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Gender: female
Age: 26
Consoles Owned: PS3, laptop, 3DS
Video Games Played: Just about anything that interests me
PSN: inudewaruika
Interests: reading, writing, sewing, drawing
Date Signed Up:8/23/2009
Last Login:4/25/2015
Location:California
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I make plushies :3

PM if you are interested in one.

latest user's comments

#527206 - You're too far away :3  [+] (2 new replies) 03/27/2015 on Pony Thread 15 +1
User avatar #527214 - hunman (03/27/2015) [-]
Need to invent teleport already :c
User avatar #527222 - inudewaruika (03/27/2015) [-]
Fuck yes, fast food would be so much more efficient.
#527202 - D: I wish  [+] (4 new replies) 03/27/2015 on Pony Thread 15 +1
User avatar #527203 - hunman (03/27/2015) [-]
;~;
#527206 - inudewaruika (03/27/2015) [-]
You're too far away :3
User avatar #527214 - hunman (03/27/2015) [-]
Need to invent teleport already :c
User avatar #527222 - inudewaruika (03/27/2015) [-]
Fuck yes, fast food would be so much more efficient.
#527197 - Maybe like tonight lol, like after I sleep 03/27/2015 on Pony Thread 15 0
#527196 - Working from 11pm to 8am, while still sick and to top it off I…  [+] (16 new replies) 03/27/2015 on Pony Thread 15 +3
User avatar #527218 - leonhardt (03/27/2015) [-]
User avatar #527227 - inudewaruika (03/27/2015) [-]
lol

>.> I didn't get the last word in the first one...so I don't know who you are imitating
#527231 - leonhardt (03/27/2015) [-]
Tom Hardy
User avatar #527244 - inudewaruika (03/27/2015) [-]
>.>

I've never seen the movie and now feel horrible I didn't get the reference.
User avatar #527247 - leonhardt (03/27/2015) [-]
Hey don't worry about it
User avatar #527249 - inudewaruika (03/27/2015) [-]
Okes
User avatar #527205 - inteus (03/27/2015) [-]
**inteus shares my chicken**
i'm doing alright.
#527208 - inudewaruika (03/27/2015) [-]
thankies

That's fantastic.
User avatar #527223 - inteus (03/27/2015) [-]
well it would be better if you weren't all hungry and sick =<
User avatar #527246 - inudewaruika (03/27/2015) [-]
I'll manage

I'm sure there is something here in the office I can eat, like paper.
#527199 - hunman (03/27/2015) [-]
Have some cake
Family left us both unattended, so that's where I got it

Would you like some too?
User avatar #527202 - inudewaruika (03/27/2015) [-]
D:

I wish
User avatar #527203 - hunman (03/27/2015) [-]
;~;
#527206 - inudewaruika (03/27/2015) [-]
You're too far away :3
User avatar #527214 - hunman (03/27/2015) [-]
Need to invent teleport already :c
User avatar #527222 - inudewaruika (03/27/2015) [-]
Fuck yes, fast food would be so much more efficient.
#527191 - Sick and working 11pm to 8am  [+] (3 new replies) 03/27/2015 on Pony Thread 15 +1
User avatar #527209 - zealotgold (03/27/2015) [-]
aww thats never fun then
User avatar #527212 - inudewaruika (03/27/2015) [-]
No, but monies, I already missed one day of work and had to turn down another, so 16 hours I won't get
User avatar #527217 - zealotgold (03/27/2015) [-]
ah darn money then :/ but hopefully they will get better
#527188 - That it is  [+] (5 new replies) 03/27/2015 on Pony Thread 15 +1
User avatar #527190 - zealotgold (03/27/2015) [-]
heh how are yea inu?
User avatar #527191 - inudewaruika (03/27/2015) [-]
Sick and working 11pm to 8am
User avatar #527209 - zealotgold (03/27/2015) [-]
aww thats never fun then
User avatar #527212 - inudewaruika (03/27/2015) [-]
No, but monies, I already missed one day of work and had to turn down another, so 16 hours I won't get
User avatar #527217 - zealotgold (03/27/2015) [-]
ah darn money then :/ but hopefully they will get better
#527185 - COCO MOUSSE I FINISHED THE SAND WALL  [+] (2 new replies) 03/27/2015 on Pony Thread 15 +1
User avatar #527194 - sheashea (03/27/2015) [-]
Nice. south wall later today?
User avatar #527197 - inudewaruika (03/27/2015) [-]
Maybe like tonight lol, like after I sleep
#1664 - Yeah drunk's not fun, but I'm glad you still enjoyed yourself ^.^ 03/27/2015 on fjaddictftw's profile 0
#526016 - funny gifs relevant to the content?  [+] (1 new reply) 03/27/2015 on Pony Thread 15 0
User avatar #526033 - factual (03/27/2015) [-]
awman. I deleted my reaction folder long ago
#526012 - post funny comments on content?  [+] (3 new replies) 03/27/2015 on Pony Thread 15 0
User avatar #526013 - factual (03/27/2015) [-]
but i'm not fuuuunnnyyy
User avatar #526016 - inudewaruika (03/27/2015) [-]
funny gifs relevant to the content?
User avatar #526033 - factual (03/27/2015) [-]
awman. I deleted my reaction folder long ago
#526004 - i thought boards no longer qualify for thumbs towards ranks...  [+] (5 new replies) 03/27/2015 on Pony Thread 15 0
User avatar #526007 - factual (03/27/2015) [-]
don't they?

