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Im ready for the Feminazis. If you like Fairy Tail or One Piece then join my forum . A survey asked men: Why are you breaking up with your girlfriend you don' t

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A survey asked men:
Why are you breaking up with your
girlfriend you don' t love anymore?"
1, 425 men responded:
I don' t want to look like
a bad guy.
I' d feel responsible
if she gets hurt.) lit
The survey asked women the
same question.
3, 882 women responded:
I haven' t yet found the next
guy I can move onto.
You wouldn' t go to the shoe
store barefoot to buy a new
pair of shoes, would you?"
said one of the female
respondents.
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#149 - darthacerbus (05/14/2013) [-]
3882 out of...?   
4000?  10 million?   
Numbers are meaningless without context.
3882 out of...?
4000? 10 million?
Numbers are meaningless without context.
User avatar #270 to #149 - rockamekishiko (05/15/2013) [-]
i'm assuming they asked the same amount of women as they did men. for example, they could have asked 5k men the question and 5k women the same
#321 to #270 - darthacerbus (05/15/2013) [-]
That would mean a majority of men responded in a negative way (likely similar to the women).   
   
   
So it's still manipulation of statistics by only providing the number of positive male answers.   
   
POST FLAWED.
That would mean a majority of men responded in a negative way (likely similar to the women).


So it's still manipulation of statistics by only providing the number of positive male answers.

POST FLAWED.
User avatar #323 to #321 - rockamekishiko (05/15/2013) [-]
oh that's true i didn't see that. it would make sense if both the responses were the negative ones
#324 to #323 - darthacerbus (05/15/2013) [-]
I appreciate that you accept and acknowledge when you're wrong.   
   
   
You're a good person.
I appreciate that you accept and acknowledge when you're wrong.


You're a good person.
User avatar #271 to #149 - lapsushominum ONLINE (05/15/2013) [-]
Damn, I was just about to say this. It could be 1425 out of 10,000 and 3,882 out of 100,000 for all the context that's given. Unless OP gives a source on these numbers, I have a feeling that these numbers very well could have been maliciously taken out of context. :\
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#106 - dawdawdwa (05/14/2013) [-]
Actually... Being barefoot is the one reason that makes me go to the shoe store...
Actually... Being barefoot is the one reason that makes me go to the shoe store...
User avatar #110 to #106 - thelordofbutthurt (05/14/2013) [-]
^^^ this guy has his **** together.
#12 - anon (05/14/2013) [-]
Inb4 butthurt... This does not state anything about how many individuals the survey asked... For this to be a legitimate survey they would have to ask about as many man as women, when we are only told about 1,425 men we must wonder what the rest of them responded. It could be that the rest acted like complete assholes, maybe even worse than the women...
#22 to #12 - anon (05/14/2013) [-]
Lol butthurt by the truth, girls do this, get over it. Not as wonderful and rosey smelling as you'd like to believe.
#48 to #12 - mrloki (05/14/2013) [-]
**mrloki rolled a random image posted in comment #9 at Please Kill Yourself ** while I get your point, we presume (maybe wrongly) that those were relevant percentage of the number of men and women that answered to the survey. It's just logical that they wouldn't post the answer of 3,882 women out of 500,000 answers. While we can't really know how the others acted, it's only logical to consider the facts at hand as if relevant
User avatar #69 to #48 - theuglypanda (05/14/2013) [-]
THE FACTS AT HAND
hahaha oh wow, that is an awesome roll
#58 to #48 - anon (05/14/2013) [-]
What is a picture of my girlfriend doing on Funnyjunk?
#68 to #58 - anepicnub ONLINE (05/14/2013) [-]
**anepicnub rolled a random image posted in comment #4378293 at My Little Pony fanfiction, backgrounds, songs, lyrics, and GIFs. **

