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#295 to #254 - Schwarzenegger

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(12/28/2012)[-]

I was spanked when I was a kid, and for that I'm thankful.

Your argument is invalid.

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#315 to #298 - syis

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(12/28/2012)[-]

So a slap or a spank is physical abuse?
Might as well rape the children, then...

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#336 to #320 - syis

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(12/28/2012)[-]

A child IS a barbaric entity. Go to a kindergarten and tell me : do you see reasoning acceptance and order there?
Scientific psychology is a theory, less than 100 years old and yet it claims to give all the answers, seriously?
What material proof do you have that it is even working? Because YOU are a good person? Well, let me tell you that I am a good person too along with my brothers, sisters, cousins and all of us received a slap on the face when we talked back or refused to obey. It has been like this for decades, centuries and millenias. Even during the "enlighted periods" of humanity.
This is how the society works, this is how the life goes.
Now, well, go and be a reasonable scientist and go talk the inmates and mafia bosses out of their bad bad habits...

#310 to #298 - syis

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(12/28/2012)[-]

Lie as much as you want.
You at least received one slap in the face.
Stop acting like you remember everything since you were born.

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#327 to #316 - syis

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(12/28/2012)[-]

Your argument is that "since it worked with you, it will work with everybody"
You call this an argument?
And yes, you are ******* lying.
If it's not your parents, then it's a teacher, an uncle, an aunt or whoever.

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(12/28/2012)[-]

I don't think that was her argument at all. Perhaps your parents slapped the eyes out of your head or ****** up your ability to read. I think her argument was an actual article along with an example of an actual country, on the Earth (the planet we live on).

#300 to #298 - Schwarzenegger

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(12/28/2012)[-]

Ah, point taken.

#279 to #254 - alhemicar

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(12/28/2012)[-]

What would be best probably was like here in former Yugoslavia, at the age of 18 every man was conscripted into the JNA (Yugoslav People's Army) for a year and the officers knew how to deal with them.
Someone does ****, the officer for example tells him to move a pile of firewood from one place to another. When he's done the officer relises it was better on the first place it was. When he moves it again officer says they need it on the other place again. Later he sees that it will get wet there so it has to be moved again and so on....
Or he'd get to dig out a hole. When he's finished he has the honor of burying it again. Then he'd dig it out again....
You get my point. Those officers knew how to deal with thrash.

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#271 to #254 - SemiAnon

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(12/28/2012)[-]

Aggressive people have aggressive children, and passive people have passive children?
What a breakthrough!

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#269 to #254 - alhemicar

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(12/28/2012)[-]

Basically half of Europe has laws prohibiting hitting children.

#270 to #254 - syis

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(12/28/2012)[-]

Please...
Respect and self behavior don't come by itself. They are concepts way too hard to understand for a 5 years old.
A kid must learn that there are limits.
I don't mean that every little mistake deserves a beating with a wooden plank, but a little spanking from times to times will make the kid understand that he should abide to the rules in the house he lives in and/or the social codes when he's outside or with strangers.

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(12/28/2012)[-]

No fist, open hand, or wooden plank could ever hurt me as much as hearing "I am disappointed in you," my parents have NEVER laid a hand on me.

#288 to #280 - syis

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(12/28/2012)[-]

Right...
And when the kid answers "A ggaga gaa", you understand that he got the message.

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(12/28/2012)[-]

Lol if a kid is speaking in "gaga gaa" it is way to young to be disciplined through lectures AND physical beatings, not only does it not understand why it is being hit it will forget it just as soon as it stops crying... what are you trying to prove?

#301 to #293 - syis

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(12/28/2012)[-]

A slap on the hand makes it understand it should not touch this or that.
Might save it from a burned hand later.
And your example was ****.
Concepts such as "disappoint" "proud" or "duty" are just as vague as why the sky is blue in the head of a 3 years old. Though he would be perfectly able to talk back at you, to break a plate while looking right at you to see how you react or to torture the cat a little bit.
The question is : how many young kids have you had to deal with so far?

