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GIRLFRIEND unil'' ili' ..
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User avatar #151 - luiselvergas (07/28/2013) [-]
>7.5/10
>will use in the future
also
>TFW no GF
#149 - outoftotalrange (07/28/2013) [-]
What girlfriend?
#146 - anonymous (07/28/2013) [-]
**anonymous rolled user WhattheNorris **
User avatar #143 - pewo (07/28/2013) [-]
Go home Lightbulb you're drunk.
User avatar #130 - kaiizel (07/28/2013) [-]
How about telling her you're busy? Or is that too ******* easy?
User avatar #138 to #130 - seras ONLINE (07/28/2013) [-]
Telling a woman you're busy? Are you suicidal?
User avatar #128 - damakorithus (07/28/2013) [-]
i had a gf of about a year get upset with me over some ******** thing before, and because of this she decides to snap and become Captain Feminism. I broke up with her because she was being that way, and after refusing her begging to get back with me, she says - to my face -
"Fine then, Midget dick! I'll just tell everyone you raped me!"
wut
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#139 to #128 - damakorithus (07/28/2013) [-]
While this is going on, I'm still stuck in woodshop with this being of pure feminist energy. i swear, just being near her makes me want to stab a small child. She becomes obsessed. crazily obsessed. starts following me to each and every class, stalking me when i walk home. ****** weird.
So, at the end of the school year, at which point I've tried many different forms of restraining orders and such, *********** still stalks me. At this point i'm afraid, because she's doing it even while the school staff is watching the both of us to make sure she doesnt ******* stab me in the back and call me a pig.
anyways, I have a new gf at that point, named Summer. Beautiful Blonde girl, glorious in bed, 8/10 awesome body, i love her to death. but bitch queen seems to be an old friend.
one day, after having the most possible sex in a weekend, Summer decides to go over to the dark side.
I get a note from her telling her she's done with me and that I have not one, but two girls taking me to court for rape. ******* hell, man. really?
the next day i get brought in to, basically, an interrogation room. i get questioned with things like "do you have a history of violence," "have you ever been convicted of a felony," and such.
Finally they ask me whether or not I raped these girls. In reply, I hand them my camera. on it are videos and movies made while both me and summer and me and bitch hag were ******* . I saved them for just this.
The following week, at graduation, I see bitch hag and summer off to the side of the room glaring at me with those feminazi eyes of theirs.
in my speech, i thank everyone i need to, and then add on a remark about my camera. at this, both she-troll and Summer turn beet red and look straight at the ground.
I walk off stage and smile at both of them, then go and sit down with my family.

Now i'm in my senior year at JMU. Guess who i saw working at McDonald's?

#150 to #139 - angelmatvey (07/28/2013) [-]
That's beautiful
#124 - pikininja (07/28/2013) [-]
Or you could say, "Sorry for not texting you, I busy doing (blank)." You don't have to text her 24/7, you know.   
Don't be a dick by trying to lie to your girlfriend.
Or you could say, "Sorry for not texting you, I busy doing (blank)." You don't have to text her 24/7, you know.
Don't be a dick by trying to lie to your girlfriend.
User avatar #122 - theantidote (07/28/2013) [-]
That's...that's brilliant!!
#118 - anonymous (07/28/2013) [-]
******* normalfags
User avatar #113 - noblekira (07/28/2013) [-]
My excuse... "I have a windows 8S phone" my friends know how unfond of this bastard i am. I mean its good for practically everything apart from being a phone (in my opinion)
User avatar #110 - ryanburry (07/28/2013) [-]
and soon you will no longer have a girlfriend.
#93 - ntrecroce (07/28/2013) [-]
**ntrecroce rolled a random image posted in comment #2993394 at Friendly ** girlfriend when you text her finally
**ntrecroce rolled a random image posted in comment #2993394 at Friendly ** girlfriend when you text her finally
#72 - hopskotch (07/28/2013) [-]
Oh good, I thought I was the only one who did this.

All of the comments are like "blah blah blah don't ignore your girlfriend then."

