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#82 - You really want to know what we get pissed about? We get piss…  [+] (1 new reply) 02/11/2014 on Opinion time -3
User avatar #101 - PrinceZukosLover (02/11/2014) [-]
XD Have I once said anything dehumanizing? Said that things weren't difficult? I made an observation, not a joke.
#77 - What kind of issues? Cause the only thing I ever see anybody …  [+] (1 new reply) 02/11/2014 on Opinion time -3
#81 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
again:
so what?
that someone offended you yesterday allows you to be a jerk to someone completely different today?

and just for you to reflect on: i didnt dehumanise you, and you still got pissed.
#76 - I proved nothing of any value to you, except that you seem to …  [+] (3 new replies) 02/11/2014 on Opinion time -3
User avatar #79 - PrinceZukosLover (02/11/2014) [-]
You proved that someone can make a comment about that community and you find a reason to freak out.
#82 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
You really want to know what we get pissed about? We get pissed about going our whole lives forced to live a lie, then being harassed, when we refuse to do so. We get pissed when people aren't willing to recognize that we're just human beings, just like anybody else. We get pissed when a trans person is pushed to suicide, because some asshole who doesn't even know them can't shut the fuck up about it. We get pissed over losing our jobs just for being who we are, while pretty much every other fucking person in America is protected. And yet, you seem to be under theimpression that none of us have any right to be offended when "tranny" jokes are made that dehumanize an entire fucking culture group at the cost of a couple laughs
User avatar #101 - PrinceZukosLover (02/11/2014) [-]
XD Have I once said anything dehumanizing? Said that things weren't difficult? I made an observation, not a joke.
#74 - WHY THE **** DO YOU THINK SO MANY OF US ATTEMPT S…  [+] (19 new replies) 02/11/2014 on Opinion time -2
#80 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
sorry... but you realise its not like the fucking only group that has suicidal people?!
#86 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
I realize this, but it's one of the highest suicide groups out of the LGBT community these days, because it's not something you can just hide, and many of us just can't take the pain of being disowned by family when we're already getting hurt by misconceptions in the world
#91 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
i understand its hard.
i dont mean to tell you "its nothing, stop whining". i understand it must be hard for you.

but i just mean bitching at innocent people is still not alright.

also it might be highest suicide rate in lgbt... but that doesnt mean its the highest of the whole population.
#95 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
Nothing innocent about trying to make anybody seem less legitimate than anybody else. It's not right
#99 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
so my comment that states "because you are fucked up (as already explained, in a sense that you bitch at innocent people just because others treated you bad) someone else has to accept that you act like a jerk/bitch?" was me making you less legimtimate than someone else?!
#103 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
You called trans people were fucked up, for being trans. That in itself is dehumanizing, because you are putting personal bias before medically documented fact
#105 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
i didnt say they are fucked up for being trans.
i said they are fucked up if they act like assholes just because they had issues
#111 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
Saying we have "issues" is trying to say that it's just a mental thing, that we're wrong. Do you think you know who we are better than we do?
#112 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
you really dont realise you live up the perfect stereotype of said people right now?

i meant having issues because people acted badly towards them! (as explained in other comments already to you!).
of course someone has issues if they get treated like shit, kicked out of family, ridiculed or what do i know.
but all of that still doesnt give any person the right to treat an innocent people badly.
#145 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
Knowing trans people and being understanding of trans people to the point where you can understand that misgendering us is a major insult to who we are as human beings are 2 totally different things
#150 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
you are starting to get annoying... sorry.
i know enough trans that are normal. maybe it seems strange because of the net and me not hearing your voice and such, but you just seem too whiny to me. i dont know your story and all but still...

that a person takes something as an insult doesnt mean it is one. thats all i can say to that. that you take it as an insult if i say "he's a man, but he feels like a woman..." doesnt mean i insulted you.
#137 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
Difference between this^ and bullying: Bullying is an attempt to harass someone to make them feel bad about themselves, because of their own insecurities. This is an attempt to educate someone who, until today, likely had no understanding of what trans people really are (hint.. It's humans. It's always humans)
#141 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
and again you are the one taking assumptions about me while i havent done that a single time about you.
btw: you also ignored that i have contact and know trans people...
#120 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
Because this isn't bullying, this is an attempt to get some kind of understanding. Don't try to call yourself innocent, by the way, You opened yourself up to this
User avatar #668 - sursum (02/11/2014) [-]
So hold on. You will get offended when someone identifies you as a male even though they aren't attempting to insult you, it was just the use of the word "he" or "him" or something? Surely all you need to do is ask that the person refers to you as "her" or whatever and understand that the person wasn't misidentifying you out of malice but because its completely normal for him to do as he did.
#128 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
isnt that basically the argument all bullies use? "its your own fault" ?


