I'm Bi, and there's 2 gay guys with crushes on me, 1 girl that I love, who loves me back, and another girl that has a crush on me. It's not too farfetched. The **** people say about nice guys finishing last, is exactly that, **** . All 4 of them I've gotten to like me the way they do by simply being nice, nothing but.

I don't understand what you're trying to tell me.......

What I'm trying to say is, I'm sure there's at least 1 person who likes you, whether you know it or not, who's fantasized about you before. Everyone in their lifetime has some kind of profound impact on someone else. Even something as simple as helping someone pick something up after they've dropped it can mean something to someone, can make a difference to them.

In the world we live in, there's so many that are so cruel and unkind, that when someone genuine and nice comes along and helps someone out, sometimes it stays with that someone.