well fuck

how am I gona be able to mention people now
User avatar #526012 - inudewaruika (03/27/2015) [-]
post funny comments on content?
User avatar #526013 - factual (03/27/2015) [-]
but i'm not fuuuunnnyyy
User avatar #526016 - inudewaruika (03/27/2015) [-]
funny gifs relevant to the content?
User avatar #526033 - factual (03/27/2015) [-]
awman. I deleted my reaction folder long ago
#2051 - Picture 03/27/2015 on DrOhcysp's profile 0
#12 - O hai Ashy  [+] (1 new reply) 03/26/2015 on FML +1
User avatar #13 - ashedust (03/27/2015) [-]
Howdy do
#255 - You as well. 03/26/2015 on trigered 0
#254 - >welp, better keep an alcohol level tester with me at all t…  [+] (1 new reply) 03/26/2015 on trigered 0
#275 - fefe (03/26/2015) [-]
Which brings us back to a statement that no one could possibly disagree with, which makes it a redundant statement
#243 - I fully understand what you are saying. It is the vi…  [+] (2 new replies) 03/26/2015 on trigered +1
User avatar #252 - thenez (03/26/2015) [-]
Yeah that is what I have been trying to say.

That people shouldn't view it as "if you weren't there then that wouldn't have happened". The only thing that one can do is take steps to protect oneself from these people. But as these people are everywhere, one cannot protect against all hostile peoples.

See I thought we agreed with each other. Sorry for any confusion.

Have a good day sir/madam.
User avatar #255 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
You as well.
#231 - You're implying that someone who is deaf cannot sign yes or no…  [+] (3 new replies) 03/26/2015 on trigered +1
#244 - fefe (03/26/2015) [-]
I think we pretty much agree

All said was that the first part of your argument is redundant.
Being deaf/mute has nothing to do with anything
I don't understand why you have to be condescending though
User avatar #254 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
>welp, better keep an alcohol level tester with me at all times to make sure my partner isn't 'mentally incapacitated' when consenting to sex

Because you failed to fully read and comprehend what I meant by mentally incapacitated. A drunk still has mental capacities, not good ones, but still capable of saying yes or no.

Redundant: not or no longer needed or useful; superfluous, (of words or data) able to be omitted without loss of meaning or function.

My stating someone that is mentally incapacitated is incapable of stating yes or no, I was stating that these people, which are not limited to: Children, people who are asleep or fully unaware of a situation, the mentally challenged (including the elderly who suffer from their own mental ailments due to age), are unable to without doubt say yes or no to a situation and is taken advantage of sexually, then it is rape. It is not rape if they say yes, unless it is under duress.
#275 - fefe (03/26/2015) [-]
Which brings us back to a statement that no one could possibly disagree with, which makes it a redundant statement
#227 - Yes, I should take a document online for basis of an argument …  [+] (6 new replies) 03/26/2015 on trigered 0
User avatar #230 - thenez (03/26/2015) [-]
I am pretty sure it is you who doesn't understand what I am trying to say.

YES, a person SHOULD be able to go WHEREVER they want and get drunk without fear of being raped. If they do get taken advantage of while drunk, the person who took advantage of the person under the influence is ALWAYS to blame. These people are not human, they do not have the capacity to empathise with others as we do.

These people exist almost anywhere, whether you want them to or not. That is what is shitty about it. I would love to just take a walk down the streets of detroit, and revel in all its rich history in manufacturing. But we all know that eventually, someone is going to do something to another person. Therefore I do not walk on the streets of detroit. If I do walk on the streets of detroit, and I get sexually assaulted, it is not my fault. Shame on the guy who assaulted me. He should 110% be prosecuted under the law.

You see, I think we actually agree with one another, but it is difficult for us to convey this through text on a website.
User avatar #243 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
I fully understand what you are saying.

It is the victim blaming mentality that states that the victims should take more precautions. It's not that we should keep an eye on offenders (a large portion of offenders are repeat offenders) it's that we should tell people they should make efforts to stay safe rather than attempt at making sure that the people who offend are kept away.

Yes everyone who is assaulted should be 110% prosecuted, but unfortunately with the idea that "if the victim wasn't in this place at that time, or doing this at that time, or wearing this at that time, or acted like this at that time" still around, the victim will still have half of the blame placed on themselves.

When people realize that no matter the precautions a person takes, no matter what they say or do, an assault can occur, then the victim blaming mentality stops and the real blaming begins.
User avatar #252 - thenez (03/26/2015) [-]
Yeah that is what I have been trying to say.

That people shouldn't view it as "if you weren't there then that wouldn't have happened". The only thing that one can do is take steps to protect oneself from these people. But as these people are everywhere, one cannot protect against all hostile peoples.

See I thought we agreed with each other. Sorry for any confusion.

Have a good day sir/madam.
User avatar #255 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
You as well.
#235 - wynter (03/26/2015) [-]
Brah.
User avatar #237 - thenez (03/26/2015) [-]
#219 - Mentally incapacitated does not mean being drunk it means bein…  [+] (6 new replies) 03/26/2015 on trigered 0
#229 - fefe (03/26/2015) [-]
If you're saying that it should be considered rape if you have sex with someone who is physically unable to speak, ie. say 'yes' or 'no', then I think your statement is pointless because who would ever disagree with that?
#236 - wynter (03/26/2015) [-]
You should stop posting too anon.
User avatar #231 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
You're implying that someone who is deaf cannot sign yes or no.

It's pointless to discuss this with you, you're just trying to stir things up.

I apologize once again, I wasn't aware my previous statement was too complex for you to wrap your mind around.

#244 - fefe (03/26/2015) [-]
I think we pretty much agree

All said was that the first part of your argument is redundant.
Being deaf/mute has nothing to do with anything
I don't understand why you have to be condescending though
User avatar #254 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
>welp, better keep an alcohol level tester with me at all times to make sure my partner isn't 'mentally incapacitated' when consenting to sex

Because you failed to fully read and comprehend what I meant by mentally incapacitated. A drunk still has mental capacities, not good ones, but still capable of saying yes or no.

