Either she doesn't believe you (she thought that you were trying to steal him away from her or something), or she's retarded.

I showed her all the texts. She's in denial and there's nothing I can do about it and I hate it.

If she continues to fumble in the dark after you've shown her the light, that's her own problem. You should move on.

I guess.... I know it isn't my fault because I didn't know, but also, I am part of the cause of her pain, and I hate that

Is she your friend? I don't understand why you care so much about this woman. Try this (assuming the girl will still listen to you.), get her to come with you and confront the boy about it.

I've never met her in my life. But I'm overly caring about literally everyone. It's a blessing and a curse.

Yes, you can't help and please everyone though. You have to accept that. I still care about people, but I've come to accept that. I'm not a superhero. I can't save everyone. That's the reality of things you need to face as well. At this moment, people are dying, getting raped, beaten, kidnapped, etc. We can't save them all. If there is a God, I don't understand why it would allow this to continue.

I know. Her best friend got involved as a neutral party and she's really nice so she's actually been checking in that I'm ok. But apparently the girlfriend is considering staying with him and that terrifies me.

If she wishes to play with fire, one can also learn through pain. However, lets not jump to conclusions and give them the benefit of doubt. This ordeal probably made him change. Time will tell.

Except that this isn't the first time, apparently.

That's sad.

Wait, the girlfriend is calling you out? Or the ex-boyfriend?

The girlfriend.

Either she doesn't believe you (she thought that you were trying to steal him away from her or something), or she's retarded.

I showed her all the texts. She's in denial and there's nothing I can do about it and I hate it.

If she continues to fumble in the dark after you've shown her the light, that's her own problem. You should move on.

I guess.... I know it isn't my fault because I didn't know, but also, I am part of the cause of her pain, and I hate that

Is she your friend? I don't understand why you care so much about this woman. Try this (assuming the girl will still listen to you.), get her to come with you and confront the boy about it.

I've never met her in my life. But I'm overly caring about literally everyone. It's a blessing and a curse.

Yes, you can't help and please everyone though. You have to accept that. I still care about people, but I've come to accept that. I'm not a superhero. I can't save everyone. That's the reality of things you need to face as well. At this moment, people are dying, getting raped, beaten, kidnapped, etc. We can't save them all. If there is a God, I don't understand why it would allow this to continue.

I know. Her best friend got involved as a neutral party and she's really nice so she's actually been checking in that I'm ok. But apparently the girlfriend is considering staying with him and that terrifies me.

If she wishes to play with fire, one can also learn through pain. However, lets not jump to conclusions and give them the benefit of doubt. This ordeal probably made him change. Time will tell.

Except that this isn't the first time, apparently.

That's sad.

Well you aren't. You need to believe you did the right thing by telling her.

I know I did the right thing. I know I'm not t fault here. It's just such a shitty situation in general.

My tamagotchi died when I was but a child.

This I can do.

Mmm, that was my mother's mistake for the longest time and still to this day, God I just hate people who take advantage of others. I use to do it but I definitely changed and turned into a better person I think. I mean, it's good that you're a good person but it's just gonna give you some heartbreak/troubles in the future, there needs to be a point where you stop being a good person and show people the word "no" and stand up for yourself. I guess it's kind of hard because you don't know if the person deserves it or not. Some people I just want to be good to all the time and sometimes not at all. Usually the people I respect I want to impress and not be a burden to them.

Wish I had an answer to the whole, people walk over me, because I would use it on my family as well.

I appreciate that. The problem is that I want to be there and be kind to the people who deserve it. I feel good when I'm able to see other people happy. Which makes this whole situation worse, because I know I'm part of what's caused this girl massive heartbreak.

It was his choice, not yours. I'm sure you aren't the type of person that would purposefully get with a guy that is dating somebody else.

I literally messaged his girlfriend within 10 minutes of finding out to tell her everything. I've spent almost 24 hours being told what a terrible human being I am.

Wait, the girlfriend is calling you out? Or the ex-boyfriend?

The girlfriend.

Either she doesn't believe you (she thought that you were trying to steal him away from her or something), or she's retarded.

I showed her all the texts. She's in denial and there's nothing I can do about it and I hate it.

If she continues to fumble in the dark after you've shown her the light, that's her own problem. You should move on.

I guess.... I know it isn't my fault because I didn't know, but also, I am part of the cause of her pain, and I hate that

Is she your friend? I don't understand why you care so much about this woman. Try this (assuming the girl will still listen to you.), get her to come with you and confront the boy about it.

I've never met her in my life. But I'm overly caring about literally everyone. It's a blessing and a curse.

Yes, you can't help and please everyone though. You have to accept that. I still care about people, but I've come to accept that. I'm not a superhero. I can't save everyone. That's the reality of things you need to face as well. At this moment, people are dying, getting raped, beaten, kidnapped, etc. We can't save them all. If there is a God, I don't understand why it would allow this to continue.