Your girlfriend is a whore, anon.
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#150 to #2 - anon (05/14/2013) [-]
Yeah, some girls are assholes. BUT some girls stand there watching like 'what the actual **** is wrong with you'. When I broke up with my (first and only) serious boyfriend, it was because I liked someone else. I didn't have a chance with them, but I didn't want that guy to be in a relationship with a girl who wanted someone else. I spent ages trying to work out how to do it without hurting his feelings. Don't know if that's rare, but I'd like to think most other girls would do that too.
User avatar #233 to #2 - moxmortuus ONLINE (05/14/2013) [-]
One of my friend's ex's told my friend that we was going out of town for the whole summer and will probably cheat on him. The whipped bitch like he is says okay and stays with her. She tells him over the summer via text, not a sincere phone call or some **** , that she cheated on him with a **** ton of guys and he gets pissed and throws the phone. If I remember correctly she got pissed at him and he apologized.
#16 to #2 - anon (05/14/2013) [-]
Are you that guy with a truck?
#100 to #2 - anon (05/14/2013) [-]
> complains about girls on the internet and generalizes
"omg why cant i get a date im such a nice guy so unfair all girls are whores omg"
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User avatar #50 to #2 - northleech (05/14/2013) [-]
Says "Girls are ****** in the head".
Makes fun of girls of the internet because they usually say "guys are all the same".
******* hypocrites all of the internet, man.
User avatar #204 to #2 - delphine (05/14/2013) [-]
Ehm, THAT girls is ****** in the head. Guys can be too... I found out that the guy I'd been seeing for the past year had another girlfriend the entire time. He didn't want to break up with her because she was a beauty pageant queen and made him look good in public. Also found out he had a ********* he didn't want to break up with. Glad I dodged that bullet. Asshole.
User avatar #15 to #2 - violentpixi (05/14/2013) [-]
Clearly, all men are ****** in the head because this one time this one guy Fritzl did some bad **** . Sort yourself.
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User avatar #81 to #70 - violentpixi (05/14/2013) [-]
4 girls were mean to you so all girls are evil. No, that is not fair.
I've been cheated on and sexually abused physically and verbally by guys since the age of 13 but I'm not a massive cunt about all men. I think you need to grow up.
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#98 to #70 - anon (05/14/2013) [-]
Only people too stupid to actually think for them self generalizes.
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#19 to #15 - zekeon ONLINE (05/14/2013) [-]
The problem here is, yes guys do bad 			****		 too. Everyone does.   
   
However, there's a large unbalance between stories about girls doing stupid 			****		 and guys doing stupid 			****		. Where the stupid girl stories far outweigh the stupid guy stories.   
   
Furthermore, in our society it is no secret that white men are more treasured than white women. This has happened through example more than anything, white men being more prominent as inventors and good business men within the last 1000 years, though admittedly this is due partly to limited women's rights until recently (on the grand scale of things.) Because of this, it is not as often blame is placed upon the man, even if that is appropriate, as girls have gotten the reputations that they won't leave a guy even if they're being abused. Because of the prominence of this and how long it goes on in many cases, it is viewed as the woman's fault for not getting the 			****		 out of there.
The problem here is, yes guys do bad **** too. Everyone does.

However, there's a large unbalance between stories about girls doing stupid **** and guys doing stupid **** . Where the stupid girl stories far outweigh the stupid guy stories.

Furthermore, in our society it is no secret that white men are more treasured than white women. This has happened through example more than anything, white men being more prominent as inventors and good business men within the last 1000 years, though admittedly this is due partly to limited women's rights until recently (on the grand scale of things.) Because of this, it is not as often blame is placed upon the man, even if that is appropriate, as girls have gotten the reputations that they won't leave a guy even if they're being abused. Because of the prominence of this and how long it goes on in many cases, it is viewed as the woman's fault for not getting the **** out of there.
User avatar #24 to #19 - violentpixi (05/14/2013) [-]
More stories about girls being stupid are circulated but 80+% of actually ****** up in the head stories (rape, terrorism, torture, murder) are by men. In practise I hear far more stories about men being selfish and using girls but I would never make generalizations as pathetic as that they all were like that.

It's also, I kind of feel that a lot of people who say stuff like "Girls are ****** in the head" haven't actually spoken to a wide variety of girls. Don't get me wrong a lot are attention seeking and bitchy, but it bugs me that my entire gender are all lumped into one girly ball of crap and the same isn't for the penile-gifted.
User avatar #26 to #24 - zekeon ONLINE (05/14/2013) [-]
Is it better to be born good or to overcome your evil nature through great effort?

