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#24206 - ilieksheep (06/27/2012) [-]
Right, thats it, breaking point.   
I'm 19, about to finish school next week and need to get a job. Doing an online application for a job and don't know if I need to ask my teachers for references or not, and I don't want to just put them down on there incase they'd have wanted me to ask first.   
   
So my mother, upon hearing me say I'm gonna ask my one teacher if I can use her as a reference tomorrow, flips shit, calls me a fat lazy cunt, screams about how I'm doing everything I can to avoid working and that I'm fucking useless.   
She then proceeds to phone my school, and asks if I can use a teacher as a reference without asking and says she's checking because I'm 'useless and won't ask'.   
   
I then try to tell her how I am going to get a job and I just didn't want to piss my teacher off, but thats not good enough, here comes the screaming fit about how I'm the reason there are problems with my parents relationship before I'm called a lazy cunt again and she leaves me alone at last.   
   
I've had this every day for the last 3 weeks, although not as severe, simply because she expects me to have a job ready as soon as I leave school next monday. I'm not going to University so she's treating me like a cunt for that as well, and if I do anything wrong I'm the biggest fuck up in existence.   
   
I do more around my house than my dad and sisters do combined, yet if she flips out according to her I don't do anything and I'm a lazy shit who needs to get my act together.   
I've have enough, the way this is going I'm either going to end up moving in with my girlfriend and her parents or I'm just gonna go live on the fucking streets or something. Fuck the shit she gives me, living in a box and having people piss on me whilst I sleep would be more loving than how she treats me.
Right, thats it, breaking point.
I'm 19, about to finish school next week and need to get a job. Doing an online application for a job and don't know if I need to ask my teachers for references or not, and I don't want to just put them down on there incase they'd have wanted me to ask first.

So my mother, upon hearing me say I'm gonna ask my one teacher if I can use her as a reference tomorrow, flips shit, calls me a fat lazy cunt, screams about how I'm doing everything I can to avoid working and that I'm fucking useless.
She then proceeds to phone my school, and asks if I can use a teacher as a reference without asking and says she's checking because I'm 'useless and won't ask'.

I then try to tell her how I am going to get a job and I just didn't want to piss my teacher off, but thats not good enough, here comes the screaming fit about how I'm the reason there are problems with my parents relationship before I'm called a lazy cunt again and she leaves me alone at last.

I've had this every day for the last 3 weeks, although not as severe, simply because she expects me to have a job ready as soon as I leave school next monday. I'm not going to University so she's treating me like a cunt for that as well, and if I do anything wrong I'm the biggest fuck up in existence.

I do more around my house than my dad and sisters do combined, yet if she flips out according to her I don't do anything and I'm a lazy shit who needs to get my act together.
I've have enough, the way this is going I'm either going to end up moving in with my girlfriend and her parents or I'm just gonna go live on the fucking streets or something. Fuck the shit she gives me, living in a box and having people piss on me whilst I sleep would be more loving than how she treats me.
#24347 to #24206 - gmarrox (06/27/2012) [-]
I know almost that exact feel man.  Your mom is probably worried about your future because a lot of parents want their kids to go to college because it opens up more job opportunities.  She just has a shit way of showing it.  Just tough it out and once you've got enough cash, get a cheap apartment to show her that you can be self-sufficient.
I know almost that exact feel man. Your mom is probably worried about your future because a lot of parents want their kids to go to college because it opens up more job opportunities. She just has a shit way of showing it. Just tough it out and once you've got enough cash, get a cheap apartment to show her that you can be self-sufficient.
User avatar #24342 to #24206 - smercenary (06/27/2012) [-]
A good guy like you should have some friends that you have had from your childhood, ask if you can stay at their house. That's what I would do
User avatar #24346 to #24342 - ilieksheep (06/27/2012) [-]
Believe it or not of all the good mates I've had since childhood I only keep in contact with a few, and even then I speak to them very rarely.

