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User avatar #158 - secretlywheatbread [OP]
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I just want to say, as someone who was bullied, I was taught by my mother that everyone deserves respect and to turn the other cheek.
While that's great and all, I wish someone would have taught me how to defend myself verbally an physically as well because kids are little *****.
#282 to #158 - anon id: d3e3451c
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ahah, gotta love platonic/judeo-christian morality
User avatar #289 to #158 - sorcha
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I was bullied a lot as a child small and very weird the last time they ever hit me five of em cornered and tore lumps out of me and handed me back my hair after. My dad was a black belt don't know why that relevant but hey and he always tried to teach me to stand up for myself my mam and the other hand didn't wanted me fighting, after that she changed her mind the girls that attacked me were 3 years older and twice me size , so I waited and got them back one by one. My mam caught me with the last one she stood back for a second and then intervened and broke up the fight. I was left alone physically but they still were evil cunts to me for years till eventually all but one apologized for everything they did to me One cried though she was very drunk . One of my biggest bullies is now my best friend
#292 to #158 - tjocksnorris
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i was thought the opposite, not that i was bullies to any large degree at anytime, but still deep down all that civilized ******** dont matter at all, and in the end everyone tends for themselfs
User avatar #300 to #158 - badmonkey
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User avatar #366 to #158 - propanex
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No one taught me to defend myself physically... it just happened. Some douche bag pushed me in elementary and I pushed back. And the guy who pushed me elementary, continues to bully people in High school, so go figure.
#370 to #158 - grapesforall
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My school had marked me as a bully: This was mainly due to me not wanting to play with this one kid named Ryan. He was a ******* wierdo One time Ryan asked to borrow my compass (the thing you draw circles with, I don't know if children use them in school anymore). I lent it to him, where he then began sticking the pointy metal tip into his nipple until blood came out. I then questioned him out loud "WTF are you doing you ******* fanny?". Now he would do these type of weird things all the time but with other kids. Towards the end no one wanted to hang out with him or sit next to him or lend him ****. Ryan went and cried to the principles office with his parents and blamed the whole thing on me. They made me see the school councilor for 6 months!. My birthday came around and I invited everyone which i got along with about 26 of the guys (15 years old and wanted to do a paintball tournament). Ryan wasn't invited. Ryan heard about this and I found myself permanently in and out of the schools councilors office. It got so bad i had to leave the school. Now when i hear the word bully... I always second guess it. There is always two sides to the story.
#217 to #158 - autoxx
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I have taken SOOOO many kids under my wing and taught them how not to be pussies. (Always wanted a little brother, got a sister instead...)
I'm now a scout leader and I have found the best way is to treat them like adults with occasional guidance (away from the group to save embarrassment). So far two of my geeky scouts have started doing better in school, more friends, confidence, etc.
I might not have the brother I always wanted but I guess I can still teach the things I was never taught.
#364 to #217 - anon id: be878166
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you didn't get the brother you always wanted, but those kids got a role model they needed
#55 - anon id: 008d5dde
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i understand what OP is trying to say but I think we should continue teaching children that bullying is not ok, if people start to understand why its not ok there's a larger chance it wont happen.
teaching prevention is a more useful tool than fighting back
User avatar #348 to #55 - sirkanesixtytwo
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Did he/she tenderly rape you after beating the **** out of you?
#267 to #55 - anon id: 9761cadc
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People don't like hitting a target that hits back. An armed society is a polite society.
#271 to #55 - anon id: d19ca2ca
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Kids know bullying isn't ok but do it anyway.
User avatar #276 to #55 - valygomu
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but man kids are bitch with others kids since thousands of years, bullies are stupid the only thing that make them stop is a punch in the face by the kids he try to bully or a slap by his mother, that bitch can't tell him to stop being a dick ?
User avatar #278 to #55 - kynhardt
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Only if people actually learn. And here in America, if people don't have to learn it, then they probably won't.
User avatar #359 to #55 - nuclearkitteh
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No, not really. Humans are always gonna be dicks, and there really isn't anyway to stop bullying short of some kind of shock collar system or something.
#252 to #55 - dariussibiu
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The most useful thing will be to teach children to stand up and help the bullied...
User avatar #57 to #55 - unusualember
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I'd argue that we should have both. Kids should be taught to treat each other with kindness and respect, but there are still going to be those occasional assholes in the world that we need to be able to stand up to.