You with the face. Yeah you. Shut up. We don't ignore her ALL of the time. This is just what happens when someone who games dates someone who doesn't, most of the time.

They're super high-maintenance, texting you literally 10 or 15 minutes, constantly expecting something back.

DAMN woman, just give me 45 minutes to SHUT THIS VEIGAR UP.
#131 to #72 - anonymous (07/28/2013) [-]
I hear you, fortunately my GF loves LoL. So we just skype each other while playing the game
#127 to #72 - anonymous (07/28/2013) [-]
holy **** , are you 12?

learn to communicate with your girlfriend


i always tell my girlfriend when i'm doing something that i don't want to be bothered doing it
User avatar #78 to #72 - laelaps (07/28/2013) [-]
Then why are you dating such a clingy emotionally insecure woman where they have to text you every 10 minutes, and expect a response back every time? Sounds like you have it coming.
#92 to #78 - republicanwarlorda (07/28/2013) [-]
cuz he's a gamer and that's all he can get hahaha
#119 to #92 - danascully (07/28/2013) [-]
Did you just laugh at your own joke?
#94 to #92 - hopskotch (07/28/2013) [-]
"All he can get"

>GET

LOL
#80 to #78 - hopskotch (07/28/2013) [-]
At least one of us has it coming.
User avatar #81 to #80 - laelaps (07/28/2013) [-]
hehe, that was a sexual reference
#71 - fontell (07/28/2013) [-]
my neighbor's mom makes $87 every hour on the laptop. She has been out of work for 8 months but last month her income was $19375 just working on the laptop for a few hours. Here's the site to read more ........... WEP6.ℂℴℳ
#63 - kroople (07/28/2013) [-]
If you're dating someone that would fall for this, you should really reconsider your relationship.

alliteration ftw
User avatar #56 - whatupnachoface (07/28/2013) [-]
Story-time FunnyJunk.
Gather around the Old Tree, and listen to this tale of misery.
I had a girlfriend for some time. This time turned into three years. She became my fiance.
She loved me, she worshipped me. Literally did anything for me. And I would have burned the world for her, if she had asked that of me.
A year ago, a guy in her college class tried something with her. She rejected him, told me, but as she told me they were just friends, I let it slip.
This year I'm moving out of the country, but we had decided to keep it as a long distance relation. Keep in mind I'm still here, with three days to move away.
A week ago, she went on vacation with her friends.
She cheated on me with this dude. This ************ .
She came back, asked for my forgiveness, said it was a mistake..
But I couldn't bring myself to get back with her. Nevertheless, supported her, stayed there when she needed to cry because she hurt me, and basically **** her.
She promised me she didn't like him at all, and she swore she would never cheat on me again, or do something like this.
Last night, she told me the club she was going to go party at, and as we decided to stay separated for a while, I told her I wouldn't be going. She told me she was thankfull I understood about the time apart.
My friends wanted to go to that club, because they love it. I'm drunk out of my brain, think it's a good idea to surprise her romantically.
Walk into the club...She's making out with that guy.
Contain myself just to not kill him on the spot.
She cries, she begs for my forgiveness. No mercy.
Nevertheless, being the gentleman I am, after she leaves crying I go to her house to end well, say goodbye, a last smile, a last I love you, and get on with my life.
She refuses to see me, she sends her dad to kick me out, and she has rejected my offer to talk about it, and say goodbye to something so beautiful as it was, with a beautiful hug. She doesn't even want to talk to me, like I'm the bad guy.
It hurts so much.
User avatar #145 to #56 - forrestblue (07/28/2013) [-]
I applaud men like you for not committing an OJ. I pretty much had the same thing happen and it's just like part of you is gone at that point. Believing in something so long just to find it's worthless to the other person is the worst feeling in the world.
User avatar #159 to #145 - whatupnachoface (07/29/2013) [-]
And you're right, it makes you feel like you could die and it wouldn't be a bad thing.
User avatar #155 to #145 - whatupnachoface (07/29/2013) [-]
Thanks bro. I feel you.
I appreciate the support.
#114 to #56 - jameshill (07/28/2013) [-]
See these are the comments on FJ that i like to see, reminds me that people actually can feel on this site. But i know your pain man... i had a ex gf who did the same 						****					 it's 						****					 i know, but best of luck man cheers.   
   
