Title. It's girls like this that make me think I'm better off HOME ON A SATURDAY NIGHT WITH ALL MY DOORS LOCKED UP TIGHT. By the way, I am NOT referring to the  Title It's girls like this that make me think I'm better off HOME ON A SATURDAY NIGHT WITH ALL MY DOORS LOCKED UP TIGHT By the way I am NOT referring to
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> hey anon, wanna give your opinion?
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#1 - sedativechunk
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Welcome to life, OP.
User avatar #2 - pkashp
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I know that feel, bro. Dated a girl for a couple months, then she broke up with me cause she said she was still in love with her high school **** buddy. Also, said **** buddy was a rapist. Not a "we had sex and now I regret it" rapist, but a "some girl got raped in the band room closet and skipped school for weeks cause of the trauma" rapist. Also, no one told the cops. She wouldn't tell me his name cause she (understandably) thought I'd do something violent.
#12 to #2 - hypotheticals
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The ****?
The ****?
User avatar #8 to #2 - pappathethird
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I once stubbed my toe on a nightstand
#3 to #2 - imonaboatman [OP]
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I had a similar experience. I was good friends with a girl once who had an abusive boyfriend, who also cheated on her and really only used her as a *********, and she knew his intentions damn well too. She knew I liked her, and said that she liked me too at first, but that she was "in love" with her abusive *********. When he finally broke it off I was her shoulder to cry on, but she ignored me and went on to date one of his best friends to try to make him jealous. He did pretty much the exact same thing to her. At that point, I gave up.  But, I've learned from it. I think that we should just stay away from girls who go after abusive guys. They'll always make the same mistakes, and they'll never grow up. It's like some sort of strange addiction I guess.
I had a similar experience. I was good friends with a girl once who had an abusive boyfriend, who also cheated on her and really only used her as a *********, and she knew his intentions damn well too. She knew I liked her, and said that she liked me too at first, but that she was "in love" with her abusive *********. When he finally broke it off I was her shoulder to cry on, but she ignored me and went on to date one of his best friends to try to make him jealous. He did pretty much the exact same thing to her. At that point, I gave up. But, I've learned from it. I think that we should just stay away from girls who go after abusive guys. They'll always make the same mistakes, and they'll never grow up. It's like some sort of strange addiction I guess.
#10 to #3 - theberserker
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My friend, this is how "bad boys" are born, we get tired of girls **** and begin becoming colder and colder towards them; we've been with them through their best and their worst and know which buttons to hit to make them just go crazy. We are the perfect monsters and when they ask why we've changed, we whisper back, "you."
User avatar #7 to #3 - weenieandthebutt
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If all these girls or masochists are stupid (or even shallow) enough to keep going to all those degenerate douches, then she's not worth it bro. There's plenty of other good fish in the sea though not to say that it'll be east to catch them of course.
#13 to #7 - hypotheticals
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She just has emotional problems e.i low-self-esteem and or daddy issues which, causes her to go after guys like that.
User avatar #33 to #13 - phtholognyrrh
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you know you always hear people say that a girl has daddy issues whenever she does something like this, and i have to say that as someone who has studied psycology for quite a few years, that is exactly what it ******* is.
#35 to #33 - hypotheticals
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As a mentally ****** female with some mentally ****** female friends it's sad sad ******* reality. Are you a Psyche major?
User avatar #36 to #35 - phtholognyrrh
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might as well be, ive put in the work... im currently without major, but psych is a possibility.
User avatar #14 to #13 - weenieandthebutt
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Oh yeah, that's true as well but there are some women who just simply prefer the douches over the nicer guys just because they deem nice guys as weak and lowly valued in the social sense.
#15 to #14 - hypotheticals
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That is true as well. But you have to also consider the possibility that the stereotypical "good/nice" boy has a tendency to have a lower confidence which, in most female perspective is unattractive. The Douchebag how ever is a douchebag therefore is cocky and not confident and some of the female species cannot differentiate or are delusional.
User avatar #16 to #15 - weenieandthebutt
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I'm obviously aware of the whole "kindness doesn't entitle you to sex" dynamics with nice guys and that confidence is generally a very attractive trait in males. There are women who do get tricked or manipulated by douchebags but then there are those who are CLEARLY obvious douchebags where some women are just so god damn impulsive to go for them and then expect sympathy if they made the wrong choices.
#18 to #16 - hypotheticals
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Yeah...sorry to say it's the "I can change him, make him a better person, and he will love me forever" complex or the "He's so mean and stone cold but, deep down inside I know has a good side." (or I have seen his good side and if I'm bu his side being his sun shine one day he will warm up.) And sometimes it's the thrill of having something that's unattainable. Or it's just a learning curve some girls like douchebags or douchebaggyness and haven't found the good douchebag...I know it sounds weird but it's a thing. Then there are just the stupid ones. The ones that whine over it are just something you should avoid in general those are moronic attention golddiggers. Which are the bad girl version of our bad boys.
User avatar #19 to #18 - weenieandthebutt
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Nope, it makes perfect sense what you just said there. It's logically understandable in a way why they go for douchebags since they exhibit certain alphamale traits and some girls exhibit that complexity which you just stated earlier. For those who go around shunning the good guys and impulsively going after all those doucehbags when their abusive ulterior motives are crystal clear deserve no sympathy when they end up crying about it. Not that the douchebags themselves shouldn't be berated either for abusing the girls
#20 to #19 - hypotheticals
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The only problem I keep seeing is that the nice guys keep on going after these girls. Forgive me if I am wrong but to me it looks like the "White knight who wants to save the damsel" complex. Those girls are the "bad boys" of your world they aim for "betas" or nice guys to prey on and mess with their minds. It's sad because sometimes it's extremely blatant maybe it's because I myself am a girl.
User avatar #21 to #20 - timmywankenobi
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yes bad girls don't rape you body they rape your soul.
#22 to #21 - hypotheticals
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#31 - injerseyforever
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Girls are more attracted to guys who act like "assholes" simply because its the natural attraction they put off as a man who has confidence, strength, and can protect them is comforting over a weak ass nice guy who can't put out an ounce of manliness or anything that puts them as stronger than other men. So you can still be a nice guy, but adding being a douchey prick can get you pretty far with a girl. Be a go getter and be confident rather than the nice guy who is more of a friend than anything.
Girls are more attracted to guys who act like "assholes" simply because its the natural attraction they put off as a man who has confidence, strength, and can protect them is comforting over a weak ass nice guy who can't put out an ounce of manliness or anything that puts them as stronger than other men. So you can still be a nice guy, but adding being a douchey prick can get you pretty far with a girl. Be a go getter and be confident rather than the nice guy who is more of a friend than anything.
#38 to #31 - anon id: e4b13d03
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this guy knows whats up.
#49 to #31 - anon id: cf2ee596
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Why is that even a gif. You could just pause it at the last frame and it would be fine... I hate that ****
User avatar #40 to #31 - Kairyuka
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Or you could be yourself and find someone who loves you for who you are? You know, so you don't have to masquerade for the rest of your life?
#81 to #40 - anon id: 54d56b29
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Become the confident nice prick...
User avatar #82 to #81 - Kairyuka
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"nice prick"? Isn't that an oxymoron?
User avatar #55 - Rileto
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Thats why you laugh and be glad the stupid girls filter themselves out for you.
#26 - goodcheese
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oh so you only go for whore's who go for bad boys, have fun being in the friendzone.

