It is lovely to have a (male?) that doesn't wish for multiple female partners.

It seems all too common for males to wish for multiple female partners, or to speak of having/wishing for them.

One of the many reasons I distance myself from others, especially males who hold such values [multiple female *cough* breeding *cough* partners.

Gif is my mostly silent reaction towards males that say/want such things around me/in ear's reach- as I drown true disappointment inside. *insert corny sounding voice for corny sounding words*

Thanks for the response! Well before my experience, I used to think like OP and/or most other guys. I thought it would be awesome to date multiple girls and have tons of sex in a threesome. But when you mature and "love" someone, it hurts to have that happen to you. Life with someone isn't about sex 24/7. I try to talk about it on FJ only because I hope and I can make other young guys think straight!
Someone said here it's hard to want your partner without having a "sexual" attraction. Well that is what made this girl come out on me. We were friends for a long time, dated for a while, and (eventually) it felt like we should have reached the sex part of the relationship. I would make extremely obvious hints at it and she would back off immediately, she didn't even ever want to talk about it. Eventually it came out soon after that.

It's a long story and part of the past, I still think about it from time to time but I've moved on. I try to be open to new woman and dating but it's hard. I thought I found the right one with this girl. But I'm still young, going to college, making good money, I try to focus on the future with someone else.
And in your case... well if you are a regular girl that likes just guys give someone a chance! There are plenty of guys out there like myself who don't want to live out unrealistic sexual fantasies with you and three other girls involved! Relationships are a great part of life if you don't let it get to your head and you find someone decent.

I lack sexual attraction towards people. I have a very low almost non-existent sex drive in the first place.

I find any discussion about sexual themed things repulsive. I find hints repulsive. I find when others are sexually attracted to me repulsive [ not to mention frightening ]

I've had to deal with past troubles. I've never dated and find no interest in dating. I do not find any appeal in relationships. I don't like it when others are close to me or if they're needy/ So on so fourth. I have a untrusting solitary personality. *shrugs*

i don't know if it sounds weird but i would totally bang the girl with the dragon tattoo

That is not all that nice to hear due to resembling in appearance; I admire her for the similarity in lack of emotion/fear of showing it.

I've been told many times by different people to resemble this "Elisabeth Salander" girl from the "American version of 'The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo" so I had searched her up. Needless to say, the resemblance is scary. Then I watched the movie to see the freaking rape scene, it was almost like watching oneself get raped. =/

i said it because she is so dark, smart and beautifull in some way. I find her sense of independence so attractive. Maybe I expressed my ideas wrong. Btw, to me, the rape scene is quite disturbing.

Such qualities of one's personality/makeup makes you want to "bang" them?

I really hope that is not the reasoning behind liking one's traits. I can find things attractive without finding or seeing anything sexual in them.

geez.. fine, i said i didn't express myself correctly!

let me rephrase that.. "i would totally date the girl with the dragon tattoo because i find her personality so attractive".

better?

Doesn't excuse your past way of speaking and true intentions. So, no, it is no better at all.

But live as you wish.

well then.. :)