but yes, you are right. you are not bullying me, we are discussing things.
but you stepped over the border of politeness a few times already. and also you consequently ignored the parts in wich i explained i treat trans equally, i dont mind them, i dont care about what a person wants to be and i understand its hard for them. ignoring all these parts and taking every comment the worst possible way possible was just fitting the stereotype stated above...
#114 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
Want to talk about issues in that case? I'd gladly debate that as well. Many of us have PTSD from years of abuse and harassment. All because people don't understand it, and can't have the decency to try. We get bullied so much in our lives, how can we be blamed when we stand up for ourselves?
User avatar #747 - admiralen (02/11/2014) [-]
"stand up for yourselves" lol
youre acting like a retard to a person who arent properly informed.
its people like you who give trans people a bad name to begin with.
#118 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
i hope you dont mean its alright for people that got bullied to start bullying innocent people too?
i sure hope you meant to defend against the one bullying.

because (i'm slowly losing patience): AS I SAID! Acting like an ass to innocent people just because others bullied you is still not alright!
#72 - It's about having some basic human decency, you sorry piece of…  [+] (42 new replies) 02/11/2014 on Opinion time -7
#78 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
you sure dont give a good example with your behaviour right now...

and what does decency have to do with it?
i'm not saying treat them liek shit or anything. as i said, everyone can do whatever they want.
but i dont see any reason to file in "white" in ethnicity if the person is black and tells me "yeah, but i feel that i am white!". sorry.
do whatever you want, i dont mind. but dont bitch around like that because someone like me (who hasnt done anything against you or has denied you the right to do whatever you want) says i got a database to have in my company and i need the gender. biological gender, not what you feel.
#84 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
Do you live in the US? Because by law, you can't tell trans people to fuck off if they want to work as the gender they identify as anymore
#88 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
oh, and no. not usa
#90 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
Where? Middle east? Europe?
#96 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
europe, austria.
#87 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
sorry if you misunderstood.
its not about telling them to fuck off. and the worker can come as a guy/woman... doesnt really matter to the job anyway.
but we got to file the person to the state-insurance and need to label them as male or females. (different amount of money needed to pay and other laws applying)
#93 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
Different country, different law. Most of the civilized world is progressive enough to recognize literally thousands of pages of well documented medical research on the subject. They even have a cause possibly pinned down from before birth
#97 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
so what?
what did that argument have to do with the biological status of the body?!
#100 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
Biological status of the body has a whole new meaning when there are a multitude of different recognized chromosonal patterns outside of the traditional XX/XY. Also, biological status doesn't impact who you are at the core of your being.
#104 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
and it does impact you in the core of your being what gender is signed in a database or your passport?
#107 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
Don't have a passport, but in the US, I can get every single document I have ever been issued since birth to recognize me as a woman. Including birth certificate, licenses, Social Security cards, passports, and everything else.
#110 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
so what?
the usa isnt really the best thing as a rolemodel anyway...
#113 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
Ok, England, then. Trans people can serve openly in the military, have all documents changed accordingly, and have state funded corrective surgery. Want more? How about Israel? Corrected ID, open service. Russia? corrected ID. Only trouble is the stupid anti LGBT propaganda law. Most of civilized Europe? See England, and Israel
#115 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
you do know that the legal age gets changed but there still is a database with the old, biological gender? its just not accessible to public.
#119 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
No, there isn't. What does age have to do with any of this? Legally, I am a woman. By all laws of the US, my documentation is changed to female. By law, and by Identity, I am a woman. It's that simple
User avatar #330 - tealcanaan (02/11/2014) [-]
Ya, but your cock (or hole where it used to be) makes you a man to me, you can do what you want, but don't go around trying to trick normal people that your anything but a dude playing dress up. If what ever guy that wants to fuck you does tell him that you are infertal and used to be a dude beforehand. Because if i had that happen to me I would be traumatized and questioning whats is real in this world. And if your into women but are trans-queer (whatever the fuck that is) you are just being redundant, don't you think?
User avatar #342 - tealcanaan (02/11/2014) [-]
Seeing as you blocked me, i'll reply to myself. Cool, have fun being the redundant, self-indulgent, special snowflake that you are. I really don't care that you have "lesbian" sex with your "feminine" dick, in fact most people don't. People just don't like it when you go around acting like its the most normal thing in the fucking world, it's not, it is actually pretty fucking strange, just keep your cross dressing fetish to yourself while you fuck your girlfriend.
#332 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
That's a personal opinion, not scientific fact. Besides, I don't flash it around, it stays tucked completely between my legs pretty much 24 hours a day, unless I'm in the bathroom, behind closed doors, or in my own bedroom. And don't assume I fuck guys, just because I'm trans, the idea of sex with a man just plain repulses me, these days. Lucky for me, decent women, at least lesbian women, can usually recognize me for who I really am, so your personal views about me aren't really of any consequence to me. Also, considering I have a partner now, and she is perfectly happy to accept me for whom I really am, I don't think I much care about anybody's opinion about me anymore. I don't do this for you assholes, I do it because it's the only way I can feel comfortable as myself
#134 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
you realise that i just said there is such a database. then you said "No there isnt". then i show you there is one. (taking the uk example you gave). and your reply is "yes there is one, but its a bad example".

