So your saying she doesn't clean her mouth OR you don't clean your dick? Because from your logic every time you kiss her its like tasting every time she has vomited

do you know what pre-cum is? it's the stuff that comes out before you cum. it enters her mouth while she's sucking, so even if she takes her mouth off before you cum, she's still sort of got cum in her mouth. that grosses me out.

Thats why you end with a blowjob or just have a blowjob by itself but whatever opinions are opinions

And going by that logic having sex or losing her virginity before marriage is pretty "cheap" and "skanky" I mean ewww dick inside a vagina DAS JUS NASTY

we're waiting until we're married to have sex.

That explains it right there... And what are your thoughts on Cunnilingus?

i'll eat her out, sure. a guy going down on a girl isn't degrading, it's chivalrous. like opening a door for her, or pulling out her chair for her as she sits down, or laying your coat over a puddle so she doesn't get her shoes wet. it's the gentlemanly thing to do.

If a girl is horny she's not gonna give a fuck man

my girl does. she doesn't like being treated as a sex toy. i'm pretty sure most girls feel that way.

i do find it disgraceful. a girl shouldn't have to do something so dirty and submissive just to show affection. kissing works just as well.

I think girls like to give blowjobs not to show affection but as a way to please a man. They like knowing that they can make their man feel good and I feel it isn't a submissive act at all because you're giving a blowjob on your own free will not because he's forcing you or trying to shove his dick farther down your throat than you're comfortable with.

In short, a blowjob is more of a way of showing that you can make a man feel good rather than being submissive. Throat fucking on the other hand is a very submissive act.

see i don't get that. why use her mouth? if she wants to make me feel good, i'd rather put my dick where it's supposed to go.

Because it just isn't the same... The only way I can see a girl making a guy feel good during sex is if she rides him and that's just boring. With a blowjob, she controls you. She controls when you're going to cum and she's making you moan and turning you on with her mouth, which isn't necessarily a sex organ. I'm not sure how to completely explain it but I figure nothing is better than watching and knowing you're making someone feel good without using your vagina [which makes any guy feel good].

well let's agree to disagree. that sounds nice but it doesn't seem worth it. thank you for trying to explain it though. i've had this type of discussion with several other people and yours is the first argument to actually hold any weight.