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scootabot (11/26/2015) [-] 
Don't worry about it, Inkie.
I misjudged you and I've got a lot to make up for.
You've taught me that I need to take both sides before judging on an entire scenario. I let my emotions get in the way of what was right.
Just, please, refrain from mentioning Him and keep your relationship with Quill in a private setting... He really doesn't need a reason to get jealous and try and 'Win you back'. He's a little unstable, as I'm sure you're well aware.
Again, I really hope that things will be fine between us.. And I really wish you and Quill the best of luck together! I'm sure you two are really sweet together.
I misjudged you and I've got a lot to make up for.
You've taught me that I need to take both sides before judging on an entire scenario. I let my emotions get in the way of what was right.
Just, please, refrain from mentioning Him and keep your relationship with Quill in a private setting... He really doesn't need a reason to get jealous and try and 'Win you back'. He's a little unstable, as I'm sure you're well aware.
Again, I really hope that things will be fine between us.. And I really wish you and Quill the best of luck together! I'm sure you two are really sweet together.
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scootabot (11/27/2015) [-] I understand. I just mistook you for someone who really is trying to benefit off of someone else's troubles, when all along, you've got your own troubles to sort out.
If you want, I can talk to shea, try and get her/him to understand the situation a little better. Honestly, if you explained your case without resorting to "bad things happened" or "he blah blah blah", just tell them how you feel about all of this. Tell them that what happened between you two isn't as black and white as it seems.
If they want more information, they should ask, if not, then they should just leave it be. It's done and over. Hopefully you're moving on with Quill. Shadow still has a lot of stuff to work over. His heart is definitely broken, but he did that because he felt that you two were in love. You shouldn't have led him on, but I understand where you're coming from.
I'm guilty of the same thing. Caring too much about someone even though your heart isn't in it. It's a hollow relationship that leaves you feeling empty. It's not a good feeling, but Shadow doesn't seem to understand that. He felt whole with you and he hates the fact that his working and stuff caused him to not get to get closer to you.
I told him that love takes time and patience. What he did, what both of you did, was sort of ran before you learned to crawl. You both sort of rushed into a relationship based on nothing more than loneliness and lust. If you two were friends, then I have no doubt that you and Shadow could have been more.
If you want, I can talk to shea, try and get her/him to understand the situation a little better. Honestly, if you explained your case without resorting to "bad things happened" or "he blah blah blah", just tell them how you feel about all of this. Tell them that what happened between you two isn't as black and white as it seems.
If they want more information, they should ask, if not, then they should just leave it be. It's done and over. Hopefully you're moving on with Quill. Shadow still has a lot of stuff to work over. His heart is definitely broken, but he did that because he felt that you two were in love. You shouldn't have led him on, but I understand where you're coming from.
I'm guilty of the same thing. Caring too much about someone even though your heart isn't in it. It's a hollow relationship that leaves you feeling empty. It's not a good feeling, but Shadow doesn't seem to understand that. He felt whole with you and he hates the fact that his working and stuff caused him to not get to get closer to you.
I told him that love takes time and patience. What he did, what both of you did, was sort of ran before you learned to crawl. You both sort of rushed into a relationship based on nothing more than loneliness and lust. If you two were friends, then I have no doubt that you and Shadow could have been more.
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inkie ONLINE (11/27/2015) [-] I think the work that he was doing and what he works for now was somewhat of a catalyst, as well as the other things I've said
It's a shame because.. because he was a great friend that I've shared lots of good memories with. With Quill, I've known her for at least 2 years before we really got to envelop as a couple.
It's a shame because.. because he was a great friend that I've shared lots of good memories with. With Quill, I've known her for at least 2 years before we really got to envelop as a couple.
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scootabot (11/27/2015) [-] He's really wanting to apologize for everything that's happened, but he says coming onto FJ makes him go into a cold sweat.
So, I'm asking him to just take it easy for now, and let him know that you're willing to accept his apology if, or when, you do. You and I both know he's a mess right now, but I'm wondering just how long it'll take him to get over this. I think it'll take nothing short of him finding a completely different person to really begin moving on.
I've been doing my best to keep him calm and not self destructive, but if he comes around FJ, then I think he might just become our worst fears.
He's a sweet guy, but .. man. This stuff is just really heavy.
So, I'm asking him to just take it easy for now, and let him know that you're willing to accept his apology if, or when, you do. You and I both know he's a mess right now, but I'm wondering just how long it'll take him to get over this. I think it'll take nothing short of him finding a completely different person to really begin moving on.
I've been doing my best to keep him calm and not self destructive, but if he comes around FJ, then I think he might just become our worst fears.
He's a sweet guy, but .. man. This stuff is just really heavy.