seriously. are you just trying to be against what i say or are you reflecting on your replies?
#139 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
I keep referring to the US, you keep referring to European countries. How the hell is anybody supposed to follow this argument?
#125 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
Certain authorised agencies, with court permission, may have access to the Gender Recognition Register showing the links between these certificates, but the link will be invisible to the general public. This is the same way that birth certificates drawn from the Adoption Register work.
#132 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
In the UK, not the US. Also, that's a deep underlying registry that has no public viewing option whatsoever, and is of no consequence to any civilian whatsoever. For government use only, in a situation where it will likely never be accessed, except for in criminal cases, is not a good example
#83 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
You're using arguments that have never happened in the history of humanity, except by people who were raised to believe that having a different color was shameful. That's not remotely like what being trans is. You're basically using the "I feel like a dog, so I'm a dog" argument, which has never, in history, been documented
#85 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
now lsiten to me:

i KNOW people that are like this. a know a racist black "white-power" guy that has scarred a lot of his skin because he is ashamed he is black.
i know a half turkish half german guy who decapitated his turkish dad because he wanted to prove to the other guys he was a nazi and hates foreigners.
i know people that are ashamed of being white and even lie about having some skin disease.

so dont just go out and act all like "this has NEVER IN HISTORY happened." seriously...
#89 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
1: Ashamed he's black. Why? Because of bullshit like white supremacy. That's not the same as knowing deep down, at the pit of your soul, that you're white. Again, no historical documentation.

2: Nazi. Why? Because he thinks it's cool, and wants to fit in, so they don't target him. Not the same.

3: Ashamed of being white. See #1
#94 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
so what, you are going to deny these people that they know what they are deep down?