I know. Her best friend got involved as a neutral party and she's really nice so she's actually been checking in that I'm ok. But apparently the girlfriend is considering staying with him and that terrifies me.

If she wishes to play with fire, one can also learn through pain. However, lets not jump to conclusions and give them the benefit of doubt. This ordeal probably made him change. Time will tell.

Except that this isn't the first time, apparently.

That's sad.

Well you aren't. You need to believe you did the right thing by telling her.

I know I did the right thing. I know I'm not t fault here. It's just such a shitty situation in general.

I would if I could. :/

My tamagotchi died when I was but a child.

This I can do.

joshlol isn't some famous guy.

hello

Does this mean I'm FJ famous now?

Hope things get better

Not a problem, people just need to catch up, that's all

Waiting sure sucks.

Hope things get better

haha yeah I don't know, I find that maturity really is important for close relationships

Everyone always tells me I have an old soul and all that. Maybe that's my problem. xD

Not a problem, people just need to catch up, that's all

Waiting sure sucks.

Hope things get better

They may just not seem to notice, some people are just incapable of expressing what people mean to them. I'm not sure how young you are but this often gets better with age as people mature and aren't uncomfortable letting people know what they mean to them.

I mean, college, so yeah, I'm pretty young. And if this is really the case, can I please be old now? Lol

haha yeah I don't know, I find that maturity really is important for close relationships

Everyone always tells me I have an old soul and all that. Maybe that's my problem. xD

Not a problem, people just need to catch up, that's all

Waiting sure sucks.

Hope things get better

haha I'm sure you are and it's good you know that. I hope that at least makes it easier to know that you are helping so many others.

In some ways it makes it worse, because I literally work so hard to make other people happy and none of them seem to notice.

They may just not seem to notice, some people are just incapable of expressing what people mean to them. I'm not sure how young you are but this often gets better with age as people mature and aren't uncomfortable letting people know what they mean to them.

I mean, college, so yeah, I'm pretty young. And if this is really the case, can I please be old now? Lol

haha yeah I don't know, I find that maturity really is important for close relationships

Everyone always tells me I have an old soul and all that. Maybe that's my problem. xD

Not a problem, people just need to catch up, that's all

Waiting sure sucks.

Hope things get better

Being happy with who I am has helped me with the loneliness... but it's always going to be hard. It seems like you're a good person so hopefully if you keep on keeping on, you'll attract the people you deserve.

This is going to sound kind of conceited but I promise I'm not an asshole.

I'm very aware that I'm an incredible human being. I'm literally nice to everyone, even people I don't like. I worry like crazy about everyone and just want everyone to be happy. So I know people would be fucking lucky to be my friends.

I just wish they realized that.

haha I'm sure you are and it's good you know that. I hope that at least makes it easier to know that you are helping so many others.

In some ways it makes it worse, because I literally work so hard to make other people happy and none of them seem to notice.

They may just not seem to notice, some people are just incapable of expressing what people mean to them. I'm not sure how young you are but this often gets better with age as people mature and aren't uncomfortable letting people know what they mean to them.

I mean, college, so yeah, I'm pretty young. And if this is really the case, can I please be old now? Lol

haha yeah I don't know, I find that maturity really is important for close relationships

Everyone always tells me I have an old soul and all that. Maybe that's my problem. xD

Not a problem, people just need to catch up, that's all

Waiting sure sucks.

Hope things get better

The truth is you're probably just a better person than they are. I know what it's like to give so much of yourself to people and still not get the appreciation you deserve, it's extremely frustrating. It sucks but you need to try to make yourself happy rather than relying on others who aren't ready to treat you how you deserve. Maybe some space from them will make them realize that they have been taking you for granted.

Of course, clearly trying to spend time with them doesn't help the loneliness. xD

Being happy with who I am has helped me with the loneliness... but it's always going to be hard. It seems like you're a good person so hopefully if you keep on keeping on, you'll attract the people you deserve.

This is going to sound kind of conceited but I promise I'm not an asshole.

I'm very aware that I'm an incredible human being. I'm literally nice to everyone, even people I don't like. I worry like crazy about everyone and just want everyone to be happy. So I know people would be fucking lucky to be my friends.

I just wish they realized that.

haha I'm sure you are and it's good you know that. I hope that at least makes it easier to know that you are helping so many others.

In some ways it makes it worse, because I literally work so hard to make other people happy and none of them seem to notice.

They may just not seem to notice, some people are just incapable of expressing what people mean to them. I'm not sure how young you are but this often gets better with age as people mature and aren't uncomfortable letting people know what they mean to them.

I mean, college, so yeah, I'm pretty young. And if this is really the case, can I please be old now? Lol

haha yeah I don't know, I find that maturity really is important for close relationships

Everyone always tells me I have an old soul and all that. Maybe that's my problem. xD

Not a problem, people just need to catch up, that's all

Waiting sure sucks.

