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User avatar #156 - sweetrolls **User deleted account** (01/27/2013) [-]
"This is what every parent should do if their child breaks some sort of rule", fuck that, kids are going to break rules it's a part of growing up, the way to deal with that is to talk to them and tell them why the rule is in place, so they know why they shouldn't break it. Whether the rule is for the child's well being or others peoples well being or both, you don't shame them for what they did with a sign on the side of the road. Every kid does this, every kid breaks the rules (some more than others) it's unfair to do something that will potentially effect him his whole life because of a stupid mistake he made purely out of curiosity. Now what you might say is "Well that covers the description, but that kid in the photo was a bully he deserves it.", WRONG no kid whether they're are a bully or not deserves something like this. Things like this are what make the kid aggressive and make him want to be a bully. Like I said before the best way to deal with a son who is a bully is to sit down and talk with them, this method of punishment is for parents who are too scared to actually talk with their kids. The fact that this is on front page and that people think that this woman is a hero or a savior is fucking shameful.
#158 to #156 - N. Korean citizen (01/27/2013) [-]
Oh and any kid under the age of 12 is gonna listen to talking...
Because this also works out..
User avatar #164 to #158 - sweetrolls **User deleted account** (01/27/2013) [-]
If you give a child an explanation on why a rule is there, it will work, for example:
There is a rule at the Zoo: "do not go near the Lion cage" the kid goes near the Lion cage anyways. Tell him that the rule is there because the Lion could hurt you, now the kid knows why the rule is there and wont go near it for his own safety. In the future when he hears a rule he will think about why it might be there and will obey it.
#170 to #164 - selfdenyingbeggar (01/27/2013) [-]
That's one of the reasons, I think, why social values declines so much. People were being told what to do but not why it was important for them to do it.
User avatar #173 to #170 - sweetrolls **User deleted account** (01/27/2013) [-]
You're right, the best thing to do is to tell the kid why the rule is in place, so they know the benefit of it, and maybe in the future they will find what the benefit in other rules are, instead of saying "YOU MUST OBEY ALL RULES BECAUSE THEY ARE RULES!", that only makes they child more curious.
#160 to #158 - selfdenyingbeggar (01/27/2013) [-]
It's not so much talking as giving attention and listening to them. Paying real attention and hugging, letting your kid know he's loved are powerful and necessary tools for a parent.
#163 to #160 - N. Korean citizen (01/27/2013) [-]
Guessing you weren't loved as a child?
#171 to #163 - selfdenyingbeggar (01/27/2013) [-]
I'm guessing you're not having a good day.
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