It's like the rape thing, don't make it societally okay but also don't pretend that it doesn't still happen sometimes.
User avatar #19 - Endofzeeworld
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"Violence is the last refuge of the incompetent"
-Isaac Asimov, Foundation
User avatar #24 to #19 - technoshaman
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Standing up for yourself doesn't necessarily mean committing violence, in fact it's putting yourself at risk of violence from someone else.
#290 to #19 - tjocksnorris
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Well **** this Isaac Asimov then
#26 to #19 - Skwurll
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"Something is true because it matches reality, not because some well-regarded person said it." - The Black Jester



User avatar #381 to #26 - andriod
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out of curiosity, Who is/was the black jester?
#36 to #26 - anon id: a55ea5ed
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"Something is true because it matches reality, not because some unwell-regarded person said it." - anon

#83 to #36 - anon id: ca6acfa1
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"Hit the nose" - Anakin Skywalker
User avatar #97 to #83 - popnotes
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"Ech" ~Jon Jafari
User avatar #145 to #97 - yologdog
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"Don't ******* tell me how to do my ******* job."- Sasha Grey
User avatar #226 to #145 - mookiez
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Don't tell me what to do- Black dude from drake and josh.
#135 - deathspawn
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Implying that all bullies and victims are boys
#137 to #135 - huntergriff
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>Implying that girls can't learn to fight.
>Implying that girls can't learn to fight.
#153 to #137 - disies
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>Implying girls aren't bullies too.
#156 to #153 - huntergriff
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>Implying that i'm implying that girls can't be bullies too
#160 to #156 - disies
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Didn't read the first comment nor yours correctly, sorry man.
Didn't read the first comment nor yours correctly, sorry man.
#161 to #160 - huntergriff
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#181 to #170 - lanfearandthecup
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too far?
#184 to #181 - huntergriff
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#182 to #181 - disies
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No, but close, you have another chance.
No, but close, you have another chance.
#185 to #182 - lanfearandthecup
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you now have trypophobia?
#253 to #185 - huntergriff
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User avatar #392 to #253 - lanfearandthecup
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sorry i couldnt resist ;p
User avatar #398 to #185 - shadowtails
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can u not
User avatar #399 to #398 - lanfearandthecup
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i regret nothing
User avatar #400 to #399 - shadowtails
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<<< portshadow on minecraft

Herro.
User avatar #401 to #400 - lanfearandthecup
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i should have realized, so like, know when venom is getting on? i cant do anything untill a mod is on... n stuff
User avatar #402 to #401 - shadowtails
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Nope. I'll get on later though.
User avatar #403 to #402 - lanfearandthecup
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k
User avatar #186 to #185 - disies
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No, but don't continue, stay cute.
User avatar #187 to #186 - lanfearandthecup
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i lost me at tit milk
#190 to #187 - disies
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It's okay, don't worry
#191 to #190 - lanfearandthecup
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Begin program "Remption"
Procedure started
#192 to #191 - disies
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#193 to #192 - lanfearandthecup
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Redemtion*  also have this pointless gif
Redemtion* also have this pointless gif
#194 to #193 - disies
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Thanks.
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sauce/?///
User avatar #376 to #312 - huntergriff
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google family guy porno.
#10 - anon id: 1ddce4f6
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what are you doing Blue shirt billy, just beat the **** out of your bully, stop getting punched in the teeth , you are being a victim billy.

Tell him to stop please

No you are being a pussy billy just use your magic scrawny 12 year old strength to beat up people twice your size

I cant do that!

