My problems

> Meet a girl on a night out.
>Met via mutual friend.
> We are about to go home together if you know what i mean!
> She says goodbye to friends.
> Says she can't go with me because our mutual friend lieks me.
> MFW the mutual friend is a guy.

All my feels

Just explain it to her.


Hopefully she'll understand.

If the only reason she turned you down is her friend talks about you a lot, you should be good with explaining the situation.

I think this is the rare double-friend zone. OP likes girl and gets girl's best friend (who is OP's friend and secretly likes him) to talk to the girl for him. OP thinks girl's friend will help him, but she asks for help from OP's dream girl to get OP. It's the classic Mexican standoff of the friend zone world.

OP is oblivious to the obvious potential 3 way he could get with a little work. Rooting for you OP.

THUMBS

Yesterday was the first day I alpha'd in my entire life
> 8/10 blonde chick
> Friends for a while, flirting etc
> End up in long term, long distance relationship with another girl
> Ends
> Still talk to blonde but not as much
> See's I'm not in relationship any more
> Start talking
> Find out she's halfway to relationship with alpha black guy
> Popular, muscular
> Meet blonde yesterday
> ************* .jpg
> Get along really well
> Gentlemen make no moves
> End of the night, sat on a bench near her house
> Conversation, average
> Think **** it's nearly 1am I should probably get home
> Say bye, walks off
> Wait ,blonde come back
> Just wanted to say
> Gettin' it on
> Next to me this morning

This isn't an interesting story, but I feel an accomplishment

made me think of this.

Maybe it was her way of saying "You should have talked to me instead of asking her to talk to me about you."

You know, you're only beta if you feel like one.