Even if the generalizations made are unfair and in many cases wrong, if women able to prove to themselves and other people that they are not part of the negative stereotype, people will appreciate them more.

While it is unfair that women have to prove themselves in such a way so often, remember that most men have to prove themselves in some way or another to their peers.

Men, women, white, black, and everything in between; we are all created equal. This means that we are all equally capable of great things and heinous things. The limitations place on any group are purely a product as larger society as a whole, by opposing groups and the groups themselves.

Long story short, there's very little that can be done about it outside of small social circles within the next 20 years.
User avatar #28 to #26 - violentpixi (05/14/2013) [-]
Firstly, 'my evil nature?' I'm sorry, my ovaries just like calling the great lord Satan, I can't stop them.
Would you say that a muslim should suffer racist remarks until they can prove they're not a terrorist because they'll gain more respect in the long term? Socially, isn't it a million times better for society to not make generalized assumptions?
Social revolutions occur all the time. Just because you say that they can't change, you shouldn't even try? In the last 20 years, western lgbt rights have skyrocketed.

No offense but I find everything you just said to be complete bullpoop.
#31 to #28 - zekeon ONLINE (05/14/2013) [-]
1. It was a quote, meant to capture the base of what I was saying. "evil nature" being imposed on you by society itself.   
   
2. Muslims, no, religion is an entirely different can of worms. Furthermore, religion is a choice, not something that you are from birth.   
   
3. How long did it take for women to get the right to vote again?   
   
If you wish to demonize what I'm saying without trying to understand what it is exactly, then we have nothing else to talk about.
1. It was a quote, meant to capture the base of what I was saying. "evil nature" being imposed on you by society itself.

2. Muslims, no, religion is an entirely different can of worms. Furthermore, religion is a choice, not something that you are from birth.

3. How long did it take for women to get the right to vote again?

If you wish to demonize what I'm saying without trying to understand what it is exactly, then we have nothing else to talk about.
User avatar #33 to #31 - violentpixi (05/14/2013) [-]
It was a joke...

Considering religion is passed on from parent to child, it more often than not is something gained through upbringing therefore the beliefs gained as a child should gain no more unfound discrimination than something someone is born with.

The UK suffrage movement began in the 1870s and gained political acceptance in the 1920s. Considering the centuries of female repression, 40 odd years for a Political Movement is not that long. In the modern liberal times, it should take far less for general social equality but circulating stuff like this isn't exactly helping.
User avatar #21 to #19 - zekeon ONLINE (05/14/2013) [-]
Consider these things before saying "sort yourself" or something to the effect of "check your privilege" next time this argument comes up.
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User avatar #4 to #2 - obesefury (05/14/2013) [-]
Yup, some girls can be real ****** up but so can some dudes.
But damn can I relate to a story like that, I have a friend who won't date a dude unless he's no less than 8/10 and is loaded. And he has to be able to **** several times a day and she always stalks her boyfriends. She is ****** up. She told her ex to stop talking to any females that weren't her and she checked his messages and his facebook constantly and got seriously pissed once where a girl had liked his status.
User avatar #7 to #4 - sketchE (05/14/2013) [-]
you dont happen to live in alaska because you just described my friends ex. but my friend is a bit of a douche. he cheated on her with my ex then basicly broke up with her but kept acting like they were dating for a few months
User avatar #9 to #7 - obesefury (05/14/2013) [-]
Nah I live in Denmark and my friends ex actually became my boyfriend. T
hey were together for maybe 3 months and then he broke up with her because she is a shallow slut (shouldn't be saying that about her but she really is) and then he friendzoned me for about a year and then finally gave in and became my boyfriend.

On another note, my friend got pissed that I got together with him even though I had a crush on him for years before her and even though she had a new boyfriend and had ****** several other boys when we made it official. Talk about being possessive.
User avatar #11 to #9 - sketchE (05/14/2013) [-]
yeah regardless of sex everyone can be an ass
User avatar #10 to #9 - obesefury (05/14/2013) [-]
They*
#53 - Forfunaccount (05/14/2013) [-]
Sadly, I first thought this was a girl.
User avatar #129 to #53 - Durp (05/14/2013) [-]
In all fairness, GD can look pretty fem.
Most kpop idols can
Anyway, listening to big bang right now when I saw this and was like no way
User avatar #211 to #129 - epie (05/14/2013) [-]
Ren from Nu'est.