isnt that exactly what people do to your group?
#98 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
Because there is no medical documentation. At all. Trans has thousands of medical papers. millions of hours of combined research. thousands of years of documented history in most of the known civilizations.
User avatar #754 - admiralen (02/11/2014) [-]
do you have a mental condition or something?
youre denying your own fucking arguments by now.
how do you know youre a woman?
what makes you any fucking different from his examples? they knew they were white, they knew they were nazi deep down.
if you start spouting some vague fucking medical shit youre just digging your own grave cause if that was the case you are technically a male thanks to your Y chromosome
#781 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
Nazi is a political party, not a mental condition, genius. You learn to be a nazi, it's not an ingrained fucking mentality. You have to be taught that shit. Nobody ever taught me I wasn't male.
User avatar #784 - admiralen (02/11/2014) [-]
>implying everything you consider male isnt simply taught to you by society
>implying you would put this much weight in wether you wanna have a dick or not if you werent just aiming for social acceptance
#797 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Causes_of_transsexualism
www.newscientist.com/article/dn20032-transsexual-differences-caught-on-brain-scan.html
www.apa.org/monitor/2013/04/transgender.aspx
studentaffairs.iub.edu/glbt/library/library-resources/academic-research/transgender-research/
A little light reading for you. 2 of these are legitimate scientific journals, the other is a research resource. Say what you want about Wikipedia, but the page wasn't written by trans people
User avatar #798 - admiralen (02/11/2014) [-]
so youre trying to tell me, that you can feel theres something different with your brain. and that this little different feeling constantly urges you to change sex, this little brain abnormality knows that you feel strange about having something between your legs and thus must change this and dress in skirts
#799 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
Don't try to say it's bullshit, the science backs me up on this. Or did you just not read any of that? Either way, don't try to force stereotypes out of this, It's not about the clothes, it's about knowing who you are, and feeling comfortable as yourself, instead of living a lie, and being miserable for the rest of your fucking life. How is that remotely harmful to the world? It doesn't affect you, so why do you care? By medical science, I am a woman. the documentation proves it. I may not be genetically female, but who gives a fuck? It's not like I'm going out into public, whipping my dick out in everybody's faces. I'm just trying to live a decent, semi normal life. Why can't you just accept that and let it go?
User avatar #807 - admiralen (02/11/2014) [-]
but thats the fucking point, youre not a woman, you are what you think a woman is, and thats why i think its pointless. a woman really is nothing different, and thus you wouldnt need to change yourself to fit it, you just want to be what you and society considers a woman to be
User avatar #804 - admiralen (02/11/2014) [-]
im saying it makes no difference if youre male or female.
all those things you do is just you wanting to conform the the gender roles.
it doesnt matter what gender you are, just be the person, stop trying to be something youre not cause you feel the grass is greener on the other side
#806 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
And again, this isn't about social acceptance. I gave up social acceptance from a vast majority the moment I decided to live to make myself happy
#805 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
Again, you can't understand it fully, because it's not something you've lived by. I don't live by stereotypes. I am a woman. I play video games, ride motorcycles, and can qualify expert in rifle marksmanship by military standards, with most semi auto weapons. I wear what I want, not what society expects me to wear. Seem to fit in with what you're trying to say? Cause what you're talking about is not changing things that I am miserable without changing
User avatar #802 - admiralen (02/11/2014) [-]
again, youre putting to much weight into gender, it means nothing. dont see yourself as a woman or a man, see yourself as a person
#803 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
I see myself as I see myself. To deny myself the opportunity to live as the gender that I know at the core of my being I am causes me great distress. It's not a personal choice, I can't help it. It's easy for you to say something like that, you've never had to live the life a trans person lives. What you're talking about is gender noncomforming, which is totally different
User avatar #800 - admiralen (02/11/2014) [-]
i never implied it was harmful, you on the other hand have constantly asked to be treated specially and implied you have the right to act like a dick if someone doesnt get your exact word of preference right.
youre putting to much weight in to your gender, it doesnt really mean anything about you, youre a person, do what you want but changing your gender doesnt change you or anything really
#801 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
I'm not changing my gender, though, that's the thing. Gender is who you are as a person. Sex is who you are genetically. Genetically, I will always be male, true, but gender wise, I was never male. As a person, I am a woman, so I change my appearance as such to feel more comfortable with life. Do you realize how many trans women kill themselves when they are denied the opportunity to do so? It's a very depressing life when you can't just be yourself. If you wanted some kind of decent answer about this, all you have to do is ask, but do so without misgendering, or sounding like a bit of a dick, that's generally what sets people off.
#102 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
still: what does it have to do with biological status?!


even if you are trans and feel like a man: you have the organs to get pregnant and its possible you get pregnant. so the insurance for your pregnancy-safety (the money you get if you get pregnant) has to be paid
#68 - We're only like that because ****** people like y…  [+] (6 new replies) 02/11/2014 on Opinion time -2
User avatar #759 - admiralen (02/11/2014) [-]
sorry, but youve pretty much proved that you are fucked in the head through all your comments here.
that has nothing to do with your trans gender, youre just fucked in the head, youre a fucking idiot who constantly disproves your own points by acting like the people you apparantly despise
#780 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
Go ahead and take a good long look at what people have been saying when I tried being polite. Still got shit all over for it.
User avatar #785 - admiralen (02/11/2014) [-]
youre not polite and you act like people owe it to you to treat you specially.
#75 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
i know tran people that are normal.

i talk about the bitches and the jerks... sorry, but no matter who or what you are: you can be an asshole! period.

and i surely wont excuse someones rude behaviour just because they have "issues". a lot of people have issues and go on without acting like assholes. (yes, even trans!)
#77 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
What kind of issues? Cause the only thing I ever see anybody complaining about on here is when people try to dehumanize us, of course we're going to get pissed
#81 - kanedam (02/11/2014) [-]
again:
so what?
that someone offended you yesterday allows you to be a jerk to someone completely different today?

