Well I'm not your guy, friend!

Pedophiles are sick people - I believe you are right about that. I try not to judge people, and you raise a good question when you ask how I can judge them any differently. The thing that is so terrible about pedophilia is that it hurts children (if acted upon), and that is disgusting.

To me, asking the questing whether or not pedophiles are still bad if they don't act on their urges is like asking if it is still bad to consider murdering someone. Yes, yes it is, but, however, not as bad as actually going out and doing it.

Personally I try not to hate pedophiles, because I do believe it must be some kind of mental disease, but I can hardly help it - I find it hard not to loathe them. And by "them" I do not mean some 19 year old who slept with a 15 year old, no, I mean grown men who molest young children...

That's the word I was looking for, lol.