Just saying.
User avatar #316 to #211 - Durp (05/15/2013) [-]
Ren is the cutest little thing ever. Omg, I just recently got into nuest and I'm like in love with him. Plus, he shares my nickname
#94 to #53 - flusteredmoose (05/14/2013) [-]
It's not a girl?!?!
It's not a girl?!?!
User avatar #54 to #53 - funnyrage (05/14/2013) [-]
don't worry, all asians look the same...

#57 to #54 - werethwldgoosgoes (05/14/2013) [-]
And they can read minds ......
And they can read minds ......
#60 to #54 - funnyrage (05/14/2013) [-]
well, it seems that I have gotten a lot of red thumbs for my last comments...I should keep a little more quiet.
User avatar #55 to #53 - bandoslootshare (05/14/2013) [-]
it is.. it even says women on the picture
User avatar #89 to #53 - epie (05/14/2013) [-]
Its G-Dragon ^_^
User avatar #210 to #89 - heyaimcollin (05/14/2013) [-]
I thought so, wasn't 100% sure tho
#196 - mrhazzy (05/14/2013) [-]
****		 this... I'm turning gay
**** this... I'm turning gay
User avatar #221 to #196 - Juigiknows (05/14/2013) [-]
trust me, its much easier, well at least from watching all my straight friends go through what they go through.
User avatar #315 to #221 - mrhazzy (05/15/2013) [-]
I may just tell people I'm gay, therefore I won't be setting myself up for anything bad, on the plus side, I get to hang out with more dudes, and become friends with loads of women...

I hope...
User avatar #197 to #196 - thelordofbutthurt (05/14/2013) [-]
>implying you weren't already
User avatar #67 - anonymoose (05/14/2013) [-]
Anybody got a source for this or is it just another neckbeard being depressed?
#35 - captaindropkik (05/14/2013) [-]
hahaha is that GD?!? the **** is he doing
User avatar #39 to #35 - cookiemonsterandme (05/14/2013) [-]
Yeah, that's oppa being all perfect on my screen
#325 to #39 - captaindropkik (05/15/2013) [-]
and mine, apparently ahah does he have anything to do with the post though?
User avatar #327 to #325 - cookiemonsterandme (05/15/2013) [-]
I don't really know, but he is always welcome
User avatar #87 to #39 - epie (05/14/2013) [-]
I must agree
#113 - sphinxe (05/14/2013) [-]
To be honest, I think both of the reasons are dick moves.   
   
I don't mind debating this, but isn't the first bad too? You don't love her but you'll keep her going because you don't want her to get hurt. She'll get more hurt when you eventually crack and she finds out you didn't love her for a while previous to dumping her.   
   
'I don't want to be the bad guy' is a bit cowardly, surely? Yes the female reason is completely dickish too, you're using the guy like some sort of vessel to bridge the gap from one person to another but we seemed to have brushed over the first one.   
   
Or am I looking into this too much?
To be honest, I think both of the reasons are dick moves.

I don't mind debating this, but isn't the first bad too? You don't love her but you'll keep her going because you don't want her to get hurt. She'll get more hurt when you eventually crack and she finds out you didn't love her for a while previous to dumping her.

'I don't want to be the bad guy' is a bit cowardly, surely? Yes the female reason is completely dickish too, you're using the guy like some sort of vessel to bridge the gap from one person to another but we seemed to have brushed over the first one.

Or am I looking into this too much?
#127 to #113 - winalot (05/14/2013) [-]
i think that the second is more cruel than the first its like literally searching for a replacement while still being with that person although the first one is sort of looking out for what people would think of you for dumping her at least you aren't openly looking for someone to replace your current with
#264 to #113 - themisstophat (05/15/2013) [-]
I don't think you are, my ex stayed with me when he didn't love me any more which just makes you feel used.   
   