Redundant: not or no longer needed or useful; superfluous, (of words or data) able to be omitted without loss of meaning or function.

My stating someone that is mentally incapacitated is incapable of stating yes or no, I was stating that these people, which are not limited to: Children, people who are asleep or fully unaware of a situation, the mentally challenged (including the elderly who suffer from their own mental ailments due to age), are unable to without doubt say yes or no to a situation and is taken advantage of sexually, then it is rape. It is not rape if they say yes, unless it is under duress.
#275 - fefe (03/26/2015) [-]
Which brings us back to a statement that no one could possibly disagree with, which makes it a redundant statement
#1450 - Alrighty :3 03/26/2015 on geeky's profile 0
#1448 - Yeah he has those days off. Of course ^.^  [+] (2 new replies) 03/26/2015 on geeky's profile 0
User avatar #1449 - sheashea (03/26/2015) [-]
20th might be good to hang out then. But we shall see ^_^
User avatar #1450 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
Alrighty :3
#203 - You're implying it is the victims fault because they decided t…  [+] (8 new replies) 03/26/2015 on trigered +2
#220 - thenez (03/26/2015) [-]
I do understand the concept. You are taking my examples out of context, see strawman argument.

I agree with your second paragraph, stealing =/= sexual assault in terms of psychological damage.

I did read the part where you said most assaults are done by people the victim knows. But you cannot seriously think that one who would likely take advantage of someone given the chance, would still do it if they were surrounded by close friends? Friends would defend you in this situation.

I agree with this paragraph.

I don't agree with you using that as an example. I never said in my examples that you should blame yourself for giving the man your watch, or for not putting on the bee keeping suit. See strawman again.

I NEVER said it was always the victims fault. What I did say was, there are steps one can take to prevent oneself from becoming a victim. See Strawman AGAIN.
User avatar #227 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
Yes, I should take a document online for basis of an argument instead of the facts and knowledge I have received from over 6 years of working as a victims advocate for sexual assault victims, thank you for showing me the errors of my ways.

I personally accompanied the victim in the scenario presented to you, I had to speak up on the victim's behalf to law enforcement to remind them it is not the victim's fault. The victim did get raped in a house full of people they knew. You can trust your friends completely and still be assaulted without their knowledge.

There are steps to prevent assault, never leave your house. Never do anything. Anyone can do things in extreme. Even then you cannot fully protect yourself, you can be assaulted by your neighbor, by the delivery person who knows you never leave the house, it does not matter what precautions you take. All I said was that it is everyone's right to be able to go out and enjoy themselves without fear of being assaulted, and you said people should take precautions totally ignoring my statement.

Should. I said should. You give me a image with a bunch of terms and you cannot even clearly comprehend what I said in my original statement.

I also said that your example did not fit into the discussion, so let me clarify what I mean by that. There is no similarities between any sort of theft related crime and sexual assault. None, comparing the two is senseless. No where in my original post did I say the victim went to a place they were unfamiliar with. My post was never about somebody simply going to a random bar to get shiffaced and wandering the streets, it was about stating that everyone has the right to enjoy themselves without fear of being assaulted. Which you do not seem to comprehend.
User avatar #230 - thenez (03/26/2015) [-]
I am pretty sure it is you who doesn't understand what I am trying to say.

YES, a person SHOULD be able to go WHEREVER they want and get drunk without fear of being raped. If they do get taken advantage of while drunk, the person who took advantage of the person under the influence is ALWAYS to blame. These people are not human, they do not have the capacity to empathise with others as we do.

These people exist almost anywhere, whether you want them to or not. That is what is shitty about it. I would love to just take a walk down the streets of detroit, and revel in all its rich history in manufacturing. But we all know that eventually, someone is going to do something to another person. Therefore I do not walk on the streets of detroit. If I do walk on the streets of detroit, and I get sexually assaulted, it is not my fault. Shame on the guy who assaulted me. He should 110% be prosecuted under the law.

You see, I think we actually agree with one another, but it is difficult for us to convey this through text on a website.
User avatar #243 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
I fully understand what you are saying.

It is the victim blaming mentality that states that the victims should take more precautions. It's not that we should keep an eye on offenders (a large portion of offenders are repeat offenders) it's that we should tell people they should make efforts to stay safe rather than attempt at making sure that the people who offend are kept away.

Yes everyone who is assaulted should be 110% prosecuted, but unfortunately with the idea that "if the victim wasn't in this place at that time, or doing this at that time, or wearing this at that time, or acted like this at that time" still around, the victim will still have half of the blame placed on themselves.

When people realize that no matter the precautions a person takes, no matter what they say or do, an assault can occur, then the victim blaming mentality stops and the real blaming begins.
User avatar #252 - thenez (03/26/2015) [-]
Yeah that is what I have been trying to say.

That people shouldn't view it as "if you weren't there then that wouldn't have happened". The only thing that one can do is take steps to protect oneself from these people. But as these people are everywhere, one cannot protect against all hostile peoples.

See I thought we agreed with each other. Sorry for any confusion.

Have a good day sir/madam.
User avatar #255 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
You as well.
#235 - wynter (03/26/2015) [-]
Brah.
User avatar #237 - thenez (03/26/2015) [-]
#1446 - I WAS ABLE TO POST BEFORE. WTF 03/26/2015 on geeky's profile 0
#182 - The thing is is most assaults are done by someone you've met o…  [+] (11 new replies) 03/26/2015 on trigered +1
User avatar #192 - thenez (03/26/2015) [-]
I myself am not blaming the victim.

What I am trying to say, is that yes, it is shitty when you can't just go where you want and get drunk without fear of being taken advantage of. The person who takes advantage of you when drunk should get reprimanded.

