being nice

Get the fuck over it. Friend-zoning bullshit is ridiculous. Move on fuckers

I told my good female friend that I liked her, then she said that she did not share those feelings.

So I felt bad for the rest of my life.

-Funnyjunk

Oh my god OP for like the 7th time, just because you are nice to girls doesn't mean they automatically want to fuck you.

>generalize all women
>claim to be a nice guy

Yay

How to get out of the friend zone:

Step 1: Actually ask the girl on a date.

Stop being a fucking pussy. Being the shoulder to cy on and hoping you will get pussy from it is unreasonable and unfair to the girl. Man up.

That's how I got my first girlfriend.

"she won't date me because I'm a nice guy!!!!" -said every self-righteous passive aggressive douchecanoe ever.

What's sad is that it's debatable that men friendzone women more often. Because women are inclined to say nothing when they like someone, and wait for him to say something.

OK, here is what really happens:

1 - There are a lot of "nice guys" arround there which are nice to the girls because they want something from her. The really beautiful girls are used to it, they come in loads, you're just another scratch on her bow.

2 - You might think they are all bitches, but think about it with me. If you were a really beautiful girl which sees guys being nice to you all the time and 98% of them are not being nice without a dark desire over you, would you really fuck/make out with all of them or kick all of them off right away?

You probably have seen these:

"Hey, how are you?"
"Get out".

"You look beautiful"
"We are not fucking, anon"

"Is everything ok with you"
"Leave me alone".

3 - When you are nice to a girl, it will feel like you are needy. I'm not telling you to be an asshole, just don't act like "I'D DO ANYTHING TO HAVE YOU".
You know, this thing about "alpha/beta males" is actually true. Women don't like to feel they are doing a favour to someone when they get in a relationship with men.

Here's what you do: if she is really, really, beautiful, you shouldn't start right out trying to convince her you are a good guy. Act desinterested. Subcounciously, she will wonder why you are desinterested on her if she is so good. This is where the "being alpha" part starts; if you demonstrate high social value (not directly to her, but arround her), act comfortable, she will start to grow curiosity and interest over you. She might try to give you a test, like asking you to pay her a drink, don't fall for that, she is trying to prove to herself she is one of a higher value than you are and trying to get an "early win"; should such thing happen, say something like "I don't buy drinks for girls, but you can buy me one". Be the prize, not the player.
When she starts revealing true interest on you, then you can easily do the same. Such things would be asking for name/age or she should play with her hair, you'll know. Take it easy and let it happen.

I hear that all the time...

FUCK. I MUST BE DOING SOMETHING WRONG.

you're right, why would she call you nice

So being nice to a girl constrains them to either have sex with you or to be your girlfriend? Grow the fuck up!

And then it doesn't work out and she loses the only guy who is nice to her.

Really, is it that hard to see things from somebody else's perspective guys?

Just a protip here..... you are not a nice guy. I am not nice guy... nice guys are rarer than a fucking four leaf clover in a cow pasture. Nice guys are altruistic, meaning they will expend time and effort expecting nothing ABSOLUTELY NOTHING in return....in terms of evolution these guys shouldn't exist.

Once you realize this, feel free to join us in the table of manhood and proceed to use material and occasionally immoral methods to finding women. You said it yourself.....women are vain, powerhungry , bitches who are attracted to giant tanned rich douchebags. If you are correct, which I know many of you think you are then this statement has two solutions 1. Become one. 2. Shut up if you aren't willing to adapt.

Anyways I have never had problems with this so called friendzone, here are some situations which could have put me there but with some common sense I avoided it.

1. I like girl, I tell girl, after carefully investigating her friends to see if she likes me (you can always deny and chicks tend to get overly flattered at this method. She says yes, you now have gf.

2. I like girl, I tell girl, she says no.....I walk away. I don't be an asshole about it, but I make sure I am less available, politely giving her the cold shoulder ought to make her consider what she stands to lose if I leave....forcing her to take the next step (This is even more effective if you shower the attention you put on her on some other girl for a while) , or allowing myself enough emotional distance to get over her and devote my energy to something more worthwhile of my time, instead of the constant asskissing "nice guys" seem to prefer.

"Maybe if I buy her chocolates every week she will change her mind"

Nope, giving her boyfriend levels of attention only removes her motivation to take that next step.

Getting a girl is easy.

Just bring the duct tape.

That's actually pretty much how I got my girlfriend.