and just for you to reflect on: i didnt dehumanise you, and you still got pissed.
#66 - Ever been part of a community that is actively hunted down and…  [+] (5 new replies) 02/11/2014 on Opinion time -3
User avatar #69 - PrinceZukosLover (02/11/2014) [-]
My point proven ^
#76 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
I proved nothing of any value to you, except that you seem to be ok with people like me getting chased and gunned down in the streets just for being different
User avatar #79 - PrinceZukosLover (02/11/2014) [-]
You proved that someone can make a comment about that community and you find a reason to freak out.
#82 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
You really want to know what we get pissed about? We get pissed about going our whole lives forced to live a lie, then being harassed, when we refuse to do so. We get pissed when people aren't willing to recognize that we're just human beings, just like anybody else. We get pissed when a trans person is pushed to suicide, because some asshole who doesn't even know them can't shut the fuck up about it. We get pissed over losing our jobs just for being who we are, while pretty much every other fucking person in America is protected. And yet, you seem to be under theimpression that none of us have any right to be offended when "tranny" jokes are made that dehumanize an entire fucking culture group at the cost of a couple laughs
User avatar #101 - PrinceZukosLover (02/11/2014) [-]
XD Have I once said anything dehumanizing? Said that things weren't difficult? I made an observation, not a joke.
#64 - And people like you are the reason the world is going to … 02/11/2014 on Opinion time -3
#59 - You just made a big ******* mistake 02/11/2014 on Opinion time -1
#58 - Ever think maybe society made us into this?  [+] (2 new replies) 02/11/2014 on Opinion time -1
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#142 - phoenixactual (02/11/2014) [-]
We're really only this overly sensitive because people in the world drive us to this point. It's not our faults, yet so many people seem to think it is.
#115 - The guy who was responsible for the rings was found dead this week  [+] (1 new reply) 02/10/2014 on Next Week's Match: 'Murica... 0
User avatar #121 - iamundecided (02/10/2014) [-]
That was an internet hoax.
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#45 - You ****** up piece of ****  [+] (2 new replies) 02/07/2014 on Help +2
#49 - awesomemantodamax (02/07/2014) [-]
some people are so fucked up
User avatar #48 - roflswag (02/07/2014) [-]
You wouldn't have titled this "help" if you where not going to do it. The fact that you want someone to talk you down also makes me think you're not going to do it.

I was mellow dramatic once, but then I grew up.
#43 - Yeah, that's what I've been working on this year, but this is …  [+] (1 new reply) 02/07/2014 on Help 0
#47 - awesomemantodamax (02/07/2014) [-]
ask for advise. friend me if you want.ask for advise anytime
#40 - Always appreciated, thanks 02/07/2014 on Help +1
#38 - It just hurts. There's no better way to put it  [+] (1 new reply) 02/07/2014 on Help 0
#42 - awesomemantodamax (02/07/2014) [-]
it does hurt, and it hurts the people who love you too
#35 - That's the problem, I know it's not the best I can do. I was …  [+] (4 new replies) 02/07/2014 on Help 0
#41 - awesomemantodamax (02/07/2014) [-]
you can open up even better opportunities if you have been working hard and about that record, as soon as people see how perservirant you will find yourself with even better opportunities
#43 - phoenixactual (02/07/2014) [-]
Yeah, that's what I've been working on this year, but this is the 5th time in 4 months that I've been like this consistently enough to worry.
#47 - awesomemantodamax (02/07/2014) [-]
ask for advise. friend me if you want.ask for advise anytime
#37 - slend (02/07/2014) [-]
You could do better at any other time, but right now this is the best you can do. And given the circumstances, I think that's something to be proud of.

Some chances are gone. Not all. Keep that in mind.