But that's also the shitty thing about it. No matter the severity of punishment, somewhere, sometime, it will still happen. It's just the shitty side of human nature. Knowing this, one may prevent most, but not all of these situations from even occuring by only doing it in groups or in the protection of ones own home.

Again, I am not blaming the victim. I am simply stating that there are precautions one can take to prevent themselves from becoming a victim. For example, if you want to remove a beehive, put on a bee keeper suit.
#216 - wynter (03/26/2015) [-]
User avatar #203 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
You're implying it is the victims fault because they decided to go out and enjoy themselves for whatever reason, then you used "going to the ghetto and asking a stranger to hold your watch" as an example. You get over losing a watch, you don't get over being assaulted. Which tells me you don't fully understand the concept.

A person does not ask for sexual assault, just like a person does not asked to be robbed, but a person who is robbed eventually gets over it because the objects stolen are material possessions and they weren't physically harmed. A victim of sexual assault has to live every moment with that in the back of their mind and they can go years before something triggers I am not using the term in the "tumblr" bullshit way it and they suffer a mental breakdown because of it. They also risk having STD's and in a female victims case, unwanted pregnancy, then they have to deal with people blaming them for the assault "well why didn't you fight them off?" or "Why were you there?".

Did you not read the part where I said most assaults are done by people the victim knows? Doesn't matter if you get drunk at home with friends or not. It does not matter at all. If you cannot make the cognitive decision to voice the word no, or attempt to remove your attacker from you then it is considered rape. There is no buts. There is no excuse.

It doesn't matter if you are drunk, it doesn't matter if you are walking home alone, it doesn't matter if you tell your significant other you don't want to have sex and they force you, it does not matter if you orgasm or become arouse by it, an unwanted sexual act is still a sexual assault.

Let me use a example that doesn't make sense to the situation, You're driving your car, you're at a red light, someone comes up and yanks you out of your car and speeds off, everyone blames you because you decided to drive your car knowing that there may be a risk of it getting stolen, the police refuse to take a report because you never said no to the thief.

Now lets make that more relevant, You're at a party for a friend, you decided to do some shots with the dude who's birthday you're celebrating, you're not drunk, but a little fuzzy, and you go into the kitchen to grab a drink of water, while your in there someone else walks in and starts up a conversation, you've known this person for years so you feel safe enough to sit your glass down on the counter while you show them a picture you took of your car, while you're distracted they drug your water, you in your fuzzy state of mind don't realize and drink the water. Later, you start feeling heavy headed, and you're confused so you tell your friend, the friend who's birthday it is, who've you know since you were 5 that you're gonna crash in his room. The person you've known for years over hears and follows, then assaults you. You wake up, notice the signs and immediately call the police who then tell you you were drunk and never said no so they can't do anything and that you should have assumed the risk for attending the party in the first place. That is what you are telling me. That is how you see things, that no matter what, it's the victims fault for placing themselves in that situation. How do I not assume you are blaming the victim?
#220 - thenez (03/26/2015) [-]
I do understand the concept. You are taking my examples out of context, see strawman argument.

I agree with your second paragraph, stealing =/= sexual assault in terms of psychological damage.

I did read the part where you said most assaults are done by people the victim knows. But you cannot seriously think that one who would likely take advantage of someone given the chance, would still do it if they were surrounded by close friends? Friends would defend you in this situation.

I agree with this paragraph.

I don't agree with you using that as an example. I never said in my examples that you should blame yourself for giving the man your watch, or for not putting on the bee keeping suit. See strawman again.

I NEVER said it was always the victims fault. What I did say was, there are steps one can take to prevent oneself from becoming a victim. See Strawman AGAIN.
User avatar #227 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
Yes, I should take a document online for basis of an argument instead of the facts and knowledge I have received from over 6 years of working as a victims advocate for sexual assault victims, thank you for showing me the errors of my ways.

I personally accompanied the victim in the scenario presented to you, I had to speak up on the victim's behalf to law enforcement to remind them it is not the victim's fault. The victim did get raped in a house full of people they knew. You can trust your friends completely and still be assaulted without their knowledge.

There are steps to prevent assault, never leave your house. Never do anything. Anyone can do things in extreme. Even then you cannot fully protect yourself, you can be assaulted by your neighbor, by the delivery person who knows you never leave the house, it does not matter what precautions you take. All I said was that it is everyone's right to be able to go out and enjoy themselves without fear of being assaulted, and you said people should take precautions totally ignoring my statement.

Should. I said should. You give me a image with a bunch of terms and you cannot even clearly comprehend what I said in my original statement.

I also said that your example did not fit into the discussion, so let me clarify what I mean by that. There is no similarities between any sort of theft related crime and sexual assault. None, comparing the two is senseless. No where in my original post did I say the victim went to a place they were unfamiliar with. My post was never about somebody simply going to a random bar to get shiffaced and wandering the streets, it was about stating that everyone has the right to enjoy themselves without fear of being assaulted. Which you do not seem to comprehend.
User avatar #230 - thenez (03/26/2015) [-]
I am pretty sure it is you who doesn't understand what I am trying to say.

YES, a person SHOULD be able to go WHEREVER they want and get drunk without fear of being raped. If they do get taken advantage of while drunk, the person who took advantage of the person under the influence is ALWAYS to blame. These people are not human, they do not have the capacity to empathise with others as we do.

These people exist almost anywhere, whether you want them to or not. That is what is shitty about it. I would love to just take a walk down the streets of detroit, and revel in all its rich history in manufacturing. But we all know that eventually, someone is going to do something to another person. Therefore I do not walk on the streets of detroit. If I do walk on the streets of detroit, and I get sexually assaulted, it is not my fault. Shame on the guy who assaulted me. He should 110% be prosecuted under the law.