here have this gif this gif to cheer ya up    
   
ps i love turtles
See these are the comments on FJ that i like to see, reminds me that people actually can feel on this site. But i know your pain man... i had a ex gf who did the same **** it's **** i know, but best of luck man cheers.

here have this gif this gif to cheer ya up

ps i love turtles
User avatar #106 to #56 - whatupnachoface (07/28/2013) [-]
Thanks for the support guys.
It's being rough.
What pains me the most, is something I havn't explained on my previous statement.
As it was my last week in my country, I had organized a perfect week.
Like trips, rides on horseback (pretty gay, but she loved it), picnics in the forest, dinners at expensive restaurantes...and then, a proper engagement ring (as we got engaged with silver ones in the past), and a vacation in the most luxurious hotel in Riviera Maya.
Keep in mind I'm not rich, so I had to put a lot of work, determination and passion into building all of this.
And she just destroyed me.
User avatar #108 to #106 - whatupnachoface (07/28/2013) [-]
I ******* treated her like a Princess.
#99 to #56 - anonymous (07/28/2013) [-]
Something extremely similar happened to me. Well it was an online relationship only, we knew each other through DeviantArt, and got to know each other over text. We dated for a whole year. She started talking to thins guy in the Philippines, just as I was getting a job to pay for a plane ticket to move in with her. She once made a joke that she was having an affair, I knew it was a joke because I saw every email when I logged into her account. Well I was extremely jealous because in no case is it funny to me. Then she ended up cheating on me with him, sexually rp'd with him. I was so upset, I ran out at my job and said I quit. We ended up breaking up, she ended up moving to the Philippines to be with this guy.
User avatar #156 to #99 - whatupnachoface (07/29/2013) [-]
I feel you anon, and even though I see that internet relationships can be very real, and get very deep within your heart...I consider it has nothing to do with a real life relation...I mean, I saw this girl every day, ****** her every night. She was going to be my wife.
#96 to #56 - anonymous (07/28/2013) [-]
That hit me right in the feels, whatupachoface...I can relate to that. I have a question sir, how come when the female gender of the relationship blames the breakup on the male gender, even when its the girl's fault??? This basically happened at the end of your comment and you didnt overreact or anything that you were gonna regret. I'm sorry that happened my friend. I may be anonymous, but I know when its right to say something.
Thumb for you my good sir
User avatar #102 to #96 - whatupnachoface (07/28/2013) [-]
Cheris these words.
THANK YOU anon.
Yes I thanked an anon.
It's being really hard on me, and I really want to appreciate all the support you guys are giving me, just because you're good men and know the gentlemen's code.
I don't know how this can happen, their self righteousness kicks in the most strange circumstances.
I think it's because I have nothing to hide, and I have a clear conscience. My Jiminy Cricket is applauding me while weeping. But she has to hide because she is a coward, and doesn't have the strength to confront her fears and her deeds.
She doesn't want to be held responsible, she doesn't have a concepto of justice.
#86 to #56 - hchmly (07/28/2013) [-]
Dude, i went through something really similar to that a couple months back. Actually almost literally identical to your story, with a few minor differences. I understand how you feel man.
its going to suck fantastic amounts of dick, and youre gonna feel like total **** for a long time, all i can say is to bear with it and come through the other side as a ******* boss. You have my support (for what its worth). Stay strong brother
User avatar #103 to #86 - whatupnachoface (07/28/2013) [-]
Thanks Brother.
I will stay strong. I will stand up from this.
Thank you all guys, **** you're helping me out.
#77 to #56 - anonymous (07/28/2013) [-]
Dude...I feel for ya
User avatar #68 to #56 - amuro (07/28/2013) [-]
You and i... We are very similar. You will not have to read it all, but if you do, you will understand a thing or two.
www.funnyjunk.com/advice/84928#84928

