If she doesn't put out, what have you got to lose? And don't tell go all mushy on me. Sex is important in any relationship

Well... here's an example.

I had a girlfriend before I met my current one, and I did everything I could for her, so she'd love me more and eventually ask me to have sex.

I spent about 140 dollars on her, and she did eventually ask me for sex as planned, so I continued being nice to her. Time went by and she cheated on me. This left me absolutely heart broken because of all the time, effort, and money I put into her.

So besides losing sex, I also lost money, time, and effort. In other words, you can lose a LOT more than sex if she doesn't put out.

Maybe I wasn't clear, but I agree with you. I was trying to say that females not putting out can lead to that and other things. All in all, sex is a good thing for a relationship.

Agreed.

A woman who doesn't have sex with you, yet expects you to buy her things, sabotages the relationship? Oh no!