Well according to the internet you can... great he beat him to death, maybe if billy wasn't such a pussy he wouldn't have been a victim all the time.
#13 to #10 - justtocomment
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You're confusing bullying with assault.
#15 to #13 - anon id: 1ddce4f6
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Also
"My dad taught me, ignore a bully and he'll keep coming back, reply to a bully and he'll keep coming back, beat the **** out of that bully and he'll leave you alone."

I was referencing this
#17 to #15 - justtocomment
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That just makes you a bully. Physical violence is not the right response. You can't make bullies go away, in fact beating up a bully always comes with the 50/50 chance that he'll come back stronger or with more bullies and inflict even more pain on you.
It's not about ignoring bullies, it's about not letting them bring you down. It's about accepting the fact that he's gonna call you a retarded faggot with a tiny dick, and just not letting his negativity bring you down. And it's about teaching kids the same thing - hear the bully, but don't listen to them.
#25 to #17 - anon id: 1ddce4f6
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"Physical violence is not the right response"
I know, that's what I was saying are you arguing just to argue?
#14 to #13 - anon id: 1ddce4f6
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Bullying is the use of force, threat, or coercion to abuse, intimidate, or aggressively impose domination over others

Assault is the act of creating apprehension of an imminent harmful or offensive contact with a person

Bullying , the kind that they are trying hardest to stop, involves assault.

You might as well say you are confusing gang violence with murder, they involve each other
#340 to #14 - anon id: bfeb07d7
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Hardest bullying is psychological, not physical.
#16 to #14 - justtocomment
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No, the bullying mentioned in this picture (the type they make laws bylaws and start internet petitions over) are the kind that involve being picked on. Gay kid commit suicide because his classmates kept calling him a fag - we start a movement. Girl drinks bleach because her classmates called her a whore repeatedly - we start a movement. Boy shoots up school because he was ostracized - we start a movement. That's the problem.
If something is getting the **** kicked out of them, it's a legal problem of assault and battery and should be reported to the police. If the person is being picked on by people on facebook? Why should that be anyone's concern? The chick from TLE started an online petition to help the kids of celebrities avoid bullying by websites because a particular gossip site said something about her kid. Instead of telling the world to stop being mean to people (which isn't going to happen - kids are dicks, especially to kids), we should be teaching people to love themselves and stand up for themselves mentally/verbally/emotionally and not react physically.
Everyone getting together and wearing duct tape on their mouth because a kid killed himself after being called a faggot won't stop people from calling other kids fags. Teach the faggots to stand above the discrimination instead of killing themselves and you can make a difference.
#29 to #16 - anon id: 1ddce4f6
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Bullying is the use of force, threat, or coercion to abuse, intimidate, or aggressively impose domination over others

Cyberbullying is the use of Information Technology to harm or harass other people in a deliberate, repeated, and hostile manner

That is what the word means, calling a girl a bitch on the internet is not threating forcing or coercing her , that is just being mean and that is not what bulling is, that is what cyber bullying is.

This picture is about standing up to people who are bullying you, it doesn't mention cyberbullying which is completely different.
#27 to #16 - anon id: 1ddce4f6
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"we should be teaching people to love themselves and stand up for themselves mentally/verbally/emotionally and not react physically. "

I know, That was the point of the picture, and accompanying text, you understand that it was sarcasm right? I was saying that telling bullied children to just "beat the **** out of" their bully is stupid. So what are you arguing about exactly?
#23 to #16 - anon id: 1ddce4f6
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You are thinking of cyber bullying, this picture is talking about "standing up for yourself" , To actual literal physical bullying ,and that is what I was responding too.
#22 to #16 - anon id: 1ddce4f6
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Except its not, Have you seen the Anti bullying campaigns? Stop Bullying Speak Up | Level Up | Cartoon Network
User avatar #208 to #10 - hypers
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'It's not the size of the dog in the fight, it's the size of the fight in the dog" Mark twain. Grow a pair and stick up for yourself, you victim.
#350 to #208 - hybridxproject
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When I was in first grade, I was dragged behind the bushes at recess and 5 kids beat the **** out me (black eye, chipped tooth). Also, I was scrawny as **** because i had trouble keeping food down at that age, so couldn't break free of the guy who restrained me. Mark Twain was wrong.
#298 to #208 - anon id: dbd8e133
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Are you ******* retarded?
"Either the bully hurts me, or I try and fight him and the bully hurts me harder"
#53 to #10 - anon id: 7ce537f7
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spoken like a true pussy
User avatar #121 to #53 - therebemoose
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said anon.
User avatar #139 to #10 - commontroll
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Doesn't mean we don't intervene when it's physically happening in front of us, but teaching kids that it will inevitably happen when nobody who will help is looking, and teaching them how to protect themselves or escape those situations is very important.