I can't tell you how many really nice, awesome girls that I passed over for some chick who wouldn't give me the time of day. and I'd go way out of my way for her and she would only go for the "bad boys". and looking back I regret going for a girl who would be interested in those types of guys, especially because there were several really kind and amazing girls who were genuinely interested in me and I probably would've been a lot happier with. and I don't blame anyone but myself because I was the one that was stupid not the "friendzoner".
User avatar #65 to #26 - youarenotspecial
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Oh this. People who complain about how shallow the opposite gender is need to take a long look in the mirror.
User avatar #57 to #26 - JENNAY
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The entire internet needs to read this
This is not a battle of which gender is worse, this is a matter of personal decisions
#4 - anon id: 52f2e14a
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As a bad boy I find this offensive.
#5 to #4 - anon id: 38cc4a54
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As a good boy I find you offensive.
User avatar #9 to #5 - thewisedane
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As an offensive, I find bad boy good boy.
User avatar #71 to #9 - neverforgetthedick
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As a ******, i find this to be ******.
#83 to #71 - anon id: e7fc2eff
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As a joke, I find this to be bad.
User avatar #42 to #5 - thinkwithportals
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As a neutral boy, I have no strong feeling one way or the other
#50 to #42 - toadkillerdog
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look like you could use this
look like you could use this
User avatar #69 to #4 - mrsteamer
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I'm offensive, and i find this bad boy.
User avatar #75 to #4 - hellsjester
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if you are a virgin you can't be considered a "bad boy"
User avatar #86 to #4 - tisjunkisdamnfunny
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why u get red thumbs
this was hilarious
User avatar #39 to #4 - liamdurf
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As an offensive boy, I find this bad.
User avatar #32 - Greengreda
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nice girls date bad guys because bad guys are the ones that look like they need the most help. The nice girl wants to help someone out and bad guys rarely change, so they end up heart broken.



