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The saddest thing is that sometimes the other person enjoys your conversations so much, but has come to expect you to write first so much, that they can't even imagine writing first, and feel so bad that you don't write anymore, thinking that you don't like the conversation anymore that they don't do anything anymore.
And so, sometimes 2 people who really like each other just grow apart from a mutual misunderstanding which shatters every confidence in it's vicinity...
Some people are more active (or outgoing) than others. It does not mean the other party does not like their attention or company.
Try apply it to your parents. Do you like your parents? Do they like you? Do they contact you or do you contact them? Is the contact one sided? If it's one sided does it mean the passive party do not like the other?
I just might send them that image
The reason I don't message people first is because I don't want to bother them... Sorry...
feel with me friends...
And then they do write, after 4 days, and you realize they do care, but not on the same level as you, nor they ever will, which makes you feel more miserable than before, because you can't even be angry at them now, just sad... and as time goes by, your unreasonable jealousy alienates you two and pushes the other person away completely. But you know they care(d), they just dont have it in them to do this anymore.
It's sad because it's so true
It's why I got rid of facebook ages ago, especialy because like a whole year later you see them all in real life and they treat you like a shut in and ask you why you dont have facebook. Then you activate it again and the cycle repeats itself.
Dude, just make a Facebook and don't use it. People always gave me weird looks when I said I didn't have one, sometimes almost dropping the conversation completely. Just say you don't use it often and youll get a lot less weird looks and people don't razz on you for it
Im pretty much the other person
well I make sure people can't reach me so I only talk to them when I want to
I have been on both sides of this situation and I don't know how that makes me feel
there are times when you dont want to associate with certain person and they remain persistent in trying to talk when you dont want to and you only carry on talking because it feels far worse to not talk back when they are trying to talk
Happens to me too, in that scenario I try to evaluate why I'm always initiating the conversation.
If I find that I do it because I enjoy the convo with that person and am not looking to get anything more from them, I continue doing it.
If I find that I do it because I'm low-key trying to take it to the next level with them (obviously doing a poor job), then I stop doing it.
I'm convinced that the ultimate key to everything is having confidence in yourself. If you truly know that you're WORTH a lot, then you can just chuckle to yourself at that person not wanting to be even closer to you. On top of that, if you're truly confident, then you won't second-guess your own decision to text that person.
There's no secret trick or answer dude. After one of my first bad breakups, i had to completely reinvent myself. Everything I was was wrapped up in her, so I had to become someone else. Got motivated, started working out and listening to shit like that Rocky speech (you know the one), became someone completely different. Began to have confidence in who I was, to love myself. For the first time, I was comfortable in my own skin, and utterly confident. Suddenly I've discovered I can be quite charismatic, now that people aren't scary and I have a glowing self image.
But it's not enough. If someone really doesn't care for you, sometimes no amount of confidence or self-improvement is going to cut it. Or help you not make the same mistakes all over again. No matter how hard to try to cut it out, even starting from your foundation and building yourself up all over again, some piece of your heart still remains. I still date with entirely too much hope, get into casual relationships and then catch feelings, fall in love. And like the fucking idiot I was then, I still end up paying dearly for making those mistakes.
That newfound confidence I have is impervious. It comes from me, no one else, and that means no one but me can break it. But that doesn't make it hurt any less when I become boring to her after a year. When the magic fades.
"Don't lose that confidence you have just over me, okay? It's part of what made you attractive." She said to me.
Confidence is useful, but it's not the key. Even knowing your worth, you still fall in love and still get hurt like a fucking retard over and over again, and I'll probably do it again in the future. In the end, no matter your confidence, your hope that things will work out will make you stick around. That maybe she'll learn to see you the way you see her. She'll be the one to finally see you that way.
I didn't mean to type all this much, to be honest. Just kind of came out. Sorry about that. The way I see it though, the only true solution to this problem of ours is to learn how to cut that fucking piece out of you. If you learn how to do that, hit me up.
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