Spend a couple days realizing you are alpha and can get any girl you want. This will actually rewire your brain to be mote alpha. It's science. Remember. You are alpha as fucking fuck. Then next time you see her, just walk right up to her, big smile, big ol confident alpha smile. Say hey "her name" how is your day going. Proceed with meaningless small talk. If you care about what she says, that means she is the right girl for you, and you will be able to make this small talk work without much effort. Just know that whatever you say will come off as something she finds semi interesting. If not, fuck her. She isn't right. So only let this go on a few lines. Talk about the weather, talk about the one thing about your job everyone hates or talk about that New movie you want to see. One or two mins tops. Then say, well "her name" I think we should grab a drink after work, or whenever you know you will both be off. Remember, you know she will say yes. If she doesn't its her loss because you are awesome. Trust me, if she is worth your time she will say yes. then its all up to you my friend. Just remember for the next few days constantly remind yourself, you are awesome, you are alpha, any girl would be lucky for you to take her out, and above all else, you are nice. Keep rewiring your brain. Swear to god it works. Then its All easy after that. Great thing about confidence is if she shoots you down, it just makes you say, wow, that was easy and you will be more confident and successful. But do.t worry. It will work. You know why? Because you are awesome and most of us on funnyjunk love you regardless. Now grab life by the horns you alpha mother fucker you.