it's a weird concept, i'm sure this doesn't make any sort of sense if you're not someone who does this
User avatar #34 to #32 - imyourdaddy
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I have been trying to explain that for so long....thank you


Also bad boys are confident which is much bigger variable
User avatar #56 to #34 - Greengreda
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and they're a way for a good girl to break out of her good girl image, which is pretty common for my high school
#72 - nyawgga
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What if you could act like a rebel

But actually be a really cool, nice, down to earth guy at the end of the day
#25 - lolfire
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Let's take a short poll.    
   
To the rather small amount of girls on this site who are on the contraceptive pill or have the implant.   
   
Do you find the bad boy types more attractive or the nice guy types more attractive.    
   
   
(I'm working on a theory that because the pill tricks the body into thinking it's pregnant that the girl will go for the man who looks "safer" as in would stay and raise the children)
Let's take a short poll.

To the rather small amount of girls on this site who are on the contraceptive pill or have the implant.

Do you find the bad boy types more attractive or the nice guy types more attractive.


(I'm working on a theory that because the pill tricks the body into thinking it's pregnant that the girl will go for the man who looks "safer" as in would stay and raise the children)
#46 to #25 - anon id: d88d5b51
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I'm not using contraceptives now, but I had my son a year ago and while pregnant I remember times where I would get upset with my husband when he did his normal asshole routine (which we've both humorously noted as a reason for me falling for him). Now that (I THINK) my PPD is over, and I look back on it, it seems like there was a switch that went off and I'd get defensive while pregnant. Hope this helps
User avatar #28 to #25 - delphine
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Really, physical attractiveness goes I'm attracted to men (not boys) who take good care of themselves, are healthy and have good hygiene.

I don't find either of those attractive. I don't like the term "nice guy" because "nice" to me is a choice. Any guy can be nice, even if he isn't a very kind or good person. That's how many women end up with "bad boys"-- they are usually pretty good at acting like nice guys and saying exactly what the woman wants to hear until he's gotten what he wants.

So, when it comes to looking for a mate, I look for a good man.
User avatar #58 to #28 - catpower
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exactly, and for some guys here that claim to be nice to a girl they like, which I'm sure they are, end up calling every female that saw him as a friend instead of a potential boyfriend, a slut or a whore. Goodness is not a common quality, in both males and females.
User avatar #37 to #25 - violentpixi
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I've always preferred sweet guys, 'Bad boys' seem too attention seeking and egotistical.
#51 to #37 - anon id: cf2ee596
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says everyone who ends up with a bad boy
User avatar #94 to #51 - violentpixi
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Hey, nice guys are just sexier.
And you can trap them into the tentacle lady clutches of commitment.
User avatar #29 - delphine
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I've had friends like this. They like to think that their love is enough to make him a better person. It never is. (It's a classic Disney lie that most girls believe)