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#212 - arborday (06/15/2013) [-]
MFW I lost 70 lbs and am now no longer overweight, but yet am no more successful in dating
User avatar #428 to #212 - ADeadlYLepricoN (06/15/2013) [-]
I lost 110 pounds, then gained some back in muscle. They may find you more attractive, but you still gotta be proactive about the dating thing. I know, you actually have to start up conversations. It sucks.
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#391 to #212 - anonymous (06/15/2013) [-]
Attraction for women is by desirability. If you are easily obtainable by any woman, they won't see you has attractive. It's the entire science of attraction. You have to make the woman believe that she has to act or some OTHER girl will. It's why girls fall for the typical "asshole" even when they know he's an asshole. Because if he isn't an asshole to her, he will be with another. Makes him less obtainable and off the market thus more attractive.

Being a nice guy DOES work once you've passed the "He's desirable!" stage. But if you were fat and lost tons of weight then the girls must still see you as easily obtainable. Come off more like an asshole. It does work. Put on the asshole cap. Good luck.
#339 to #212 - mehy (06/15/2013) [-]
MRW I gained lots of kgs after i quit lifting and got waaay more girls than when i was buff !
MRW I gained lots of kgs after i quit lifting and got waaay more girls than when i was buff !
User avatar #289 to #212 - largilloquent (06/15/2013) [-]
weight and looks have alot less to do with it than you think, i have a fat friend (like easily 250 -300) and he gets laid almost whenever he wants, cause he knows how to talk to women.
User avatar #276 to #212 - matheomaidana (06/15/2013) [-]
You are probably just ugly
User avatar #229 to #212 - weenieandthebutt (06/15/2013) [-]
Same here, I was the fat kid in highschool where people would rip on me, women looked at me in disgust. I lost a lot of weight after but women still failed to acknowledge me. Now that I'm bodybuilding to become to more muscular and toned, I get women who complement me on my body (some who even become stunned), but I still can't date nor get laid. I thought I was the only one out of those former fatties who still had problems attracting the opposite gender.
User avatar #248 to #229 - wellfuckmylife (06/15/2013) [-]
It's the experience/knowledge about women that counts, not your body (well, a little bit of that too).

For real. I weight a little over 200lbs and there are 2 girls (maybe more, other haven't told) who likes me. One is with a "world's average hot standard" body, the another is with my hot standard body.
User avatar #266 to #248 - weenieandthebutt (06/15/2013) [-]
From my personal experience, I ironically did better with girls when I had a rough body than I did with girls when I had a good body. I even got off with this one serious hottie, eventhough I went through a slight chubby phase. I know attraction is not all about having a good body but I feel that it helps since it elevates your confidence and women still appreciate it somewhat. It's just a question of improving my social skills from there.
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