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|#28 - You guys are getting to cheery from the same artist [+] (6 new replies)||03/05/2014 on :]||+65|
|#119430 - Alright, here I go. I've been dating this girl for about 3 mon… [+] (6 new replies)||03/03/2014 on Advice - love advice,...||+1|
#119526 - TheGodamnBatman (03/04/2014) [-]
Dump her, She will cheat on you again eventually. I don't mean with another guy, it will be the EX, eventually he will come back and say he is going to kill himself again or what not and she will cave again. I doubt she is texting him and probably hates herself for doing it, but it might just happen again. Your worth more then that, you can find a much better girl.
If you do decide to dump her, do it soon, dont take that revenge,meet up in an open place, dump her and walk away. Don't respond to her texts,phonecalls,etc. If you pass her on the street, don't even acknoledge she is their.
If she truly loves you, that will drive her crazy. If she isn't effected by it, you made the right choice and you can always try to be friends and date in the future.
Good luck with either decision, Your worth more and deserve better.
#119508 - situmus (03/04/2014) [-]
So much anger. I'm so mad for you OP. Mm, so mad.
FIRST off: eye for an eye in relationships is a horrible decision. Hurting the one you Love because they hurt you? Terrible terrible decision. Please don't do that OP.
The cornerstones of most relationships is forgiveness. If you care about her as much as I think you do, (you're only upset because you care about her so much) then I would urge that you let it go. I am not saying that's easy.
Maybe you two should take a cooling off period for a month?
I also agree with megadolphin.
#119439 - ScottP (03/04/2014) [-]
I agree with Megadolphin. Love is about forgiving, yet it's also about trust, compromise and respect. If you love her, then you will trust her and reach a compromise with her. If she loves you, then she will trust you to do what's best for the both of you and she will truly respect you by allowing herself to compromise. It's all about finding a balance between what makes the two of you happy.
If you really cannot bring yourself to trust her and are looking for a way to get revenge, then it's time to close that story, but end it in a way that you show her that you respect her still.
#119436 - Megadolphin (03/04/2014) [-]
It sounds to me you don't truly love her as you say you do, at least the way I see it. Love is about forgiveness and fortitude in the face of bullshit like that.
On one side, your girlfriend went under your nose and cheated on you without telling you. Her excuse doesn't really hold up to scrutiny either, she could have gotten you, or authorities, someone involved to get him off your ass. The fact she didn't immediately tell you also seems to bring about some mistrust.
On the flip side of the coin, she did come back and she seems happy with you, but you need to ask yourself, what are you worth? That's the only thing keeping the relationship what it is. If you are so mistrusting that you want to pettily smash her ego and feelings like that, than perhaps you'd believe you deserve better than someone who cheats. End it peacefully and maturely if you do, and state why.
I just got out of a very similar situation, and I promise it does get better spend some time for yourself and surround yourself with positive people if you do decide to go, time will heal the rest for you slowly but surely.
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|#78 - You have a skewed as to what the United States is understood t… [+] (1 new reply)||02/06/2014 on Surviving on minimum wage||+2|
#196 - captainfuckitall (02/07/2014) [-]
You don't seem to understand what I'm saying.
Minimum wage jobs are supposed to be for teenagers while still living at home, and they are supposed to be used as stepping stones to greater places once they have a bit more funding and more experience.
I'm sure such a philosophy could do them good, but no, they don't have to; what I would like is for people to stop going to bars, drinking down a 60-80$ tab every other night, and then complain when they have no money.
Indeed they do make great profits, because the owners who started it were very smart and also worked very hard, NOW they do very well because of it, and are under no obligation to share the slice of the pie THEY worked for because YOU feel you deserve more.
I can't help but notice that most of your arguments here are only centered around one corporation. And alright, I'm not justifying their actions or saying they are Ethical, what I am saying is that they are the bosses because they deserve to be there, and as bosses they can do what they like; just like you can quit, or not donate food, or hold a strike, or any number of things. That's why Unions were made.
I am very well antiquated with poverty, thank you (and to this day I believe it did more for my character and Ethics than any school lesson I ever had), and I am also not complacent with the state (quite the opposite. If you check a few of my comments a while back you'll find I plan to run in a political ring in Canada, so I might change what I do not like about my country; this very issue being one of them, because I DO sympathize with those who do not have enough).
You don't like it? Quit complaining to me and do something about it, that's exactly what I'm doing, and if I ever run a business myself I can promise that I will treat my workers far better. UNTIL then, why don't you help me out and together we can help out those who cannot help themselves? (Also, I do not think those on Minimum Wage are lazy, I just think too many are).
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