You see, I think we actually agree with one another, but it is difficult for us to convey this through text on a website.
User avatar #243 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
I fully understand what you are saying.

It is the victim blaming mentality that states that the victims should take more precautions. It's not that we should keep an eye on offenders (a large portion of offenders are repeat offenders) it's that we should tell people they should make efforts to stay safe rather than attempt at making sure that the people who offend are kept away.

Yes everyone who is assaulted should be 110% prosecuted, but unfortunately with the idea that "if the victim wasn't in this place at that time, or doing this at that time, or wearing this at that time, or acted like this at that time" still around, the victim will still have half of the blame placed on themselves.

When people realize that no matter the precautions a person takes, no matter what they say or do, an assault can occur, then the victim blaming mentality stops and the real blaming begins.
User avatar #252 - thenez (03/26/2015) [-]
Yeah that is what I have been trying to say.

That people shouldn't view it as "if you weren't there then that wouldn't have happened". The only thing that one can do is take steps to protect oneself from these people. But as these people are everywhere, one cannot protect against all hostile peoples.

See I thought we agreed with each other. Sorry for any confusion.

Have a good day sir/madam.
User avatar #255 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
You as well.
#235 - wynter (03/26/2015) [-]
Brah.
User avatar #237 - thenez (03/26/2015) [-]
#137 - A lot of people make mistakes, but if a person within their ri…  [+] (22 new replies) 03/26/2015 on trigered +4
#217 - fefe (03/26/2015) [-]
>if a person within their right mind takes advantage of a person who is mentally incapacitated, then that would constitute as a sexual assault

welp, better keep an alcohol level tester with me at all times to make sure my partner isn't 'mentally incapacitated' when consenting to sex
User avatar #219 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
Mentally incapacitated does not mean being drunk it means being unable to say yes or no due to your mental status and I used it as an umbrella term for anyone who cannot say yes or no for whatever reason, be it someone intoxicated or someone who does not have the brain function to say no or understand the act, like a child.

I'm sorry you took it that way, maybe I better keep someone who speaks in simple terms near me to proof read my work.
#229 - fefe (03/26/2015) [-]
If you're saying that it should be considered rape if you have sex with someone who is physically unable to speak, ie. say 'yes' or 'no', then I think your statement is pointless because who would ever disagree with that?
#236 - wynter (03/26/2015) [-]
You should stop posting too anon.
User avatar #231 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
You're implying that someone who is deaf cannot sign yes or no.

It's pointless to discuss this with you, you're just trying to stir things up.

I apologize once again, I wasn't aware my previous statement was too complex for you to wrap your mind around.

#244 - fefe (03/26/2015) [-]
I think we pretty much agree

All said was that the first part of your argument is redundant.
Being deaf/mute has nothing to do with anything
I don't understand why you have to be condescending though
User avatar #254 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
>welp, better keep an alcohol level tester with me at all times to make sure my partner isn't 'mentally incapacitated' when consenting to sex

Because you failed to fully read and comprehend what I meant by mentally incapacitated. A drunk still has mental capacities, not good ones, but still capable of saying yes or no.

Redundant: not or no longer needed or useful; superfluous, (of words or data) able to be omitted without loss of meaning or function.

My stating someone that is mentally incapacitated is incapable of stating yes or no, I was stating that these people, which are not limited to: Children, people who are asleep or fully unaware of a situation, the mentally challenged (including the elderly who suffer from their own mental ailments due to age), are unable to without doubt say yes or no to a situation and is taken advantage of sexually, then it is rape. It is not rape if they say yes, unless it is under duress.
#275 - fefe (03/26/2015) [-]
Which brings us back to a statement that no one could possibly disagree with, which makes it a redundant statement
User avatar #218 - wynter (03/26/2015) [-]
Silly Anon. Log in like a real man and take your shit.
#168 - thenez (03/26/2015) [-]
The way I see it, there is a time and place for everything. If you really want to get drunk, you should do it around people you can trust at a location that isn't questionable. You shouldn't do it alone at some random bar.

That would be like going to the ghetto, and asking some random guy on the street if he can hold your expensive watch while you go do another activity across the street.

You put yourself in the hands of others around you when you when you drink. Why trust some random guy at the bar?
User avatar #182 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
The thing is is most assaults are done by someone you've met or know. It happens at places you are familiar with and feel safe in, so its not a matter of trust but a matter of having the ability to be able to enjoy oneself without the fear of assault. So what if someone gets shitfaced at a place they go to often, it still does not give anyone the right to assault another person if they are unable to make a cognitive decision on the matter, yes they are drunk, chances are the perpetrator is not. The problem with your mentality is that you are blaming the victim of the crime, not the perpetrator. It's the victims fault they decided to have a few drinks with friends and too busy having a conversation after a few beers to realize someone had slipped something in their drink, it's their fault as they were waiting for a cab or their designated driver that the perpetrator was waiting for them to become alone to take them.

User avatar #192 - thenez (03/26/2015) [-]
I myself am not blaming the victim.

What I am trying to say, is that yes, it is shitty when you can't just go where you want and get drunk without fear of being taken advantage of. The person who takes advantage of you when drunk should get reprimanded.

But that's also the shitty thing about it. No matter the severity of punishment, somewhere, sometime, it will still happen. It's just the shitty side of human nature. Knowing this, one may prevent most, but not all of these situations from even occuring by only doing it in groups or in the protection of ones own home.

Again, I am not blaming the victim. I am simply stating that there are precautions one can take to prevent themselves from becoming a victim. For example, if you want to remove a beehive, put on a bee keeper suit.
#216 - wynter (03/26/2015) [-]
User avatar #203 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
You're implying it is the victims fault because they decided to go out and enjoy themselves for whatever reason, then you used "going to the ghetto and asking a stranger to hold your watch" as an example. You get over losing a watch, you don't get over being assaulted. Which tells me you don't fully understand the concept.

