And you better be as damned proud as I am. LONG LIVE THE GLORIOUS MASTER DORKLY RACE!

Think about it this way: working out is quite often done at gyms. Therefore, many people go to gyms. Chances are, you'll meet people. Interesting people. You may make friends after some time there if you go regularly. With these new friends you'll hang out, do new things and you may find new interests. Sure, you may still be that same "dork", but you'll be probably much more social, because you'll have more experience. Think about it that way.

Pic unrelated.

It's not about changing who you are personally, it is more about not looking like someone who's very sweat is liquid pity.

I hope you don't mind when I plagiarize "Liquid pity" in my English final. That is just too fucking brilliant to not use.

It would be an honor.

Thank you my friend. I will mention you in many speeches to come, I promise you.

Yeah I know, but the first thing people judge you on is appearance. Doesn't matter if you are a nerd at heart, you can still be attractive was all I was saying.

I'm the kind of guy that actually wants meaningful relationships, not one night stands... if you get what I'm saying...

Dude, I am a huge metalhead, I fuck around with some of the craziest looking people I know, we are those kinds of kids that other people look at and spit on because they just look like they came back from spraypainting shit on the wall of an elementary school. I'm not saying I am or my friends are any kinds of those people, we are not. We don't even do drugs, but ANYWAYS. Well, I've never dated a girl that had the same interests as me, simple as that. For a good amount of time I dated a girl who was in the goddamn drama club and was a choir girl, neither of us wanted to get into eachothers music styles, it just wasn't us, I mean I always went to see her plays and went to see her sing, but I remember one time she bought us both fucking tickets to see the band Municipal Waste, if you've never heard of them, they are a new Thrash Metal band. I was stunned by this, she actually wanted to go see a show like that, naturally it was more for me, but I digress. The point is, relationships are about sacrifice, it doesn't matter if you two are polar opposites, you both let eachother enjoy what they are meant to enjoy, that's what makes itmeaningful. Chemistry doesn't dictate how well you build a relationship with someone, it's how much you care to make that relationship happen and continue that matters.

Being attractive doesn't mean you have one night stands. You can still find someone who likes your personality, all you are doing by looking better is giving yourself a better chance in finding that person.

if only that were true from where I'm from...

It is. I guarantee. In fact, in almost any psychology book you'll read about bad habits, it says people make excuses to rely on those bad habits. You are afraid of dating; period. No matter what you look like or what type of person you are, finding the right person and long lasting relationships are never easy. If you don't want to date, or you ARE scared and can admit it, that's fine, and people will actually try to help you. But Making excuses gets you even uglier, even fatter, and with an even worse personality

I'm not afraid of dating, no way in hell! the women are afraid of me! XD

Then be the type of person that women aren't afraid of. Think about it: would your dream girl (not just a hot bimbo, but somebody you sincerely want to spend the rest of your life with) like you? From the way you talk and how you talk about yourself, probably at first, yes, but after a while you guys would run into a lot of problems. What you need to do is ask yourself if you are afraid of 1. Finding that dream girl and losing her 2. that dream girl won't like you, or 3. that you won't be able to find her. If you think that your fears of any of these are completely rational, then you need to start pretending that the dream girl is there right now telling you how to improve yourself.

I would immediately change if a girl gave me a chance, I've never even been friendzoned! I treat every girl I meet with respect and courtesy that they deserve (aka friendly), I have very constructive conversations, I can dress well (if the situation calls for it), I certainly don't think i'm that bad looking (just need to lose a few pounds), my problem is that I live in a redneck city (Green Bay, WI). There was a cute girl who flirted with me often in my recent Calc class, however, I could tell she was a redneck and wasn't my type, and obviously it goes both ways, me being a nerd, she wouldn't understand me and thus I'm not her type. So it's not like I can't get girls or present myself bad. It's just no one gives me the time of day to actually do something. I ask, but it never amounts to anything.

Then you probably just need to come out a little more. You probably act like the type of person who nobody talks to, right? Just kind of pretend that people like you, and more people will. Of course, don't out-right lie, but be a little more out-going. A good tip too is: do not keep acting that way if people don't respond kindly to it. Just try to play it off, keep your cool, and then take a couple of days (or maybe weeks) seeing what your social group responds well to.

that's another funny thing, I am an outgoing person, I talk ALL the time! I hardly ever lie, unless it's food ;D. My problem is that Green Bay is a drunk town, I don't drink, Green Bay is a blue collar town, I'm a white collar, Green Bay smokes, I don't, Green Bay is a holier than thou city, I'm not, parts of Green Bay are very arrogant and selfish, I'm not. My problem is that I live in the wrong city, that's it! If I lived in Milwaukee, I'd already have a better chance at meeting a person I would love!

But you said that girls were scared of you, not that you just didn't like the girls. Either way, I give up

I'm sorry man, I'm a weird case!

Ya, well, I guess the obvious answer is to move, but I imagine you would have already done that if you could, so gl

>Meet people with similar interests and more sociability with you.
>Don't change a damn thing about yourself.
>Be happy.
>???
>PROFIT

winner! Exactly it! Exactly what I'm wanting! Problem, no girls like me in Green Bay Wisconsin... May have to move if I get money soon...

Be yourself, don't look for love. It'll find you.

learned that through my brother, and guess what, it's working for him :D. Now I just hope it'll come to me!

Good luck bro, don't let anyone drag you down.

Yeah but everyone will like you more, not trying to say you're not already but people will be more drawn to you if you're more attractive. Then again you might hate people in that case fuck it

yeah, if they didn't like you to begin with, why should they now? Just because you're better lookin? Pretty shallow. If I became famous, lets say as an All-Star MLB player, I'd probably be surrounded by school classmates that I know finally giving me respect because I'm talented in a sport. I'd hate them for that because they never gave me respect before, why do they now? I try to give everyone respect, but some people can be very cruel.

not true, I was a smart kid in school, and a hard worker who hardly ever failed his assignments. I was a friendly kid, who liked to talk, I love video games and more! I'm a nerd, and there were nerds in my school too. The problem was, my high school was majority rednecks and jocks (although the jock were nice), and potheads.

qqing?

wtf does that mean?

It means crying

ahhh, thank you, and I'm not crying ftr XD

I thought it was cus QQ looks like eyes with tears

It may seem shallow but it's true, just biology

damn you evolution...