being unreasonable.

you can't say it's a privilege that women don't go to war, it's not something that happens because women are valued over men. it's because they're not useful in the situation.

yes, you're right. a man shouldn't be labeled a rapist just because someone accused him. but it's how society works. a person who is accused of murder is fucked for life regardless of whether or not they're found guilty. man or woman, it doesn't matter.

and that's something you say now, but have you ever card for 2-3 kids by yourself? while trying to get other jobs done, making sure they don't kill themselves or each other at the same time... it's not easy. it's not fun either. many men see work as a break away from it.

I'm not responsible for other people misusing the term white knight, but I definitely think the word deserves merit in certain situations.

I CAN say it's a privilege that women don't HAVE to go to war in drafting situations, because regardless of the reasons, it's an obvious benefit that you aren't being FORCED to go to war in the case of a draft.

Okay, murder is different than rape. With murder there is a dead body and clear evidence, with rape it may or may have not happened and if you're accused of it it is extremely difficult to prove yourself innocent, and I don't know if any women have actually falsely been accused of rape and gotten in trouble for it.

I know it's not easy to be a stay at home parent (and I do have quite a lot of experience taking care of my half-sisters 4 children) but it's not terrible. I mean, you get to be in the comfort of your home, often able to wear pajamas, while watching T.V while taking care of the kids. If you want to take the kids to do this, then you do it.

I mean, if kids are so uncontrollable it's probably the parents fault anyway, unless there are some mental disabilities in the kids.

Because if a woman gets attacked by a man, she is basically defenseless due to physical disadvantage. Plus, not all women carry self defense weapons and plenty of guys do also.

Plenty of guys have gotten attacked, physically or sexually. If a guy is raped or attacked he is VERY unlikely to tell anybody about it. Guys get raped in prison and people laugh, women get raped in prison and people protest for reform of that prison.

I will add, what stay at home mothers do is a thankless job with no pay whatsoever.

and really. why did you have to bring this to items? it's a nice place here. we don't need to bring this bullshit into it.

I would choose to be a stay at home mom than a dad that is forced to work a job he hates any day, without a second thought.

im good at ur mom

I feel embarrassed for you