thank you, random stranger

It's easier to say you're "genderfluid" when you like both masculine and feminine-stereotyped things than to say that whole fucking mouthful. It's the people that don't know the difference between that and being a special snowflake that ruins things for many and leads to the FJ-mentality on the subject.

On one hand, yes I'm speaking from experience - I'm not a special snowflake as a lot like to say, just what I described, and on the other? Damn I'm sick of these toasterselfs fucking things up for someone even remotely outside 'standard'.

Or, you know, you could just call yourself a man and tell other people to fuck off when they criticize the feminine things you do.

The whole thing at least for myself, is that one is a sex (I am male) and one is an expression, I suppose almost like a cultur in the way that one generally gets an idea of what someone likes if I say "I'm a metalhead" or "I like punk music". These make you (or most) people think of certain things like music, hairstyles, etc, right? This is how I use genderfluid. It's much easier until you run into someone stubborn and rude because of how breadselfs have destroyed the label.

Oh and yes, it's a label. So aren't metalhead and punk. People need to get over that word/definition being ruined by those types too. If it doesn't stop now they'll subvert the entire fucking English language.

or, you do that, and I'll do my own thing, and you can take your hero complex and shove it

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