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This actually is the closest to a good explanation to all of this. But to me, still lacking.
You find yourself needing to protect something. Find the one you love and care for them and show you can keep them. I have ZERO clues as to how that is masculine. I would 100% PREFER it if more women were like that because honestly I look down my nose at most women for how sheepish they are. I love girls who weightlift, who have that drive and determination, that sense of strength. But I don't view that as "being a man" or "masculine" in nature. That's just being a strong human and again, I wish that across both genders. People are WAY too weak and soft these days.
Now, same with the womanly things you mentioned. Being a housewife and settling down.....of which no one makes anyone do. Others say things like "that's engrained." Really? Uh....again, as a male. I would love to find my one love and settle down with them and have a family with them. Well that's a female thing.....uh...ok? This is why none of this makes any sense. Well women are housewives....BUT they don't need to be. Men are strong and protective...BUT they don't need to be. So...we can be whatever we want. That's fine, but that doesn't address the issues of "My body doesn't match how I feel."
You said before I'll never understand it. Well as a fellow human that has empathy, I should damn well be able to understand it, if explained properly. It seems that all of these gender roles and issues are what trans folks are obsessed with. I don't know who assigned any roles to you or when they did but I'm sorry they did. I've lived how I've wanted to my whole life and never cared about what others thought so no idea where these rules and regs are coming from that you guys all want to follow. I've switched roles and haven't felt any more or less masculine because again....don't know what it means to feel masculine. Every other feeling under the sun I've got a good grasp on. Feeling like a dude...it's never happened.
And that's the thing, we all have differing views on what makes a man a man or what's masculine and feminine so we'll never completely see eye to eye. Empathy and being in the position yourself are two very very different things. And no, you shouldn't be able to understand it wholly.. it was explain properly. You think that the people explaining it are at fault when maybe it's you either asking too far or not being able to process it yourself. We'll explain all we can but if you can't make the connection that's on you.
Some trans folks are obsessed with this kind of stuff and love making a huge deal out of it and want nothing but attention, but the rest of us just want peace. And you know.. a good way to kind of explain is using some of your words.. okay you said you don't know what it feels like to be a man.. because you are.. and there are no real defining feelings for that.. that's also how I feel and why it's so difficult to explain it. It just feels.. normal. It's not that I 'feel like a man'.. it's just that I feel 'normal', that I feel like me and there are no words to explain it.. it just IS... and then you look down and see that your body doesn't match how you see yourself in your head and that's when you realize somethings wrong. It doesn't match up and you don't know why. Then everyone denies you, tells you you're wrong.. going to hell.. that if you can't explain it.. you're lying... you're looking for attention, when in reality.. dude I just want to be happy.
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