Will be an honor to add you as a friend.
User avatar #116 to #68 - jameshill (07/28/2013) [-]
man i gotta know the story ends wheres part 2? can't find it after it says continue
User avatar #121 to #116 - amuro (07/28/2013) [-]
Order is:
84928
84929
84931

And then, the comments-.
User avatar #123 to #121 - jameshill (07/28/2013) [-]
wow... man that is rough, but i must ask then. What happened is everything good with you two now or still fighting for her, whats going on?
User avatar #126 to #123 - amuro (07/28/2013) [-]
well... What can i say? I stoped crying a few weeks ago. I took a lot of assignments in the university and i will enter gym to get fit next week. My job is in a cool mood but not excellent. And my family... Well, they are surviving. Specially my mom. I am worried about her. Also i adopted a stray cat, go figure.

In the other hand, my fiancee? -if i can still call her that way- Wrote me fridayy just to say that she will took 4 days off because her BD, and will be at parties (at her job and a ¨friend¨) and so. Also, she said that she would be unreachable via phone, skype and so because of reasons related to her BD.

Imagine my face, plox. We barelly talk nowadays.

I think she don't care at all of anything and she doesn't know what she wants in life. Also i am pretty sure she is cheating. IDC anymore, actually. If she dont want to tell me the truth, that is fine.

I am trying to be Mr.. Brightside here, so I don't really think so much in her nowadays. She is slipping out from my heart, one day at a time.

I need to keep moving. A lot of ppl believe in me.

-----End of drama and **** , sorry-----

TY very much for reading. I really apreciate that, man. If you have any piece of advice, feel free to tell me.

User avatar #129 to #126 - jameshill (07/28/2013) [-]
well good for you man just do you own thing, just do you for a bit.

But I've gone through somewhat of a similar experience, she's my ex now, but that's a given lol. Well to make a long story short essentially i dated this girl for over 2 years (im 19 btw so 2 years in a relationship is like forever me) and everything was going fine for the first year, then she moved to a different town. It wasn't far only about 30km away so if i really wanted to i could go see her. I would pretty much use all my money just to go and see her. But as time passed we started not to talk everyday, i wasn't waking up to the text messages like "hey babe" or hey sexy, you know the usual stuff. So being the dumbass i am didn't really give her the attention she needed, next thing i know she's going to parties drinking all the time just not really there you know what i mean, but anyways getting off topic.

Next thing i know she cheated on me with some **** , and to make it worse i hated this kid with a passion, i just found this guy to be a douche, she tries to tell me that she didn't do anything, but yet all of my closest friends tell me she's no good she's sleeping around all the good stuff. I try not to believe, but there's always that little bit doubt in the back of mind. So eventually i get a BS story out of her where she's like " Oh no we only slept in the same bed together, at a party with the door closed and away from everyone for atleast 2 hours. we end up staying together, but i tell her i can't do this **** again, i choke up saying this because i love this girl, but i just dont know what to do at this point.

So a couple months go by and one day i notice something about her, nothing huge just a little subtle. So i ask her " are you pregnant" she reassures me she isn't and that its just the birth control she's on and it's making her bloated. At the time i thought that was totally believed so we move on. (continues)
User avatar #134 to #129 - jameshill (07/28/2013) [-]
Another month passes by and bring it up again, but at this point i can tell she's gotten a big bigger, she won't drink anymore and all that good stuff. so i ask her again, are you pregnant? once again she re assures me she isnt. At this point im doubtful, but i still believe her.

After i asked her for the second time if she was pregnant things just kinda changed, things just weren't the same. So by this time it's almost mid summer half way through july at this point, and we just completly stop talking for 2 weeks.
The 2 weeks go by and back home, i get a text message from her, saying that she wanted to break, no explanation, no reasoning no nothing. I won't even lie about man i cried it hurt like a bitch. Another 2 months go by and i finally hear something from her, i get message saying I'm pregnant and i don't know who the dad is, i dont even know what to say her. I ignore her for a couple days and pretty much just smoked pot and did nothing. So another week goes by and i finally message her and ask so what do we do? She then tells me it's not even mine. Can you imagine how that feels, it hit me right in the feel bads. basically we don't much we would talk once in a blue moon, but every now and then i message her to see how she's doing. But recently she was trying to get back with me saying how she messed up and wants me back. But i just couldn't do like i still love her and all but just can't go through that ******** again and she has a kid.