A person does not ask for sexual assault, just like a person does not asked to be robbed, but a person who is robbed eventually gets over it because the objects stolen are material possessions and they weren't physically harmed. A victim of sexual assault has to live every moment with that in the back of their mind and they can go years before something triggers I am not using the term in the "tumblr" bullshit way it and they suffer a mental breakdown because of it. They also risk having STD's and in a female victims case, unwanted pregnancy, then they have to deal with people blaming them for the assault "well why didn't you fight them off?" or "Why were you there?".

Did you not read the part where I said most assaults are done by people the victim knows? Doesn't matter if you get drunk at home with friends or not. It does not matter at all. If you cannot make the cognitive decision to voice the word no, or attempt to remove your attacker from you then it is considered rape. There is no buts. There is no excuse.

It doesn't matter if you are drunk, it doesn't matter if you are walking home alone, it doesn't matter if you tell your significant other you don't want to have sex and they force you, it does not matter if you orgasm or become arouse by it, an unwanted sexual act is still a sexual assault.

Let me use a example that doesn't make sense to the situation, You're driving your car, you're at a red light, someone comes up and yanks you out of your car and speeds off, everyone blames you because you decided to drive your car knowing that there may be a risk of it getting stolen, the police refuse to take a report because you never said no to the thief.

Now lets make that more relevant, You're at a party for a friend, you decided to do some shots with the dude who's birthday you're celebrating, you're not drunk, but a little fuzzy, and you go into the kitchen to grab a drink of water, while your in there someone else walks in and starts up a conversation, you've known this person for years so you feel safe enough to sit your glass down on the counter while you show them a picture you took of your car, while you're distracted they drug your water, you in your fuzzy state of mind don't realize and drink the water. Later, you start feeling heavy headed, and you're confused so you tell your friend, the friend who's birthday it is, who've you know since you were 5 that you're gonna crash in his room. The person you've known for years over hears and follows, then assaults you. You wake up, notice the signs and immediately call the police who then tell you you were drunk and never said no so they can't do anything and that you should have assumed the risk for attending the party in the first place. That is what you are telling me. That is how you see things, that no matter what, it's the victims fault for placing themselves in that situation. How do I not assume you are blaming the victim?
#220 - thenez (03/26/2015) [-]
I do understand the concept. You are taking my examples out of context, see strawman argument.

I agree with your second paragraph, stealing =/= sexual assault in terms of psychological damage.

I did read the part where you said most assaults are done by people the victim knows. But you cannot seriously think that one who would likely take advantage of someone given the chance, would still do it if they were surrounded by close friends? Friends would defend you in this situation.

I agree with this paragraph.

I don't agree with you using that as an example. I never said in my examples that you should blame yourself for giving the man your watch, or for not putting on the bee keeping suit. See strawman again.

I NEVER said it was always the victims fault. What I did say was, there are steps one can take to prevent oneself from becoming a victim. See Strawman AGAIN.
User avatar #227 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
Yes, I should take a document online for basis of an argument instead of the facts and knowledge I have received from over 6 years of working as a victims advocate for sexual assault victims, thank you for showing me the errors of my ways.

I personally accompanied the victim in the scenario presented to you, I had to speak up on the victim's behalf to law enforcement to remind them it is not the victim's fault. The victim did get raped in a house full of people they knew. You can trust your friends completely and still be assaulted without their knowledge.

There are steps to prevent assault, never leave your house. Never do anything. Anyone can do things in extreme. Even then you cannot fully protect yourself, you can be assaulted by your neighbor, by the delivery person who knows you never leave the house, it does not matter what precautions you take. All I said was that it is everyone's right to be able to go out and enjoy themselves without fear of being assaulted, and you said people should take precautions totally ignoring my statement.

Should. I said should. You give me a image with a bunch of terms and you cannot even clearly comprehend what I said in my original statement.

I also said that your example did not fit into the discussion, so let me clarify what I mean by that. There is no similarities between any sort of theft related crime and sexual assault. None, comparing the two is senseless. No where in my original post did I say the victim went to a place they were unfamiliar with. My post was never about somebody simply going to a random bar to get shiffaced and wandering the streets, it was about stating that everyone has the right to enjoy themselves without fear of being assaulted. Which you do not seem to comprehend.
User avatar #230 - thenez (03/26/2015) [-]
I am pretty sure it is you who doesn't understand what I am trying to say.

YES, a person SHOULD be able to go WHEREVER they want and get drunk without fear of being raped. If they do get taken advantage of while drunk, the person who took advantage of the person under the influence is ALWAYS to blame. These people are not human, they do not have the capacity to empathise with others as we do.

These people exist almost anywhere, whether you want them to or not. That is what is shitty about it. I would love to just take a walk down the streets of detroit, and revel in all its rich history in manufacturing. But we all know that eventually, someone is going to do something to another person. Therefore I do not walk on the streets of detroit. If I do walk on the streets of detroit, and I get sexually assaulted, it is not my fault. Shame on the guy who assaulted me. He should 110% be prosecuted under the law.

You see, I think we actually agree with one another, but it is difficult for us to convey this through text on a website.
User avatar #243 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
I fully understand what you are saying.

It is the victim blaming mentality that states that the victims should take more precautions. It's not that we should keep an eye on offenders (a large portion of offenders are repeat offenders) it's that we should tell people they should make efforts to stay safe rather than attempt at making sure that the people who offend are kept away.