As opposed to punishing the ones who fight back.
User avatar #162 to #10 - xxidontbelievexx
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Sure that kid is getting beat up for being smaller, but if other people who see it happening, (assuming it's done out in the open), and help the kid stand up for himself, he won't go through it alone. No one does anything because they're too scared that they'll be next to get the **** beat out of them.
#228 to #10 - anon id: 25799ad5
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have you ever heard of boxing? what's more is even if little billy can't win the fight, he shows he will defend himself. bullies prefer soft targets who don't have the balls to fight back-- you know someone like you. faggot.
#339 to #228 - anon id: bfeb07d7
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Have you ever been bullied/participated in bullying?

I have both, and i can't tell you that it isn't about being soft and weak. It's about being different. Bullies LOVE when they fight back, that's how they get stimulated.
So you can fight all you want, it will often make it worse.
#248 to #10 - anon id: b7957803
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gang up on him
User avatar #262 to #10 - dmoneys
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Kids in school aren't bullied because they are small and helpless. They are bullied because the act awkwardly or innapropriately and attract attention.That or they are the type of people who are easy to get a rise out of.
User avatar #299 to #10 - salihzzz
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damn it billy get your **** together
User avatar #343 to #10 - kilotech
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works better than asking politely or whatever **** they are saying now, at least if you kick the ****** less likely for it to happen again
#358 to #10 - anon id: 50337004
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Fight or Flight lil billy *****
User avatar #383 to #10 - drtrousersnake
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most bullying is verbal not physical nowadays
User avatar #46 to #10 - captainprincess
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Because that's what "Teach them" means right? Just demand they do it right?
User avatar #200 to #46 - ReWeegieSTARE
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you can teach blue shirt billy to defend himself but that doesn't mean he can hold off a bully 3 times his size.
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I'm 6'7" 350lbs and I even lift. If you put little bruce lee against me, I would die instantly. Size is nothing. Its all about skill.
#337 to #209 - anon id: bfeb07d7
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Well, if everyone becomes good in martial arts size is gonna matter anyways.

A: 1 = 1
B; 2 = 2
A: 1 + 1 = 2
B: 2 + 1 = 3

This way of thinking is ******* retarded.
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Well it depends.
There might be methods you could teach him, I don't know.
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This kid whips my ass on the regular. He is a tiny little ****. Ima fat ham beast and I lift and he is my sparring partner. His girlfriend was still on skype and we didn't know it she snapped this. I am 18 and he is 16. It is possible to teach small people to take out big people without martial arts. For example I am so tall I have weak knees and a week back he has strong knees so he knows to go for my knees and not to get in close as I will grapel
#129 to #10 - rokkarokkaali
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That's why Billy should carry the bitch stick
pic related, it's the bitch stick
#345 to #129 - anon id: 5012116a
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Than go to jail for assualt with a deadly weapon everyone wins that right
User avatar #261 to #129 - rockamekishiko
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since bully is bigger, he can carry the bigger bully bitch stick
User avatar #60 to #10 - bettercaulsaul
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this wouldn't be a problem if billy had just lifted
#268 to #60 - touchmyfunny
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People need to stop assuming that lifting means better fighting skills or a more functional body (last thing depends on the type of lifting). Start lifting with low reps and high weight, then join an mma-club. You will see... people who think they are the **** just because they can pump some bars in the gym (everyone can do that after enough time) are usually the one who can't complete a whole training in our mma-course and who kick like pussies even after the first 2 months. Most leave after a week because they did expect something else from themselves. Don't get me wrong, lifting is still good to gain weight if you have an ectomorph-like body.