So anyways theres my story man, but my advice is basically what i said earlier just do you man because you never know. Now im dating this new girl who was pretty much my best friend from highschool and she's probably the coolest girl i've ever met man. Like this girl will go paintballing play pokemon do all this **** . But anyways thanks for taking the time to read my story
User avatar #135 to #134 - jameshill (07/28/2013) [-]
mind the spelling mistakes just wanted to actually get it all down, im not a grammar nazi at all :p
User avatar #140 to #135 - amuro (07/28/2013) [-]
Sorry for answering right now, but FJ didn't send me notification. And no prob about the spelling.

Deam, bro I... Feel bad for you. I really do. In my case, she blamed for every single thing who went wrong in our relationship. I loved her (And respected her) so much that I bite my tongue just to not insult her. And she was like ¨say something, deam it, say I am a bitch, react, say that I am worthless, I hate that you don't get angry and I look like a crazy woman¨.

Yeah. It was nasty. And I hate, really hate her attitude: she is like ¨we are fine I luv you¨ but then, she disappears. And I just have enough drama in my life to tolerate someone who don't love me.

She was my first true love, and also my first... Well, you know. Maybe my expectations were way too high, daydreaming of marry her and have a life togheter? IDK. What I have right now is the feeling that I must keep going.

You are a great human being. And I admire you, I really do. What you have passed was terrible, but you are a true gentleman. Next time she tells you she want to get back, tell her that ¨I know you love me, but this is your process, not mine. You got your shot, now... I got mine¨.
User avatar #147 to #140 - jameshill (07/28/2013) [-]
oh it's no problem, well you know man when people say women you can't live when them but you can't live without them, thats something i could drink to. But i appreciate it man. I wish the best for you.

im no gentlemen though just your average joe right here

That last line ¨I know you love me, but this is your process, not mine. You got your shot, now... I got mine¨. thats freaking genius im not that clever to think of something like that. But anyways man this little chat made my day quite honestly and took my mind off work.

You my friend have great day, you just made mine.


User avatar #152 to #147 - amuro (07/28/2013) [-]
No prob, is great to meet people like you.

Keep you head up, and have a great week!
User avatar #153 to #152 - jameshill (07/28/2013) [-]
the feeling is mutual,
but thanks man you too
User avatar #133 to #129 - amuro (07/28/2013) [-]
Deam. I am here, mate, reading you.