Yes everyone who is assaulted should be 110% prosecuted, but unfortunately with the idea that "if the victim wasn't in this place at that time, or doing this at that time, or wearing this at that time, or acted like this at that time" still around, the victim will still have half of the blame placed on themselves.

When people realize that no matter the precautions a person takes, no matter what they say or do, an assault can occur, then the victim blaming mentality stops and the real blaming begins.
User avatar #252 - thenez (03/26/2015) [-]
Yeah that is what I have been trying to say.

That people shouldn't view it as "if you weren't there then that wouldn't have happened". The only thing that one can do is take steps to protect oneself from these people. But as these people are everywhere, one cannot protect against all hostile peoples.

See I thought we agreed with each other. Sorry for any confusion.

Have a good day sir/madam.
User avatar #255 - inudewaruika (03/26/2015) [-]
You as well.
#235 - wynter (03/26/2015) [-]
Brah.
User avatar #237 - thenez (03/26/2015) [-]

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#4081 - inudewaruika (03/28/2015) [-]
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User avatar #4160 - ecov (13 hours ago) [-]
Hi inu ^^
User avatar #4161 to #4160 - inudewaruika (13 hours ago) [-]
Hey there!
User avatar #4162 to #4161 - ecov (13 hours ago) [-]
How are you?
User avatar #4163 to #4162 - inudewaruika (13 hours ago) [-]
Good, just got home from a charity event for work and having dinner with DrO. You?
User avatar #4164 to #4163 - ecov (13 hours ago) [-]
We're done with the workup and waiting to go on leave before we deploy. My buddies also broke my laptop ;w;
User avatar #4165 to #4164 - inudewaruika (13 hours ago) [-]
Aw damn that sucks about the laptop, waiting's no fun.
User avatar #4166 to #4165 - ecov (12 hours ago) [-]
Yeah just got a call today that I'll have to wait about 2 weeks to get it back
User avatar #4167 to #4166 - inudewaruika (12 hours ago) [-]
Atleast you have a general idea of when.
#4156 - jackthunderjt (04/22/2015) [-]
INUUuuuuuuuuuuuu...................... you never talk to me anymore
User avatar #4157 to #4156 - inudewaruika (04/23/2015) [-]
I've been so busy!

I'm sorry!
User avatar #4158 to #4157 - jackthunderjt (04/23/2015) [-]
see that when you got no plushie request in queue.

but still i haven't heard anything from any of the old gang
User avatar #4159 to #4158 - inudewaruika (13 hours ago) [-]
I've been working too ;.;

Life's happened D:

Everyone's been doing their own thing, not sure what they are up to though.

I met dinkie in person on Monday, so she's been on vacation since last week.
#4168 to #4159 - jackthunderjt (8 hours ago) [-]
yup life happened big time.

nice to see that no one is dead at least
User avatar #4153 to #4152 - inudewaruika (04/19/2015) [-]
cuuuute
User avatar #4154 to #4153 - novabird (04/19/2015) [-]
eyup, whole page of em but that looked like mascot.
User avatar #4151 - murrlogic (04/11/2015) [-]
User avatar #4136 - murrlogic (04/04/2015) [-]
User avatar #4138 to #4137 - murrlogic (04/06/2015) [-]
my birthday is coming up
User avatar #4139 to #4138 - inudewaruika (04/06/2015) [-]
Why is that sad?
User avatar #4140 to #4139 - murrlogic (04/06/2015) [-]
Because I'm not getting what I really want.
User avatar #4141 to #4140 - inudewaruika (04/06/2015) [-]
It's not about getting what you want though.

Gratitude is being grateful for what you have both materialistically and physically.
User avatar #4142 to #4141 - murrlogic (04/06/2015) [-]
You're not even curious as to what I want tho.
User avatar #4143 to #4142 - inudewaruika (04/06/2015) [-]
What do you want?
User avatar #4144 to #4143 - murrlogic (04/06/2015) [-]
I want one of your plushies.
User avatar #4145 to #4144 - inudewaruika (04/06/2015) [-]
Ah.

I dun make em for free tho.

I'm already working on one slowly though since I've been so busy but trippy has been understanding about it.
User avatar #4146 to #4145 - murrlogic (04/06/2015) [-]
But but but

My birthday...
#4147 to #4146 - inudewaruika (04/06/2015) [-]
But I can't it wouldn't be fair to everyone else.
User avatar #4148 to #4147 - murrlogic (04/06/2015) [-]
But I want an Asami plush

SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO bad.
#4134 - mysterie (04/03/2015) [-]
what up bitch   
Jeren and I were talkin   
and we decided on your engagement ring
what up bitch
Jeren and I were talkin
and we decided on your engagement ring
User avatar #4135 to #4134 - inudewaruika (04/04/2015) [-]
Aww yiss a ring pop.
User avatar #4133 - cupcakescankill ONLINE (03/31/2015) [-]
*hug*
User avatar #4131 - cupcakescankill ONLINE (03/31/2015) [-]
I don't even know what to say to you. I'm a sad excuse for a human being. I know that. Everyone knows that. They deny it when I say that, but I know they're lying. At least you were honest enough to tell the truth.
User avatar #4132 to #4131 - inudewaruika (03/31/2015) [-]
Im used to handling people who feel they are worthless, sometimes they need a stern talking to wake them up to the realities of the world. Only you can improve yourself, the first step is to understand that, the second is to move forward and look for the answers to your questions and sadly, those wont be found here.
User avatar #4124 - wolfenbanes (03/30/2015) [-]
Why'd you remove me Inu...?
#4109 - theorangefox ONLINE (03/29/2015) [-]
Hi Inu! How's droh?
User avatar #4110 to #4109 - inudewaruika (03/29/2015) [-]
He's good, dreading his dentist appointment tomorrow, he's getting his wisdom tooth removed.