Long story short: don't get a superior complex just because you go to a gym, it can be fatal. Start with realistic views and be honest to yourself, that will bring you far.
#277 to #268 - Tommovdv
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I'm about as ecto as one can get, I lift, I'm a black belt karate, I have a 8-2 amateur MMA record. Lifting helped me a great deal with my ground game and with surviving armbars, leglocks etc. While technique will always win over power as long as you are good enough, having more strength due to lifting will definitely aid you.

So if blue shirt billy had been dead lifting, he could just pick the ****** up and Rampage slam him straight to hell.
#281 to #277 - touchmyfunny
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Sorry for my broken english, I am still working on it
#280 to #277 - touchmyfunny
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My experiance is that people who only lift are more than often overestimating themselves extremly in terms of real sports which take skill, stamina, flexibility and often also a good mind. I am not bashing gym-people, i am now myself more often a week lifting weights than doing anything else the past 2 years (because of time-flexibility reasons).. but yet I still feel the need to point out that just because someone builds muscle at the gym doesn't mean he/she is automatically better at every other real sport eventhough you become stronger and have a bit better chances if your opponent is not a fighter. Some people get such a big ego because of something that is so easy to do if you have a few free hours.
#284 to #280 - Tommovdv
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This is very true. In the end its all about how you use the skills that you posses. Obviously, someone that has no knowledge of fighting, but is a 220 pound bodybuilder, will lose agains a 155 pound MMA fighter. My experience is that when you're squared off against someone that doesn't fight, 3 proper leg kicks are usually enough.

I get your point though. Some people let their ego inflate as much, maybe even more, as their muscles when they have been lifting. Which makes it all the more fun when you beat their ass in a fight without even breaking a sweat.
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My dad taught me, ignore a bully and he'll keep coming back, reply to a bully and he'll keep coming back, beat the **** out of that bully and he'll leave you alone.
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Or he will kill you
#8 to #3 - anon id: 1ddce4f6
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And if you are capable of "beating the ****" out of someone, they are probably not gonna pick you to target, that's why smaller weaker kids get bullied.
#293 to #8 - tjocksnorris
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You'd be suprised what a man and a metalrod can achive
User avatar #283 to #8 - whistleandrun
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I dunno about that, I was a pretty big kid (and definitely stronger than the kids making fun of me) I just never had it in me to properly hurt any of them.
User avatar #197 to #8 - hoponthefeelstrain
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if you don't know karate weird them out with your crazay. Ignoring them usually worked for me.
User avatar #143 to #8 - commontroll
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True, but that's why if you're weaker you become friends with the kids who are cool and stick up for you. I was that guy for a lot of people. I'd mess around with them and would do typical roughhousing with my buddies growing up, but in the end if anybody tried genuinely hurting them, I'd give it my all to make sure they didn't mess with my friends again.
#148 to #143 - anon id: 1ddce4f6
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sure you were.
User avatar #152 to #148 - commontroll
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I was. Guess what, sometimes people don't make up things on the internet. In fact, sometimes people on the internet are some great people.

Granted, I act like an utter asshole because that's my humor, but I care about the people around me and I'm very loyal. I may not be the strongest, but I've always given it my all.

Plus, when you're in elementary school or middle school and you're a head taller than everybody else, people are less likely to mess with you or your friends, especially when you're friends with the only guy bigger than you, and we all looked out for our friends, especially the ones smaller than us.
#168 to #152 - anon id: d2886fe7
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I was super weak and scrawny in elementary school (bullied) and then I started to beef up in middle school (semi-bullied). However, once I hit the end of middle school I started to win fights with kids without making it look like I threw any punches (dodging or taking the hits like a man only to deliver a few stronger blows), as such, they would get punished severely and I might get a day in detention. After that I wasn't bullied by anyone and I generally became at least somewhat sociable with everyone. Now I also help the people who get bullied out because I sure wish to hell someone like that had been there for me.
#12 to #3 - anon id: 16194a97
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no, the bully will come back to try and reassert his dominance. If he doesn't, that just means you've become the bully.
#133 to #12 - anon id: 3ac48f65
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That is the dumbest response I've ever heard. "You defended yourself from someone. That person now leaves you alone. You have become a bully who picks on other people because you defended yourself."