Didn't really help when he did a combination of the two and also stayed with me whilst he didn't love me until he found someone else.   
   
Instead of classifying them into female and male we should just classify them all into one category of dicks.
I don't think you are, my ex stayed with me when he didn't love me any more which just makes you feel used.

Didn't really help when he did a combination of the two and also stayed with me whilst he didn't love me until he found someone else.

Instead of classifying them into female and male we should just classify them all into one category of dicks.
#138 to #113 - lolymoly (05/14/2013) [-]
Essentially, the men are saying they don't want the women to be single because their feelings would be hurt and they'd look like a dick, whereas the women don't want themselves to be single because of whatever reason, possibly social status.
Essentially, the men are saying they don't want the women to be single because their feelings would be hurt and they'd look like a dick, whereas the women don't want themselves to be single because of whatever reason, possibly social status.
#175 to #138 - Maroon (05/14/2013) [-]
Because they'd have to buy their own 			****		.   
   
Like this one guy at work, he'd been single for a while and finally got a girlfriend. I never even met her and I could tell she sucked just from the effect she had on him. She was always making him buy 			****		 she had previously been buying herself (keep in mind they'd only been going out a couple weeks). She moved in with him and wasn't paying any of the rent, he was constantly driving her to and from work and wherever else, feeding her, etc etc. When I asked why the 			****		 isn't she getting her own 			****		, he said she's saving up for a car.   
   
<his face when I asked him if he realizes that that means she is basically getting him to buy her a car.
Because they'd have to buy their own **** .

Like this one guy at work, he'd been single for a while and finally got a girlfriend. I never even met her and I could tell she sucked just from the effect she had on him. She was always making him buy **** she had previously been buying herself (keep in mind they'd only been going out a couple weeks). She moved in with him and wasn't paying any of the rent, he was constantly driving her to and from work and wherever else, feeding her, etc etc. When I asked why the **** isn't she getting her own **** , he said she's saving up for a car.

<his face when I asked him if he realizes that that means she is basically getting him to buy her a car.
User avatar #117 to #113 - funnyjunkianonetwo (05/14/2013) [-]
You're looking into this just enough, and the first one is bad as well.
#116 to #113 - xheavymetalx (05/14/2013) [-]
I think both are bad reasons, but at least the first one takes the partner's feelings into consideration.
User avatar #187 - akneegrow (05/14/2013) [-]
You wouldn't go hunting if you already had a deer carcass, would you?

I can make up **** analogies about relationships too.
#29 - lot (05/14/2013) [-]
Many of my friends are like that. They always nag about their relationship and just 'play' with the guy. While my dudefriends are always very respectable towards their relationships.
User avatar #96 to #29 - nustix (05/14/2013) [-]
I never had this problems, did you ever confront those friends about it?
I finnally found a group of friends who can think (most of them) and it's great to have some rational thinking people around you
User avatar #313 to #96 - lot (05/15/2013) [-]
Nah, not really, because I'm not free of sins myself... Point is that I nag from time to time too (my bf isn't always that... um.. 'peaceful'). But I'm still with him because I do love him, not because I'm just waiting for somebody else, 'cause I'm afraid of the 'black hole'. Thats just plain wrong and also very cruel in an emotional way. I mean, imagine finding out that somebody you love is just using you because he/she hasn't found 'a better version'... Like you're *insert game title* and the new version isn't released yet....
#288 to #29 - fallenoffacliff (05/15/2013) [-]
Just because black adder
#40 to #29 - redheartnurse (05/14/2013) [-]
"friends"

They are a disease
#45 to #40 - mrloki (05/14/2013) [-]
**mrloki rolled a random image posted in comment #486 at This guy ** come on man, you need to watch a bunch of my little pony friendship is magic !
#49 to #45 - redheartnurse (05/14/2013) [-]
I am a brony but that normally destroys my credibility
#190 - thatsimple (05/14/2013) [-]
women
User avatar #92 - ladyxa (05/14/2013) [-]
yes. you've got it figured out. all girls are like that. every single one. congratulations, you know our secrets.

in all seriousness though, not all girls are this retarded. you get enough men who are dicks, and enough girls that are cunts.
User avatar #108 to #92 - lolollo (05/14/2013) [-]
The point is that some of the women feel that way at all, which is scary as **** when you try to go out and seek a relationship. "Is she staying with me because she loves me, or because no one's hit on her yet?"

