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They wouldn't let me have the username "cocknose" so I guess this will have to do.
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#120 - lucariopwnz (12/23/2014) [-]
Hey I never said opinions didn't matter, I never addressed much of anything you just said. I made a broad statement and you assumed things based on that and you want to talk about arguments? Fine. I never mentioned opinions, all I'm saying is the things people say or think about us as people only matter or mean what we want them too. People bully others because of the reaction that they get from them, I call you a mean name, you cry, I laugh, repeat. But what happens when that mean name doesn't make you cry? When you realize that word means nothing more than you want it too? Who cares what anyone else thinks about you? Why should you? Now the bully doesn't get the reaction, now what does he do?
Looking at your post below about a dozen people you like hanging out with ditching you because of a hat... I have news for you there, if they stop hanging out with you because of a hat, they didn't like hanging out with you in the first place. If they actually enjoy your company they won't give a shit about what you do or look like. I'll admit it, I don't have a lot of friends because I would rather choose about 7-10 people who I can hang out with, be myself around, and wear whatever the fuck I want and not be judged because that's how decent people act. We are all the same on the hunk of moss floating through space, why the hell does someone get to judge anyone else? What the fuck gives them that right?
#129 - gallusnasus (12/23/2014) [-]
1. "Noise" = language = thought = opinions. You did talk about opinions because when someone says something they don't like about you, or treats you differently because of something they don't like, they are expressing an opinion.
2. I agree with you on the bully thing. If someone is actively trying to get a reaction out of you, you're better off ignoring them than changing because changing is just giving them what they want, and they'll keep it up. Bullies belong in a whole other argument though.
3. Have you ever met a shallow person? Like, REALLY shallow. Shallow people will spend time with you so long as they only know the things about you that they like. Once they find out something about you that they don't like (or if you add something to yourself that they don't like) it will overshadow everything else, because they care more about the negatives than the positives. It's just a matter of priorities. It's not that they never liked you, they actually liked EVERYTHING that they learned about you (and getting to know someone is just the act of learning traits one at a time), except for that one thing, and they decided that one thing is just too big to ignore.
I agree with you that people don't have the right to judge each other. We do it anyway though. All the time. Even just the idea that anyone who judges someone else is crossing a line, is a judgmental concept. If you'd rather put yourself with people you trust to accept you for who you are, that's your decision and I agree with it only because it's your choice to make and I don't get a say in it. My point though, is that those people aren't the only people you meet in life, and you will constantly be surrounded by the others, and sometimes the others will have a say in whether or not you get to do the things you want to do. If you can take the hits that come with being yourself outwardly all the time, then do it, but it's not always the smart decision and you must be prepared to stave off emotional damage.