Seriously, just how many gallons of stupid juice do you chug before you start typing?
#382 to #3 - adamks
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But this is just so wrong. If somebody bully you and they get literally nothing out of it, he won't ******* come back, because he is not having any fun with it.
User avatar #30 to #3 - Gandalfthewhite
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or he'll come back with 3 friends when you aren't looking
#70 - theycallmesatan
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**theycallmesatan rolled image** this is my bully
#1 - firehippie
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it's pussification of the nation.

what the hell happened in the last 7 years to let this happen.
#4 to #1 - anon id: eb100573
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Liberals controlling govt.
#42 to #4 - alimais
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User avatar #78 to #4 - chrispoot
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Are you stupid? If liberals would be controlling, they would be in favor of letting people stand up for themeselves. Teachers are obliged to tell the victims to just cope with it or just "Ignore" the bullies, by goverment standards.
#119 to #1 - swagbot
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It has been more than 7 years, buddy.

This had been in progress for the last ~40 years... it's just ramped up in the past decade.
#166 to #1 - larknok
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you know what's amazing about what you just said? I am currently arguing with several feminists on youtube about using the word "pussy" in a derogatory way. I keep trying to appeal to their better senses that words like "dick" and "prick" are also insults without being misandric -- but they're *SO ******* STUPID.*
User avatar #285 to #1 - Daeiros
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The news channels figured out that stories about kids committing suicide were ratings goldmines, and ran all that Amanda Todd type of ******** into the ground until people decided that they HAD to do something to prevent it.

As we all know, the best method of stopping bad behavior is to tell people that it is bad and that they shouldn't do it.

Like the feminists say, it's victim blaming to tell women that it's a bad idea to get themselves blackout drunk on drinks paid for by random men they were flirting with all night and then walk home alone down dark alleys with their tits hanging out. Instead, we need to focus on telling men not to rape.

It's so simple!

We can shut down the DEA, just tell people to stop doing drugs.
All the home security companies can go home, we just need to tell people to stop breaking into houses.
The police? Completely unnecessary! Just tell everyone that crime is bad and they shouldn't do it.

Problem.
*******.
Solved.
User avatar #73 to #1 - Lbomb
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its some ********, you know what happened in my old high school? If someone started to hit you or attack you or whatever and you defended yourself both of you would get suspended. How does that ******* work? Im supposed to sit there and get my ass beat until some teacher breaks it up? **** that.
User avatar #80 to #73 - profkitty
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Agreed, happened to me in Jr. High School. I recieved worse punishment than the assailent, they put us in little rooms walled off rooms with windows in the detention room. He recieved lighting and heating, while I had the opposite, It was in the dead of winter 5 degrees fahrenheit. My mother requested I don't be put in those condisitions and they refused to aknowledge it and change the conditions, They said I shouldn't have fought back and look for a teacher or administrator, they later stated that this was my "extra" punishment to teach me proper responsibility.
User avatar #257 to #73 - negerslaktarn
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in my school i got yelled at by my fat liberal teacher because i stood ap against a bully and fighted back. apparantly that fat bitch wanted me to take all the beatings without saying a word.

this is why schoolshootings start mmkay
User avatar #136 to #73 - wanicochil
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Now I'm just throwing it out there, but maybe defend yourself through non violent ways?

Try to grab their arm, or block what ever they try to throw at you, or better yet just run away, running is always a good idea

It is to stop full blown out fights where both of the kids could end up injured, or worse in hospital
User avatar #146 to #136 - yologdog
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"Now I'm just throwing it out there, but maybe defend yourself through non violent ways? "
I'm listening.