Besides, it's also playing on the bit that says women are constantly yelling at guys for being the assholes of society, especially with this trend in extreme feminism.
User avatar #111 to #108 - ladyxa (05/14/2013) [-]
yeah, and i'm not saying that's not wrong, because it's wrong as **** .

but now if we start talking about all the awful women in the world, what about all the awful men? men who beat up their girlfriends, men who disrespect women in general, 'gtfo back to the kitchen' men, men who rape, etc. like i said before, some women are cunts, and some men are dicks. you can give plenty of examples of why this post would be so legit and valid, but the exact same goes for guys.
if this post would have been about how awful men are, i would have reacted the same way but then in favour of guys.

really, everyone's different, some people are horrible, no matter what their gender, so refrain from placing everyone in the same category.
User avatar #114 to #111 - lolollo (05/14/2013) [-]
Because all anyone ever talks about is the aweful men. I know everyone here will mostly talk about how women are bitches, but I'm talking about society in general. Again, the trend in feminism. No one dubt that the majority are decent human beings, but paying attention to the ****** ones doesn't mean we're ignoring them.
User avatar #120 to #114 - ladyxa (05/14/2013) [-]
no. you're trying to say how badly society is treating men, but come on. society is ******* run by men. of course, some men are horribly hurt by things women have done to them. but it's the other way round as well. what's so hard to understand about the fact that there are awful people on both genders as well as lovely people? honestly.
User avatar #125 to #120 - lolollo (05/14/2013) [-]
Ok...now you sound like one of the feminists I'm talking about. All of this talk of "men running the world" (which isn't even accurate) doesn't magically make it OK to be so ****** to men.
#128 to #125 - ladyxa (05/14/2013) [-]
jesus ******* christ. i'm not a ******* feminist. i really could not five less of a **** about that stuff. i am pointing out the ******* facts. have i said it's okay to be ****** to men? no. i said that both genders can be equally horrible and nice to each other. i keep repeating myself and you keep saying that i'm saying men can't be hurt by women. what the hell, man.
User avatar #135 to #128 - lolollo (05/14/2013) [-]
"society is ******* run by men"

Just noting a fad, huh?
User avatar #142 to #135 - ladyxa (05/14/2013) [-]
yeah, and? did i add to that 'that means it's ok for men to be treated badly by women'? did i add to that 'men can't be hurt by women'? or 'all men are dicks'? or anything of the sort? no. so stop trying to claim i'm saying **** like that and being so narrow minded, and start reading properly. i wasn't even ******* negative towards men in the first comment you reacted to. i don't know what the **** your problem is, mate.
User avatar #148 to #142 - lolollo (05/14/2013) [-]
"I may have said this one thing noting my true thoughts and feelings on this matter, but I didn't literally say any of this other stuff, so I'm innocent!"

I call black people ******* , but I'm not a racist, you know...because I'm not saying anything else that's racist...
#154 to #148 - ladyxa (05/14/2013) [-]
i... what the actual 			****		? you are the one claiming i am saying things like that, and i am showing i did not. you are literally too dumb to argue with.
i... what the actual **** ? you are the one claiming i am saying things like that, and i am showing i did not. you are literally too dumb to argue with.
User avatar #162 to #154 - lolollo (05/14/2013) [-]
What I quoted...is literally a quote from your previous comment...I could provide screenshots if you're really going to play that game.
User avatar #169 to #162 - ladyxa (05/14/2013) [-]
i was talking about the whole men not being able to be hurt by women thing. i was saying that you were claiming i said that that wasn't possible, and i was showing you i did not. i never said anything about me not saying what you quoted.
User avatar #215 to #169 - lolollo (05/14/2013) [-]
I never made that claim either, though. I know full well that there are assholes in both genders, but it seems that whenever attention is brought to either side having those assholes people come in to point out the obvious "They're not all assholes!"

