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I just need to get this off my chest...

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Submitted: 08/29/2013
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#8 - zekant (09/02/2013) [-]
hey dude, I feel you, I know how exactly feels to have no friends, and person you only care turns away from you.I know that **** feeling..I know but somehow I am surviving and and I only hope you will pull it through and man we all funnyjunkers are your friends so don't worry and keep fighting and someday you will reach end of the tunnel and see the best time of your life so man up and keep up the fight, i willl be cheering you on
User avatar #5 - fuiuki (08/29/2013) [-]
Hey man. I can't give you advice and life changing paragraphs, but I can, however, offer a friend. Maybe not so soon and stuff, but I'm a good listener. If you feel like ranting, or whining or gossip or whatever, feel free to send a pm.
User avatar #4 - ruebezahl (08/29/2013) [+] (1 reply)
Difficult to give advice on that, as I don't know what kind of a person you are. But my best advice is: Cut everything out of your life that hurts you. Get rid of people who are not honest with you or who cause you trouble in any way. And yes, if currently all the people in your life suck, then get rid of all of them. Yes, that means you might end up alone, but that is not always a bad thing. It gives you the opportunity to figure out who you actually are and what you really need. Sure, we all need love and attention from other people, we are social animals. No doubt about that. But there is also something good in learning to love yourself and enjoying your own company. You might discover strength that you never knew you had, and there's actually a difference between being alone and being lonely. You seem to feel completely lonely now. Perhaps you will be less lonely without all the people who don't appreciate you

And when you cut all the people out of your life who damage you, you open up "slots" that can be filled by other people who might appreciate you more and you kinda force yourself to go out and find new friends who might be better for you.

I recently removed my sister out of my life, because she is a really terrible human being, and while I now feel that my (already small) family has become even smaller, I am much happier for it. I can now concentrate more on the people in my life who are really important to me, and I don't get annoyed on a regular basis anymore by my sister (which I then took out on people who didn't deserve it). I feel life is much too short for dealing with people who are a problem. I am old (much older than the average FJer), so I feel it even more acutely now. Believe me, when you are older, you will regret the time you wasted with people who were not worth it.

TL;DR: Don't waste your life. Focus on yourself, then focus on people who are good for you. I'm sure you'll find people like that.
User avatar #1 - imthatmotherfucker (08/29/2013) [+] (1 reply)
If anyone actually takes the time to read this I'll be surprised, but I thought this would be a better place to get advice or sympathy or any reaction from another person than in a personal blog that no one would ever see. If you read all the way through I sincerely appreciate your doing so.
#7 - anonexplains (08/30/2013) [-]
About a year ago I was stuck living with my sister, who is a horribly abusive person who insists on being in control of everyone. No one in my family other than my dad and me really acknowledge that she is like that. My dad and mom separated though and I wasn't with my dad. So I had to try really hard to find a second job and find a land lord to rent an apartment to me that I could have all by myself. Things have gotten much better for me since I learned that you can't keep caustic people around you no matter what. Since I started living on my own, I am happy pretty much all the time. I have lost 70 pounds of weight and have never felt better as far back as I can remember. I have not had anything so much as a cold since I got my own place. All I am saying is, hang in there man and try to get rid of anyone who hurts you. It will be difficult. But you have to do it for the sake of yourself.
#2 - anonexplains (08/29/2013) [-]
Hey man, firstly stay strong the worst thing you can do is give up, do you know what the most valuable thing is in your life? Its life itself. You have the power to do anything, do what you think is best at the time and you cant go wrong, and if it does go wrong and hindsight says "why did you do that you fool" who cares because at the time it was the best you could do. Your content has made me laugh, and brightened my day when i've seen it, you are not worthless because hey you put up some damn good content. Stay strong.
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