By defend he doesn't mean beat her to death. Just hold her down on the ground till she gives up. That easy. Or just leave the house. How is a 100 lb wife going to hold back a 210 lb power lifter? A knife, gun, or other weapon, maybe... but if she killed him she might be doing him a favor.

And then rape charges because you held her down.

I forgot looking at a girl is rape

If a woman cries rape it has some pretty powerful implications behind it.

Being held down can be "attempted rape" and now she has the marks to prove it.

Also a 100 lb wife, if you do try to stop her and she is an abuser, has probably already gotten into your head about her "corrections" and your "worthlessness" and if you do attack her she'll be ready with some form of defense that just cripples you.

You're under the presumption that men don't have any issues with self esteem which might lead to them getting stuck in an abusive relationship where they can't leave for psychological reasons.

let her hit you a lot before you hold her down... that way you have marks of abuse, or just take the hits cause you're a man and not a worthless piece of shit. Bitches be cray cray

Try telling yourself you aren't a worthless piece of shit after your mother treated you like 100% pure African Elephant dung, or some other backstory that makes you quite fragile in regards to self esteem.

A woman can be given this same argument, but at the same time if she has a history of abuse it very well means NOTHING.

not to mention you dont have to leave marks to hold a 100 lb shitter