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Submitted: 10/08/2013
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User avatar #7 - italianrambo (10/08/2013) [+] (9 replies)
Not to be "that guy" who pretending to be deep and thoughtful towards your problem, but in all honesty the phrase: "if you truly love something, you must be able to let it go".

But that aside, I do have to say if she just wants to be friends you do need to respect that. I mean there's really nothing you can do. She gave in after four years to date you, and it didn't do it for her, so she wants to go back to a friendship. I guess from her eyes you two made perfect friends, but not a perfect relationship as you saw it. Maybe the only reason you saw it like that is because you have the same view as her on the friendship, but because you started dating you assumed it was the relationship that was perfect. But don't worry, she still wants to associate with you, so it's not you didn't lose (what i suspect to be) one of your closest friends.

I personally haven't been in this kind of situation, but there's been a few girls I wanted to date that didn't see me that way, and I've had friends go through what you're going through. And despite not dating that girl, they've maintained great friendships.

Truth be told, you'll find that girl that gives you butterflies and you just feel a spark whenever you two hold hands. You'll talk for hours and it'll flow naturally. Nothing will be forced. We all hit hard times in relationships, with and without them. But the only thing we can do is pick up and move on.

Good luck Kyogre, and don't let this ruin your dating life, and don't compare other girls to your friend, cause that's just rude to other girls.
#5 - redagency (10/08/2013) [+] (1 reply)
Now I am in no means an expert but my advice would be to find some friends that you can spend time with to take your mind off of things for a bit. The worst thing you can allow yourself to do is to dwell on it because it really can affect your state of happiness. Try to just surround yourself with people you are close to and over time I think you will be able to go out with confidence again. Best wishes to you through this all though.
#3 - anonymous (10/08/2013) [+] (1 reply)
How about you stop wearing that fedora you fucking neckbeard faggot. Grow some balls and go get another girlfriend
User avatar #18 - iheartdip (10/08/2013) [-]
Cut all ties with her. She wants to have her cake and eat it too.....meaning she wants to keep you as a friend but fuck other guys. Fuck that bitch, don't let her remain your friend. It will be difficult OP, but you will be able to pick up and move on. You will find a better girl. Besides, you don't want a bitch like this as your friend anyway.
User avatar #17 - qwarthos (10/08/2013) [-]
rape and kill her
it's the only way
User avatar #27 - onemoreaddictingam (10/09/2013) [-]
Well I would walk to her house and bitch slap her for being so fucking cold hearted
#26 - emptysuperman (10/08/2013) [-]
Good for her. She avoided the situation in this pic. She never really loved you. Go after a girl that you can actually be with where neither of you are settling, you pathetic faggot.
#25 - kurtr (10/08/2013) [-]
She is either afraid of something, or just doesn't loves you anymore.

Happened to me once,she said '' why cant we be just friends ? ''. Somehow managed to calm her tits down. But well, we broke up after 4 months anyway.

My advice to you, prepare yourself for the worst.
User avatar #24 - slidershaun (10/08/2013) [-]
give it up... i lost my fiancee like this and it fucking sucked
#23 - bigpear (10/08/2013) [-]
Give it one last shot, tell her how you really feel and do what you can.   
If that doesn't work move on it wont be easy but its better for you and her trust me.   
I would not go beyond this trust me It will just make things more hard for you and her    
to move on.
Give it one last shot, tell her how you really feel and do what you can.
If that doesn't work move on it wont be easy but its better for you and her trust me.
I would not go beyond this trust me It will just make things more hard for you and her
to move on.
User avatar #22 - MikedelScorcho (10/08/2013) [-]
Im assuming youre not far removed from high school, maybe 2nd or 3rd year of college. if so, you are way too young to be too worried about this not working out. Youll find someone else, Im willing to bet she isnt as perfect as you think, but that you put her on a pedestal because you were infatuated with her. I know what that feels like, Ive done it before too. When it didnt work for me I looked back and re-evaluated the relationship and realized that yeah, we had been pretty compatible, but there was a LOT of shit I was overlooking because I really liked her. Drop her and start meeting other girls. It gets better
User avatar #21 - delphine (10/08/2013) [-]
You learn from it and use it to grow as a person. Part of growing up is learning how to accept rejection and moving on. It will take some time, but you can do it. Whatever you do, if she has made it clear that it is over, do not try to throw yourself back at her. It will make things worse. However, if being "just friends" is too difficult for you to do at this point, it is perfectly reasonable to let her know that you can't be friends until you no longer have feelings for her. It's not fair of you to expect a relationship, but if she was the one who broke it off it isn't fair of her to expect a friendship with you.
#19 - firebomber (10/08/2013) [+] (1 reply)
Once in the friendzone, always in the friendzone. I learned that the hard way buddy.
#1 - anonymous (10/08/2013) [+] (1 reply)
"Our relationship was awesome, we had everything in common and I thought we were perfect for each other"

Sounds like your problem. Look past it
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