By definition, I speak English (British standard) and you speak English (American standard), and you're right, for you, the correct spelling is 'honor'. People who try to correct on that are just being pedantic and making an obnoxious stance on their patriotism. Frankly, I prefer the American standard of spelling; it removes letters that in the context of the spelling structure of a word makes sense, and a lot of what we use are superfluous artifacts from the word's origin.