Only an idiot is going to claim everyone of either side is an asshole. I'm trying to point out that, yes this content brings up the fact that bitches be crazy, it's primarily in response to this wave of feminism where men are to be hated for being assholes.

As for you making your comment on men ruling the world, I was just pointing out how retarded that was.
User avatar #167 to #162 - ladyxa (05/14/2013) [-]
what.. i never ******* said you didn't quote me. course you quoted me, i'm not retarded. now what are you even trying to achieve with this exactly, if i might ask?
#121 to #92 - curlyhairedgoddess (05/14/2013) [-]
I wouldn't call people retarded just because they think differently.
User avatar #124 to #121 - ladyxa (05/14/2013) [-]
i'd call not breaking up with your boyfriend because you haven't found another man yet pretty retarded.
User avatar #208 - delphine (05/14/2013) [-]
It pisses me off women are the only ones blamed for that. I've been played by a guy who took advantage of the fact that I hadn't dated much and was naive, and he gained my trust, and then a year later I find out he had a second girlfriend in his hometown the entire time, AND a ********* on the side. Then when I asked him about it, he essentially threw me away and when I tried to confront him he told all his friends and coworkers that I was stalking him. Who's ****** up now?

The fact is, it's not WOMEN who are like this. It's not MEN who are like this. Men can be dicks, and women can be cunts, but BOTH genders have their ASSHOLES.
#219 to #208 - tasomo (05/14/2013) [-]
Truth.
#236 to #208 - sxeindi (05/14/2013) [-]
I second this statement
User avatar #72 - captainfuckitall ONLINE (05/14/2013) [-]
It's because girls value themselves based upon their accomplishments

First, let me explain that both boys and girls do this, albeit differently. Men and Women, however, do NOT engage in this behaviour, and seek to validate themselves in other ways instead, and good on them for being so mature

Anyways...

To start, a boy will value himself based more upon his conquests than anything else, not, say, how well he has done something, but how much he has done. Above all, this includes girls. A boy will value himself based upon the amount of girls he's slept with and girlfriends he's had, this is why one of the first insults that ever comes out is "Virgin" or "Faggot" or "No-life" or anything relating to a lack of social or sexual relationships. A girl on the other hand will value herself based upon her trophies, or more specifically, how OTHER people see her trophies. See, she really doesn't care what it is, but if OTHERS think it's amazing, she goes for it; that's why girls get so sucked up in the next trends, that's why they always gossip with their friends and stab them in the back later, that's why they always brag about "Her man" or her toys. That's why the best thing you can do to insult a girl is to ignore or belittle her (which is also why they go for the more dark and mysterious, bad-boyish types. If someone is wild, hard-to-get, and untamed, it just makes it that much more impressive when she is the one who does it), while the best way to insult a boy is to be better than him.

I hope this has helped some people in general understanding. If you would like any more tips on how to approach or understand the opposite sex, let me know; it would be pointless for an introvert such as myself to keep all the information cooped up
User avatar #104 to #72 - lolollo (05/14/2013) [-]
The point of the content, though, is that guys view a breakup as the two of them splitting up, whereas girls will view it as a change in partners. The guy doesn't want the girl to suffer from the split, and the girl doesn't want HERSELF to suffer from the lack of having a boyfriend.

That's a ****** attitude to have about ANYTHING.
User avatar #112 to #104 - captainfuckitall ONLINE (05/14/2013) [-]
True. But even so that is still the mind-set of the opportunist, and girls are good at that type of thing. Once you understand something, you can remove emotions from the equation
User avatar #123 to #112 - lolollo (05/14/2013) [-]
The question is should you, though? Science, which is perhaps the one field in human intelligence that uses the least amount of "emotion" even asks the question of whether or not we should eliminate emotion from the matter.