Everyone makes mistakes.
Besides, look at all the politicians everywhere and the shit they do that's against the law.
If those jackasses can do all that then you can surely get the job you like even if you've nicked some stuff somewhere.
#34 - Doubt it will, it never has been, but I've been entirely too c…  [+] (2 new replies) 02/07/2014 on Help 0
User avatar #39 - tranquilizer (02/07/2014) [-]
I'm not really the master of advice...
Just focus on the stuff you like. Take up a new hobby. Find a job. Make new friends. Make yourself important to someone, make them important enough for you to keep going on. .. Well, I'm going to get some sleep. I don't what timezone you're on, but sleep more than usual, it makes you feel better about a lot of things.
#40 - phoenixactual (02/07/2014) [-]
Always appreciated, thanks
#31 - I think the worst part is that there are people who honest to …  [+] (3 new replies) 02/07/2014 on Help 0
#36 - awesomemantodamax (02/07/2014) [-]
it is there mistake to hate you, you are a wonderful person whose going through tough times
#38 - phoenixactual (02/07/2014) [-]
It just hurts. There's no better way to put it
#42 - awesomemantodamax (02/07/2014) [-]
it does hurt, and it hurts the people who love you too
#28 - It's just entirely too easy to get stuck in the mind that this…  [+] (6 new replies) 02/07/2014 on Help 0
#32 - slend (02/07/2014) [-]
Yeah, it's pretty unfair how that works.
Mind, I'm giving you all these words of encouragement, and heck, several people here are.

But I am going to ask of you to seek counseling for this.
A therapist if you will, a good one, and they tend to be, will help you as much as they can.

I didn't do it alone, and you don't need to do it alone either.
And hey, lastly, if this is the best you can do, then it's the best you can do.
And if this is your best, don't punish yourself for not doing better, be proud of yourself, because you're doing your best.
#35 - phoenixactual (02/07/2014) [-]
That's the problem, I know it's not the best I can do. I was a dedicated soldier, been studying science since I was a child, and I can do far better. The problem is knowing that some of the best opportunities I could ever have in my life are now probably gone, because my record says I stole some shit once
#41 - awesomemantodamax (02/07/2014) [-]
you can open up even better opportunities if you have been working hard and about that record, as soon as people see how perservirant you will find yourself with even better opportunities
#43 - phoenixactual (02/07/2014) [-]
Yeah, that's what I've been working on this year, but this is the 5th time in 4 months that I've been like this consistently enough to worry.
#47 - awesomemantodamax (02/07/2014) [-]
ask for advise. friend me if you want.ask for advise anytime
#37 - slend (02/07/2014) [-]
You could do better at any other time, but right now this is the best you can do. And given the circumstances, I think that's something to be proud of.

Some chances are gone. Not all. Keep that in mind.

Everyone makes mistakes.
Besides, look at all the politicians everywhere and the shit they do that's against the law.
If those jackasses can do all that then you can surely get the job you like even if you've nicked some stuff somewhere.

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#14 - greedtheavaricious ONLINE (07/28/2014) [-]
You are not really considering suicide, are you?
User avatar #13 - redwrench (07/28/2014) [-]
Queen-Don't Try Suicide
User avatar #12 - psychadelicace (06/25/2014) [-]
soooooooo...what did you post that got you banned?
User avatar #11 - bruinslover (06/24/2014) [-]
never knew you like to post shemales....subscribing.
User avatar #7 - youmotherfather (02/19/2014) [-]
Don't do it tho. Don't kill yourself. Don't even think about it.
#8 to #7 - phoenixactual (02/19/2014) [-]
No plans to
User avatar #9 to #8 - youmotherfather (02/19/2014) [-]
Ok, good to hear.
User avatar #6 - funnymidget (02/08/2014) [-]
:Hey, I seen you havin a Bad day. Don't be feeling down fr losin your job man. It's all gon' be good. Currently, I'm going through something that I have no Idea how to handle. I'm not able to see me son, and I've bee going thru so much stress with the drama. But lets not make this about me. You have a probably beautiful girlfriend, who loves you more than anything, and though you may have autsim, you strike me as a good guy. Trust me, suicide isn't worth it. It's just a Permant Solution to a temporary problem. I had a friend about 3 years ago kill himself because people bullied him for the way her looked. He was one of my only friends, and I was just devastated. Trust me, you taking your own life will hurt more people than it will help. For the sake of those who love you, and for your own sake, please, Just keep your mindset on the positive things in life. Though there may not be many, just focus on the few that are. It'll all be worth it in theend when you have a gril at your right, a child on yourleft, and you can call yourself a family.
User avatar #5 - mayormilkman (11/28/2013) [-]
butts
#1 - anonexplains (07/15/2013) [-]
Hows the transition going?
#2 to #1 - phoenixactual (07/16/2013) [-]
it's going fairly well, 6 months in, somewhat surprising changes for this short of time
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