"Try to grab their arm, or block what ever they try to throw at you..." Good idea "...or better yet just run away, running is always a good idea" Faggot Idea

"It is to stop full blown out fights where both of the kids could end up injured, or worse in hospital" I got suspended once for blocking a punch that was coming at me, pushing the guy away and saying "Sorry, can we work this out?". I didn't throw a punch back, I didn't go out of my way to make him angry, I blocked then created distance then tried to work it out. And I got the worse punishment.

All that punisment taught me was to knock him on his ass next time and beat him until he was blue. If I was going to be suspended then I was going to ******* deserve it.

The punishment the second time around was lighter...

Go figure.
#188 - doctorprofessornv
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Unfortunately a big enough portion of society (or at the very least the vocal minority) has gotten it into their heads that all you need to do to stop assholes is to say a few kind words and hug it out. Unfortunately, kind words don't always work, but a fist to the face drives the point home. At the very least, standing up for oneself makes you less of a target, because the vast majority of bullies are just looking for easy targets to make themselves feel superior.

The bigger issue however is the way teachers have been dealing with bullying situations as of late. Often teachers are reluctant to do anything to correct the problem because they fear parental and school board complaints/litigation if they administer discipline (the 'sue everything that I don't like' culture basically). When the bullied kid finally snaps and knocks someone's lights out, both parties are suspended/expelled to 'make it fair' or 'because they instigated violence'. This isn't because they necessarily agree that both parties were at fault, it's just that it is much easier to indiscriminately hand out punishment than to actually make an informed decision and work through the problem.

Society has started touting the 'don't fight back' idea, and the school system supports it because it allows them to avoid actually having to take responsibility for disciplining students.
User avatar #195 to #188 - popeflatus
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I just read that whole thing in Beast's voice from the 90s X-men cartoon.
User avatar #128 - ilovemyguns
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This is also how I feel about gun control.
User avatar #141 to #128 - thegamerslife
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^
#201 to #128 - anon id: ee8689ea
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if guns don't kill people, people kill people.
then guns don't protect people, people protect people.

guns just shouldn't be super easy to get.
User avatar #344 to #201 - kilotech
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I could spend a day in my garage with some scrap metal and have a full-auto gun that no one knows about but me. unless you collect all the tools, scrap, trash and metal in the world people can and will build guns. and whens the last time a shooting happened in Texas?
User avatar #258 to #201 - negerslaktarn
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guns dont kill people. i kill people
#235 to #201 - anon id: 4d3b3731
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I hate how people think that guns are "super easy to get".

These mass shootings are happening in States like Connecticut and California, states with the MOST gun regulation. I live in Florida, and the most recent "gun" related incident was with the Zim Zam.

I understand that gun crime may be an issue in your state. Really, I do, and I have no issue with further regulations that help your people out.

But guns are not "easy to get" in California. There are other reasons why that **** happened. Even so, if regulation makes you feel safer? By all means, do it. Hell, I support you if that's what you guys want to do. But don't come to my area, where this **** isn't happening, and try and tell us we have to accept your laws that make US feel less comfortable. We don't want that **** here, so leave us out of it.

Let the people decide what they want where they are, and don't ban ****. That doesn't ******* work. Prohibition was ghey
User avatar #116 - tisjunkisdamnfunny
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we've started to create a society in which everyone wins. all the kids get gold stars just for participating and the winner's may be shinier than others. this only allows kids to gain this sense of self-entitlement to which they grow up to become pieces of **** who think everything should be handed to them.
#118 to #116 - anon id: 9d920b7d
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You just perfectly described the FJ community.
User avatar #227 to #118 - mookiez
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I pay my taxes mother ******.
#373 to #116 - awesomescorpion
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And which generation is telling these kids that lesson?
User avatar #390 to #373 - tisjunkisdamnfunny
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today's youth i guess. then again we've always been afraid of proceeding generations because they only have us to look up to.