This is especially true when you realize that relationships are supposed to be based on emotion.
User avatar #126 to #123 - captainfuckitall ONLINE (05/14/2013) [-]
But how far would Science get on a day to day basis if they constantly had to consider morals and ethics? Given the fact that Scientists DO have to, and that most "mad scientists" were either jailed, killed, or had their research destroyed, humanity has been held back hundreds if not thousands of years by simply deciding "Evolution ends where my feelings begin". Besides, something so subjective as morals and feelings hold no place among facts and truth
User avatar #133 to #126 - lolollo (05/14/2013) [-]
This isn't science, though, it's a relationship. I used science as a point to say that emotions are necessary for everything, especially relationships, which are supposed to be based purely on emotion. When you remove emotion from it, then there can't even effectively be a relationship.
User avatar #137 to #133 - captainfuckitall ONLINE (05/14/2013) [-]
Eh, I couldn't care less if I never had a relationship again, although I do understand others want them and totally support affection and love between a couple, I just don't see where that would have any place in evolution and research, the same way eating and going to the washroom simply don't go together

Besides, I never actually said whether you should or should not remove them, I just said you COULD if you so choose
User avatar #144 to #137 - lolollo (05/14/2013) [-]
My question was if you should, though. As far as evolution is concerned, even you should accept that it's all about working within the system in order to achieve the goal of propogating your genetic material, which sometimes requires the use of emotion.
User avatar #146 to #144 - captainfuckitall ONLINE (05/14/2013) [-]
But even that question in itself is left up to subjectivity, as it is with any philosophical thing; so no matter what either of us put forward, neither will actually be 'right'
User avatar #156 to #146 - lolollo (05/14/2013) [-]
Hypothetical situation:

Your girlfriend breaks up with you on the basis that you never put enough emotion into the relationship. Was emotion necessarity for success in that situation, or not?
User avatar #161 to #156 - captainfuckitall ONLINE (05/14/2013) [-]
What do you mean by success? (I only ask because I'd rather be certain before I come up with an answer)
User avatar #165 to #161 - lolollo (05/14/2013) [-]
Establishing a stable relationship for the sake of leading a better life for both yourself, and any children you would have, which would fulfill the evolutionary meed to propogate your genetic material.
User avatar #172 to #165 - captainfuckitall ONLINE (05/14/2013) [-]
Then yes it was, in this specific situation (as leading a 'good' life implies you are happy with where you are)

But you don't seem to get what I'm saying. What I'm trying to claim that between the understanding of men and women, when you remove passions and emotion from the problem (above), you can see WHY they behave this way in a clearer and more stable manner, and thus you can react better against it to suit your needs. I'm not saying you need to become totally apathetic, nor am I saying you must not feel anything at all
User avatar #217 to #172 - lolollo (05/14/2013) [-]
No, yes I understand that. As animals, we have this basic motivation for pretty much everything. The difference is being able to acknowledge that, and maybe even set it aside for something a little less shallow. Are inherent motivations that shallow? Yes, but you don't have to, and probably shuldn't, bring them up.
User avatar #78 to #72 - mcintoshapple (05/14/2013) [-]
That makes sense. No idea why you got thumbed down. Turned you back to neutral, though
User avatar #79 to #78 - captainfuckitall ONLINE (05/14/2013) [-]
Eh, some people don't like reading? Doesn't matter to me, I never found virtual currency that important (probably why I suck at monopoly)
#186 - anon (05/14/2013) [-]
I don't take offense to this post in anyway because it makes sense. Staying with someone you don't like is just as bad, but I want to print this out and staple it to the head of every ******* feminist i know. Men=shoes
#170 - axeaddonis (05/14/2013) [-]
My ex did this. I thought she was one of the most trustworthy people I knew, but the last two or three months of our relationship were just a bunch of lies she put up until she found someone else.

and I really loved her too
User avatar #224 to #170 - markertemp (05/14/2013) [-]
Is there a larger version of that?
#230 to #224 - axeaddonis (05/14/2013) [-]
This is the best I could find
User avatar #235 to #230 - markertemp (05/14/2013) [-]
That works.
#231 to #170 - bloxicity (05/14/2013) [-]
I feel you, bro. Same thing here.
User avatar #177 to #170 - aniggeronaboat (05/14/2013) [-]
So did I bro.
So did I.
#118 - lifetime (05/14/2013) [-]
The guy and the girl in this situation are bad. You should never be with someone just because you don't want to "hurt them". Being with them is hurting yourself and sometimes you need to be selfish that way.
User avatar #132 to #122 - tgrove (05/14/2013) [-]
anybody have this as a wallpaper?!
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