Deam.
User avatar #104 to #68 - whatupnachoface (07/28/2013) [-]
It would be a pleasure and an honour to have such a gentleman as a friend.
User avatar #65 to #56 - chiefrunnyjeans (07/28/2013) [-]
I've learned that if you meet a bitch who has cheated in the past or cheats on you, then cut all ties with her. They never change
User avatar #109 to #65 - whatupnachoface (07/28/2013) [-]
She had never cheated on me. Never thought she would, never thought she could.
I guess you're right.
User avatar #64 to #56 - herecomesjohnny ONLINE (07/28/2013) [-]
forget about her and never think of her again, i'd say. Don't try to settle accounts or explain anything to anyone, just move on man, moving on is winning.
User avatar #105 to #64 - whatupnachoface (07/28/2013) [-]
I thought winning was having a life with her.
Apparently I lost. And I was wrong all along.
User avatar #57 to #56 - snaresinger (07/28/2013) [-]
Sounds like the stories of my last two girlfriends combined. First one had her parents go ******* and treat me like the bad guy even though she ****** up everything and was a complete bitch to me. Second one cheated on me after a year and a half, begged my forgiveness. I got through both situations. It's gonna be tough, especially doing both at the same time, but you have my best wishes.
User avatar #60 to #57 - whatupnachoface (07/28/2013) [-]
Thanks. I really needed that right now. I'm broken.
User avatar #61 to #60 - snaresinger (07/28/2013) [-]
I know we don't really know each other, but having been where you are, I'd really like to help. If you ever need someone to talk to, just message me.
User avatar #62 to #61 - whatupnachoface (07/28/2013) [-]
This means more to me than you can imagine. Thank you, stranger.
I'm so ******* broken.
I know she doesn't deserve my tears or my suffering.
But a real man cries without covering his face, or being ashamed of it.
And it's so ******* hard not to cry right now.
User avatar #97 to #62 - ICEDgrunge (07/28/2013) [-]
******* cry man. You aren't supposed to bottle emotions. That's not what you sign up for when you are born a human with a phallus. Crying is the most natural thing we have, and it helps more than people care to think. Never be ashamed of it, because it can help you the most in the hardest situations.
User avatar #107 to #97 - whatupnachoface (07/28/2013) [-]
Thank you bro.
Trust me, I've cried. The thing is, I don't know if I cry because I long for her, or because I wanted to make her happy or because I'm broken.
#154 to #107 - hchmly (07/28/2013) [-]
Yo crying feels so good when you let it out. just dont hurt yourself man, i know i did..
User avatar #142 to #107 - stuckinthedryer (07/28/2013) [-]
**** man, you're situation sounds pretty ****** up, but if she cheated on you twice she obviously didn't actually love you. So whoever the girl was you fell in love with wasn't the same person who made out with some random douche bag at a club. Got a **** ton of feels for you bro, but only 3 words to sum it up, **** that bitch.
User avatar #157 to #142 - whatupnachoface (07/29/2013) [-]
Thanks. Thank you so much.
I really think she loved me. I mean, we were together for three years...And I still think she loves me. But that doesn't make her less of a bitch.
User avatar #160 to #157 - snaresinger (07/29/2013) [-]
My sentiment exactly. I'm going to be real honest man, because this is what happened to me- sometimes bitches want one man to settle down with for their lives, but the thought of only having one dick ever again is too much for them, because at their core, they're just as bad as men when it comes to tasting as many flavors as possible. Sometimes a real good man is mixed up with a real bad bitch. What you need is a woman, not a bitch. You don't need a bitch who wanted to give herself to you, but only after she was done slutting it up, which she did while you were still in a relationship. You need a woman who wanted to give herself to you, and when she decides to do so, she's ready to never look back.
User avatar #112 to #107 - ICEDgrunge (07/28/2013) [-]
At this point right now, it's understandable for it to be all three. No matter if a girl you love tries to ****** you, you'll still love her the moments after. It takes a long time for the dust to settle and to be able to come to grips with the true terms of the situation. You did your best to make her happy, she took it for granted, without a doubt. She ruined her chances for the best thing to happen to her. People always try to give eachother the world, but it's a lot to ask for them to understand it, but she obviously didn't even try to ******* understand it. Regardless, she left you with a lot man. Just know that no longer from the point you walked into the club was she redeemable. She's not worthy enough for you anymore. It's evident, simply due to the amount of damage she caused. It'll take a long time, but I'll tell you one of the most true, yet cliche things anyone can ever tell: Keep looking forward, mate. From this point it's no longer worth it to look back and think of what could have been. If you do that long enough you ignore the reality of what happened back there, and you dig yourself a hole that you'll come back to fall into in the future. Just keep looking forward man, no matter how many tears it takes, get a can of beer, your favorite music, and make the best of what you can, that's all you owe to yourself.