User avatar #4111 to #4110 - theorangefox ONLINE (03/29/2015) [-]
oh God, wisdom teeth are starting to become a thing on my worry list. I hope it's years before that becomes an issue.
User avatar #4112 to #4111 - inudewaruika (03/29/2015) [-]
His started breaking up, so it was a worry.

He'll have to eat soft foods till he gets his stitches out. Liquids for the first 2 days, until the bleeding stops so he doesn't dislodge the clot.
User avatar #4113 to #4112 - theorangefox ONLINE (03/29/2015) [-]
inu, stop you're worrying me.
User avatar #4114 to #4113 - inudewaruika (03/29/2015) [-]
He's gone through it before, he knows whats up ^.^

He'll be fine, he does after all have me :3
User avatar #4115 to #4114 - theorangefox ONLINE (03/29/2015) [-]
That is indeed true.
User avatar #4116 to #4115 - inudewaruika (03/29/2015) [-]
I'll be back in a sec, gotta give my kitten a flea bath.

User avatar #4117 to #4116 - theorangefox ONLINE (03/29/2015) [-]
okie, try not to get scratched!
User avatar #4118 to #4117 - inudewaruika (03/29/2015) [-]
Shes the crazy type, so I did lol.

But I'm used to her claws.
User avatar #4119 to #4118 - theorangefox ONLINE (03/29/2015) [-]
Funny enough, despite my Fox obsession I'd actually have a Dog for a pet.
User avatar #4120 to #4119 - inudewaruika (03/29/2015) [-]
Foxes are in the canine family though lol
User avatar #4121 to #4120 - theorangefox ONLINE (03/29/2015) [-]
True, but they look more awesome!
User avatar #4123 to #4122 - theorangefox ONLINE (03/29/2015) [-]
hella expensive though
User avatar #4125 to #4123 - inudewaruika (03/30/2015) [-]
Yep lol
#4126 to #4125 - theorangefox ONLINE (03/30/2015) [-]
Made a cake today by the way!
User avatar #4127 to #4126 - inudewaruika (03/30/2015) [-]
Oh yummy!
User avatar #4128 to #4127 - theorangefox ONLINE (03/30/2015) [-]
yeah. It was a lot of chocolate...
User avatar #4129 to #4128 - inudewaruika (03/30/2015) [-]
mmmm chocolate
User avatar #4130 to #4129 - theorangefox ONLINE (03/30/2015) [-]
yeee boi!
User avatar #4107 - murrlogic (03/29/2015) [-]
>$150 Asami plushie made by Inu the wiggliest of wiggles.
#4082 - inudewaruika (03/29/2015) [-]
New OC color Scheme:

Cutie Mark Suggestions Please
#4083 to #4082 - fefe (03/29/2015) [-]
The colors remind me of cotton candy and idk why x.x
#4084 to #4083 - fefe (03/29/2015) [-]
Its dinkie btw.
User avatar #4085 to #4084 - inudewaruika (03/29/2015) [-]
I figured lol, and yeah kinda, I wanted to step away from the colors I had and I knew I wanted to use purple in it, but another user has a purple pony and I didn't want them to say I took the color from them.
User avatar #4087 to #4085 - sheashea (03/29/2015) [-]
Like some flower with a big bloom and maybe a small vine or two twisting out from it?
User avatar #4086 to #4085 - sheashea (03/29/2015) [-]
What about some sort of flower?
#4088 to #4086 - inudewaruika (03/29/2015) [-]
What does it symbolize?

Also how about a darker mane and slightly different color body?
User avatar #4089 to #4088 - sheashea (03/29/2015) [-]
I like the darker mane with the lighter parts.
Body color with darker mane... eh... yeah something different.

Flowers symbolize life (what mom always told me. But I know they have different meanings Tho.
#4090 to #4089 - inudewaruika (03/29/2015) [-]
I agree with the body color, also how now?

I could find a flower that means something like caring or something.

>.> although I love irises. Those are my favorite.
User avatar #4092 to #4090 - sheashea (03/29/2015) [-]
Iris woukd be perfect. I like the meaning they have for it.
www.livingartsoriginals.com/flower-iris.htm
#4091 to #4090 - inudewaruika (03/29/2015) [-]
Here's one with the darker purple mane
User avatar #4093 to #4091 - sheashea (03/29/2015) [-]
Thiiis
User avatar #4094 to #4093 - inudewaruika (03/29/2015) [-]
It also means inspirational, the iris.


Maybe I'll make a white one my cutie mark
User avatar #4095 to #4094 - sheashea (03/29/2015) [-]
Very fitting ^-^
User avatar #4096 to #4095 - inudewaruika (03/29/2015) [-]
Now just to make it >.>

And get a new name.
User avatar #4097 to #4096 - sheashea (03/29/2015) [-]
No idea on names o.o
User avatar #4098 to #4097 - inudewaruika (03/29/2015) [-]
**inudewaruika shakes screen**

HALP
User avatar #4099 to #4098 - sheashea (03/29/2015) [-]
Lol I was thinking like another flower. Like lilac pr something . Jokingly because iris would be redundant
User avatar #4100 to #4099 - inudewaruika (03/29/2015) [-]
There are Lilac Irises.
User avatar #4105 to #4101 - inudewaruika (03/29/2015) [-]
Been looking up names of Irises.

Dream Step
Golden Lavender
Silver Charm
Violet Mist
Dream Away
Lilac Echo (I think this one)
User avatar #4104 to #4101 - inudewaruika (03/29/2015) [-]
AND REDUNDANT?

PINKIE ******* PIE IS PINK
User avatar #4108 to #4103 - sheashea (03/29/2015) [-]
Nice. I love this and with it on her butt too.

Lilac Echo sounds great actually. Nice homage to little Echo <3
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