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(12/28/2012)[-]

I have one and he knows not to touch the ******* stove, not to yell at his mom, and not to tell us "no" and, just like my parents have never laid a hand on me, I have never laid a hand on him. Anyone who meets my son is utterly shocked at how young he is for being so well disciplined. I have ZERO child proof mechanisms in my house, my solution is education, "you put a key in there and IT WILL **** you up." Kids are kids, they're not stupid, just kids. As for putting your hand on the stove, I fell on the stove when I was younger and cooking with my mom, guess what? Went to the hospital, got it taken care of, had a scare from the burner on my fore arm (you can literally see the rings from the burner) and I never touched a ******* stove again.

#331 to #319 - syis

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(12/28/2012)[-]

So now, you can't cook and you have a scar, you call this a victory?
Having no child proof equipment at home is not an education choice, it's a lack of responsibilities.
Now, what do we have here?
A parent who doesn't have the backbone to use his real account to post his opinions?

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(12/28/2012)[-]

I'm an awesome chef by the way, the scar is now covered by tattoos, and I would consider all of those a victory over the victory of stomping on your own child.

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(12/28/2012)[-]

I have no account on here, actually I do but I don't care enough for FJ to remember the username/password (or enough to do a recovery). Lack of responsibility couldn't be further from the truth, in fact it's called good parenting. I don't just child proof my house and let my kid run through it as I sit there and watch TV (or game).

#339 to #332 - syis

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(12/28/2012)[-]

Right...
So I say "burns" you say "I buned myself on a stove"
I say "scared of cooking" you say "I'm a chef"
...
If I say that you are scared of the Moon? Would you answer that you are the ******* Buzz Aldrin?
Not caring about FJ but still refreshing the page every 30 secs. in order to keep this conversation?

That's it, Mr. 12 years old troll, I guess we are done here.

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(12/28/2012)[-]

Just for the record I didn't mean "I am a chef" as in I am actually a professional chef, I meant it as "I can make some ******* panties drop when I cook," but I guess a 13 year old wouldn't know about that...

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(12/28/2012)[-]

Don't care enough for FJ, do care enough to continue to tell you that you're wrong, two completely different things

#342 to #339 - anon id: 9d5f857c

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(12/28/2012)[-]

Lol I already told you my age, and my old occupation, I have no reason to lie, I gain nor lose anything from it. Just because you have yet to come up with a valid argument to anything doesn't mean I am a troll. Maybe your parents beat you too much? Congrats you have now become the motivation for me to continue not hitting my child. It obviously makes them retarded. You're guess we're done now? As far as I am concerned we have been done, as I have stated before, you have brought nothing to the table except ********.

#276 to #270 - nucularwar

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(12/28/2012)[-]

kids understand getting yelled at just as much as a spanking

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#284 to #275 - syis

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(12/28/2012)[-]

Are you implying that if a father gives a slap to a kid who willingly said "**** you" to his mum, that means he is an aggressive son of a bitch?

I was slapped a few times or kicked in the butt along with my borthers and sisters, and yet we are not these aggressive thugs you are discribing.

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#282 to #275 - alhemicar

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(12/28/2012)[-]

Hitler was taught by his parents through education, empathy, compassion and rewarding too...

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#302 to #291 - alhemicar

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(12/28/2012)[-]

Not at all. Yes he was intelligent and etc. but his plan from the beging was the partition of humans based upon what believed were higher and lesser races, meaning:
Germans - the only race that could create culture
Chinese - can carry that culture over
Slavs - unable to understand culture, useful only for manual labor
Semites - useless for anything, a waste of space, air and food, don't deserve to live

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(12/28/2012)[-]

They have also done similar test in the military. Recruits who have cell phones, video games, and down time, often do better then the recruits at places where they beat the **** out of you (yes, physical beatings are not allowed in the military anymore but it's a very fine ******* line)