Hope things get better

That's such a lonely way to live though. And while I definitely need alone time, I don't want to actually feel lonely...

Well I was in your position once. I came to this board for help and some of the shit people said to me helped me get over the whole problem.

I was pretty alone for the longest time, or so I thought. Your friends can be there for you but not 100% of the time. You might think since they are your friends that they should be there for you, well the world isn't revolving around you, even after the majority of us are gone, the earth will still spin. We're not all that important.

I came here for some advice and the people here helped me figure out that I'm not all the important and I should start making time for myself and stop relying on others. So yeah, you're friends might make it out like you're not important but some of the more important good friends probably do think you're really awesome but they won't show it.

Honestly, I've gotten better at not feeling like my friends should be with me through things 100% of the time. It's good to show your feelings but you should hide some of them. If people are worth having around in your life, then you'll probably catch on to who those people are.

So in the long run, you don't matter at all, but to some people you matter way too much, which is way more important IMO. I just watched some southpark last night, feel like kyle giving out these speeches

You matter! You're just a little lost is all. Try going to the park and meditating. It helps

lol kill urself fattie

you don't
try family or irl friends, not strangers on the internet who couldn't care less if you died

Go watch happy cat videos, these depressing thoughts are for shower time.

I wish I were at home so I could cuddle my actual cats. This is the real reason I should have gone to a college close to home.

Are you ok?

I don't know what situation you're in but it will get better. I'm not exactly ok right now either but I find comfort in remembering the ups and downs of the past, it puts it into perspective that while we go through a lot of though times, it's what we have to go through in order to enjoy the highs of life. If you want someone to vent to feel free to pm me.

Just generally feeling like I don't matter nearly as much to anyone as they do to me. I don't know if it's really something anyone can help with except to have them show me they care. Which isn't really gonna happen. xD

The truth is you're probably just a better person than they are. I know what it's like to give so much of yourself to people and still not get the appreciation you deserve, it's extremely frustrating. It sucks but you need to try to make yourself happy rather than relying on others who aren't ready to treat you how you deserve. Maybe some space from them will make them realize that they have been taking you for granted.

Of course, clearly trying to spend time with them doesn't help the loneliness. xD

Being happy with who I am has helped me with the loneliness... but it's always going to be hard. It seems like you're a good person so hopefully if you keep on keeping on, you'll attract the people you deserve.

This is going to sound kind of conceited but I promise I'm not an asshole.

I'm very aware that I'm an incredible human being. I'm literally nice to everyone, even people I don't like. I worry like crazy about everyone and just want everyone to be happy. So I know people would be fucking lucky to be my friends.

I just wish they realized that.

haha I'm sure you are and it's good you know that. I hope that at least makes it easier to know that you are helping so many others.

In some ways it makes it worse, because I literally work so hard to make other people happy and none of them seem to notice.

They may just not seem to notice, some people are just incapable of expressing what people mean to them. I'm not sure how young you are but this often gets better with age as people mature and aren't uncomfortable letting people know what they mean to them.

I mean, college, so yeah, I'm pretty young. And if this is really the case, can I please be old now? Lol

haha yeah I don't know, I find that maturity really is important for close relationships

Everyone always tells me I have an old soul and all that. Maybe that's my problem. xD

Not a problem, people just need to catch up, that's all

Waiting sure sucks.

Hope things get better

That's such a lonely way to live though. And while I definitely need alone time, I don't want to actually feel lonely...

Right now I am really not ok at all.

I made a new friend here on FJ today and later saw someone I knew from my high school while shopping with my mom for a family friend's baby shower gift.

Apparently some boy saved a horse's life. Link in spoiler. www.goodnewsnetwork.org/9-year-old-boy-uses-birthday-money-to-save-horse-on-death-row/

Not sure if legit site, but it's something.

Well, then I guess all I can say is patience :/ Not much else you can do, unless you go running around doing hundreds of auditions, but then you lose time being in school/working/etc. Yeah just be patient I guess.

Which is fair enough, some schools DO have better programs. So I guess my advice is from the institutions that haven't responded to you yet, find out which ones have the best programs and scale it via that, regardless of distance/family/friends. It's your education right? Therefore you should go the the school with the best possible program (best program available)

My current second choice does have a really good program, but I have no idea if I'm going to get in or not.

I want to be an actress. My top two schools were the only two I had time to audition for, so the rest of the schools, while they do have acting programs, are not as good. I know I've been accepted to the acting school at my second choice school, but have yet to hear whether or not I've been accepted to the school itself. It's stressful.

Well, then I guess all I can say is patience :/ Not much else you can do, unless you go running around doing hundreds of auditions, but then you lose time being in school/working/etc. Yeah just be patient I guess.