Actually not. I just dont like going to clubs 'n shit.

What do you mean? The comments actually vary wildly, so I don't see a uniform opinion for your criticism... Not saying you can't critique - I just honestly don't see what you're saying because "the comments" are pretty split on the situation.

You don't have to be a virgin to share this opinion. Women have it much easier in the dating game, at least in youth (I won't comment on mid life because I'm yet to experience it myself). Typically it is expected that the man will ask the girl out, be the one to pick her up and take her on a date of his design, that he may be expected to pay for, all in hopes of impressing the girl. It's evolutionary, the male must impress the female whereas all she must do is decide whether she likes him or not. I'm not going to play that game though. As a man of course I will try to impress people but if they don't impress me in return then I'm not going to stick around just for the physical parts.

For example. At the end of a 'date' about a week ago the girl called me 'oblivious' or something similar for supposedly not picking up on her being obviously into me. I noticed, I just didn't care

I've lost the plot a bit but all I'm saying is that despite the game being a little rigged we can still play it our way. Take them off the pedestal, it's their job just as much as ours to be impressive.

mfw he starts making the bowl i never noticed the face I noticed the gold arm band and immediately was just "It's probs a girl"