Uh, sure!

Yay. First off: What do you usually pick? Spacer/Earth; Sole Survivor/Warhero; Renenage/Paragon, etc.

You know war hero gives you extra paragon points? I usually go with femShep Colonist/war hero, inflitrator and mostly paragon. I'm re-playing ME2 and did you play ME3 yet?

Yes. Beat ME3 with femshep and just started ME1 with maleshep. Took the same character through all three games.

I need to look up the wiki for paragon/renegade points, I'd like to get a maleshep that gets renegade points easily.

Earth born and ruthless are the renegade starters. Spacer/war hero are paragon starters.

Do you romance anyone playing man/femShep?

Liara all through 3 games as femshep.

Thinking of going an ashley/tali route for maleshep.

Though I'd like to play a game where I don't kill of Kaidan. He's died in both runs thus far.

I dont really like saving Kaidan as femShep. He follows her around like some sort of lost puppy and even if you only talked to him once if you save him on Virimire he's all like "Ashley died instead of me because we're together" and I was like "WTF I only talked to you one time."

It is strange. Kaidan attaches himself to femshep pretty easily. I was having to fend him off in ME1 as femshep, seeing as how my options were:

Generic rugged male
Blue alien with feminine form

As opposed to

Generic female
Blue alien with feminine form

For maleshep.

Well at least ME2 options are pretty good for femShep--and then go back to sucking in ME3. Seeing as Kaidan/Ash are all "You joined the bad guys.. you meanie head! HATE YOUR GUTS" and then more "Hate your guts, oh nevermind you're cool now cause Vega said so"

I dont really like either of them, honestly. I wish I could do super renegade and leave them both on Virimire. Maybe pick up a super cool gun instead or something, I dunno.