User avatar #161 to #112 - snaresinger (07/29/2013) [-]
**** dude. I know you meant that for him, but that helps me a lot. It's only been four months since my relationship was destroyed, and I'm still a bit sensitive. Still can't make it a day without cigarettes. Thank you.
User avatar #163 to #161 - ICEDgrunge (07/29/2013) [-]
You're welcome, friend. I'm glad to have helped. It'll take time for things to get better, it can't be forced. That is something many people fail to understand, but you're good where you are. As I said, things will get better as the days go on. Don't fret about the cigarettes. That's not as important as you are now. When those are the only thing you feel the need to worry about, then it's time to do what you will about it. Whatever helps you go on man. That's all that counts.
User avatar #158 to #112 - whatupnachoface (07/29/2013) [-]
Thank you so much.
You don't understand how much that helped me.
I'm going to save that in my computer, and look at it from time to time.
That was something special.
I know she's not worthy. But I'm helplessly devoted to love her.
I don't see any way out of my love. This happened last night and I don't know why I keep texting her, even though she doesn't reply. I just need an answer. I need a reason. I need for her to tell me why.
I'm scared, because I think I might still forgive her, but I really don't want to.
I know she loves me, and I love her, but I can't assure myself if I'll be able to draw the line between love and obsession. And if she comes back crying, which I think she will do, I don't know if I'll be able to resist. She was my Muse, and mi Princess.
Help me dude, please.
User avatar #162 to #158 - ICEDgrunge (07/29/2013) [-]
It's natural for one to love someone that did something so cruel. It doesn't remove the amazing times you spent with the one you love, but you have to remember, and you have to see, that it does out-shadow all of those moments. The way I see it, you need to hear the answer as to why. I've always felt that matters most. The hardest part that must show the strongest conviction is that you know that it's not going to be the true answer. It's going to be contorted, twisted, she wants you to forgive her, you're the person who would give everything for her. She doesn't want to lose that. The thing is, something I MUST ask you to remember, is that no matter what she says, no matter how you feel, she didn't give everything to you. That's what draws the line between you and her, and that is the only line that matters. I'll tell you something friend, from what has happened from the beginning of recorded history to this point in which I'm writing this response, at about 10 minutes before 1:00 AM, the line between love and obsession has drifted so far apart from eachother that it's almost as invisible as the force that holds us to the Earth. You're not obsessed, you're stricken. There's nothing wrong with how you feel, you'll never fall past that line you feel you are, it's natural to feel this, but it is something you must overcome. I won't ask you and you can't ask yourself to overcome this feeling right now, that's something that must be dealt with in time. That's something to be accounted for and valued, the time you give to yourself. You can't ask yourself for immediate action because you'll do something you'll know is wrong.
I have faith that you'll do the right decision that is ultimately best for you, brother. No matter what it is. I'm honored to have helped in any way possible.
User avatar #164 to #162 - whatupnachoface (07/29/2013) [-]
You are a great man, and im honored to have talked to gentleman like you.
It just hurts so much. She's the one that doesn't answer me, and that's something i just can't understand. Why would she do something like this, it makes no sense to me.
She promised me. She promised me she didn't like him, she promised she wouldn't be with anyone. I just don't understand, and she just won't answer.
It just hurts so ******* much.
Thank you. Really, thank you.
#55 - anonymous (07/28/2013) [-]
>FJ phanacts bitch about no gf
>get gf and ignore her and treat her like ****
>She dumps your ignorant ass
>"women only date ******** " (a point you just proved I guess)
>repeat
#98 to #55 - challos **User deleted account** (07/28/2013) [-]
yes because all the funnyjunkers are exactly all the same identical people, you ******* cretin
#53 - anonymous (07/28/2013) [-]
just send her a picture of your penis
#51 - amuzen (07/28/2013) [-]
I see a lot of people saying you should just not ignore your girlfriend period and I find it hard to believe they have ever had a long term relationship with anyone because 'ignoring your girlfriend' pretty much means not being available the moment she wants to talk and being to clingy means being available all the time so trying to balance between 'ignoring your girlfriend' and 'being to clingy' for years straight isn't really such a simple task.
User avatar #50 - gunslayer (07/28/2013) [-]
All of you who say "Don't ignore your girlfriend" need to know that in relationships, both women and men can get really bored or feel invaded or simply need time for themselves. And usually their couple doesn't respect that. I never ignored my only girlfriend, but she sure as hell ignored me.
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