really? to me it seemed like "how bout you dont touch my fucking legos?"

mmm yes I can see that as well...

Yeah I can get behind that but personally I would want to find some sort of indirect way to teach him a lesson rather than something like that but now this is getting a bit beyond because I'd have no idea what that would be. Aside from the topic I really do appreciate the conversation and I feel like I'll walk away from this with more insight than before.

I actually agree with that a lot and my point basically is the now increasingly applicable statement an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. But I understand what you are saying it just seemed to me that the guy wouldn't give a shit regardless whereas the girl seemed to care but instead of simply fixing it she caused a conflict. I feel like theres always going to be assholes like the guy but I also feel like the good people are starting to act a lot more like the assholes.

"an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind" is a good statement but the issue is that the rest of the people simply have to submissively deal with the asshole's actions. I don't believe people should act like children in a cycle of revenge like, "They hit me first!" but I also don't believe it to be fair for some to get away with "hitting" someone and that other person just being the bigger man and going home with a "black eye". The "hitter" will go home with no reason to even think about changing their ways. If I could have people act the way i wanted, I would simply have everyone deal with their own crap. People can always ask for help or receive help but they should never leave their chores/duties to someone else. I do completely understand what you're saying though and believe she could have dealt with the situation more maturely but I do feel he needed to be taught some lesson that could have an impact.

Yeah I can get behind that but personally I would want to find some sort of indirect way to teach him a lesson rather than something like that but now this is getting a bit beyond because I'd have no idea what that would be. Aside from the topic I really do appreciate the conversation and I feel like I'll walk away from this with more insight than before.

Well, he is 12.