I go out every now and then, but I'm mostly a shut-in, with the majority of my mates I speak to quite often being on Xbox Live, and as such living fairly far away.
User avatar #24264 to #24206 - fisticuffsactivate (06/27/2012) [-]
You should just tell to her to her face, "Shut the fuck up"! She should take responsibility for what's happening in her relationship and should see that if she expects you to have a job that means that she sees you as an adult and that means she should not irritate you over your decision to not go to University.
User avatar #24267 to #24264 - ilieksheep (06/27/2012) [-]
That'd result in a slap knowing my luck, as much as I'm an adult my mums still a dick about it, willing to treat me like one when it suits her, but as soon as she's annoyed she treats me like I'm 12.
There's no real problems with her and my dad either, but every now and then they argue, so I'm getting the blame for that. She shouldn't be blaming me but she does anyway, she can blame me for everything that goes wrong around here and I wouldn't give a fuck :L
User avatar #24307 to #24267 - fisticuffsactivate (06/27/2012) [-]
Just try to make yourself seem assertive or dominant, she probably balmes all the stuff on you because she sees you as weak or something.
User avatar #24312 to #24307 - ilieksheep (06/27/2012) [-]
Its not that she sees me as weak, she's just an all around cunt 99% of the time.

Every now and then if she's argued with my dadand I've found it funny he's said she's nuts and kicks off for nothing. I thought nothing of it, putting a bed together with her then the next day and she was flipping shit at me doing anything that wasn't perfect, then when I mowed our garden and asked if I'd cut it all tidy she accused me of trying to guilt trip her over me cutting it.

She tries to turn everything into this big fucking argument or make out everyones being a dick to her. I its just that she loves to start arguments, she always has to win if something ever does kick off. If she doesn't get the last word she'll keep on arguing.
User avatar #24313 to #24312 - fisticuffsactivate (06/27/2012) [-]
Guess just stay out of her way then.
User avatar #24314 to #24313 - ilieksheep (06/27/2012) [-]
That's what I tend to do now, only way to keep everything quiet, and even then sometimes she just begins a row for the fuck of it.
After earliers little fit I stayed in my room, not left it since half 2 this afternoon and its half 11 in the night now. I only left earlier to grab some drinks and food when she went to pick my sister up from school.
User avatar #24325 to #24314 - fisticuffsactivate (06/27/2012) [-]
Smart, staying out of her way sounds like the best option and look into moving in with your girlfriend.
User avatar #24326 to #24325 - ilieksheep (06/27/2012) [-]
It will definitely be looked into in the future.
At the moment I've only got £50 so nowhere near enough to move out yet, although I've already decided that should it come to it I'm going to stay with my girlfriend and then start paying towards whatever it costs for what I use once I've got a job.

This is only if ze mother decides to act up more and more though. If it comes to it I'll just piss off for a week and see how my parents react.
One of my mates has big arguments with his parents every now and then and he's told me he just fucks off to his girlfriends for the week and they won't stop apologising and trying to get him home the entire time, its great.
User avatar #24327 to #24326 - fisticuffsactivate (06/27/2012) [-]
Fuckin' smart idea, man!
User avatar #24331 to #24327 - ilieksheep (06/27/2012) [-]
Why thank you :P baha XD
User avatar #24332 to #24331 - fisticuffsactivate (06/27/2012) [-]
Baaa, to you too, hop everything works out.
User avatar #24333 to #24332 - ilieksheep (06/27/2012) [-]
Quack.

Thanks man :)
#24223 to #24206 - bunnibear **User deleted account** (06/27/2012) [-]
Awe, it's OK wittle bear. Let me huggle you. ^-^ 'Mere.
#24271 to #24223 - ilieksheep (06/27/2012) [-]
Thanks :) baha, ranting on here helps a fair bit, so does virtual hugs :3 :L
Thanks :) baha, ranting on here helps a fair bit, so does virtual hugs :3 :L
User avatar #24354 to #24271 - bunnibear **User deleted account** (06/28/2012) [-]
I wonder if you can do virtual drugs and get virtually high.............
User avatar #24511 to #24354 - ilieksheep (06/28/2012) [-]
Hmm, intradesting...
User avatar #24417 to #24354 - codyklim (06/28/2012) [-]
GTA
#24207 to #24206 - aussieteen (06/27/2012) [-]
It's simple, you're just gonna have to kill your mum
It's simple, you're just gonna have to kill your mum
#24212 to #24207 - ilieksheep (06/27/2012) [-]
Forgot this.
Forgot this.
User avatar #24209 to #24207 - ilieksheep (06/27/2012) [-]
Fuck it, could solve the problem.
User avatar #24211 to #24209 - aussieteen (06/27/2012) [-]
Make it look like an accident and you should fine, well besides the fact you killed your own mother.
User avatar #24213 to #24211 - ilieksheep (06/27/2012) [-]
Should I get caught I'll flee to Mexico, always works.
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