I'm someone that my friends often refer to as large, manly, and stronk. Think "bear", but not gay.

And yes, it still does put me off a bit. When I think of what a woman would want in a man's body type, I think "professional weight-lifter" or whatever have you, and end up feeling like I'm a lazy lard-ass piece of shit.

I suppose I can try explaining with my own personal experience. Growing up, two shows stood out to me the most in terms of fitness inspiration: DBZ and Avatar The Last Airbender. Sure I could never be a Super Saiyan, but the characters on that show taught me that there is always a new pinnacle you can achieve, even if you think you've reached your limit. Avatar taught me that no matter how strong your will, you need the skill and physical balance+strength in order to defend yourself. In many cases, it's not about how strong you are, but how well you have adapted to your own body that determines a fight. This inspired to study martial arts. Right now, I'm in the best shape I've ever been in in my entire life. The types of bodies vidya characters have are next to impossible to achieve without 24/7 training. I know it's fake and impossible, but that won't stop me from trying.
Obviously female characters have features like big boobs and butts which are based in genetics, but honestly, a well toned body on a woman can be just as sexy as a voluptuous one.

TLDR
Feminists says "It's impossible to have a body like that."
Guys like me say "That won't stop me from trying."

Son, is there something you want to confess?

Um....she doesn't look like that at all dude...

He isn't called Captain Marvel anymore for legal reasons.

I know its kind of like how the sears tower in chicago is legally the willis tower but everyone who grew up here still calls it the sears tower. i gues what im saying is idgaf hell always be captain to me