so, i got a stalker..

and who says i didnt do that? i tried to explain to him that i was kidding and he didnt understand relationships and he didnt listen to me. i asked him nicely to stop messaging me because i didnt like it, but he didnt.. and when i kept trying he becane verbally abusive, if you see in my comment below he sent a message starting with 'can i say sorry for..'. that was him trying to apologise because he called me a fucking whore and after that i stopped talking to him. before you judge maybe find out the whole story? not once did i swear at him or shout at him, but he sent loads of messages with every sexist, offensive comment in the book when i stopped replying to his messages. i didnt say any of that above because its called funnyjunk, where you post funny stuff.. he was obsessive and had a foul mouth, and he not only harassed me but my friends too who had nothing to dk eith it. if hes old enough to use adult language and play an adult game hes old enough to deal with the consequences of how he behaves. if no one puts him in his place he'll grow up thinking its a valid way to act.

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"LOL If they can pronounce an offensive word, they're old enough to be ridiculed by scores of internet citizens!" The kid is unhealthy. You don't learn that shit from TV. You learn it by watching your dad beat you mom and then spending the next 2 hours switching off between threatening to kick the door down and apologizing. Since a CHILD went about a situation wrong, we should give him the sort of treatment that pushes other people to kill themselves? Punishment is not the way to go about mental issues, rehabilitation is. You don't look at a schizo and think "I'm gonna beat the crazy right out of him." do you? Or do you? From what I see here, you might think like that.

i know a kid whos violent purely through video games, his parents are amazing. so no, it doesnt always mean hes got a bad life. and he may not have deserved it in the beginning but when i was logging on to find 50 messages from him either begging me to talk to him or calling me a cunt i got fucking fed up. i asked him to stop a million times because however innocent or confused he was, words can hurt. and when its an endless string of abuse from someone who doesnt know you when youve asked then politely to stop over and over again and they havent, you lose your temper. i didnt report him to xbox for harassment which i shouldve done, i just stopped him from being able to contact me.

Are you saying that you're familiar with his parents?

lol no of course im not. you said children learn this stuff through their parents beating each other etc, and i said i know a child who is violent because of video games so that isnt always the case?

Acting violent and being abusively obsessive are not the same thing. If a boy and his father go hunting, is that not violent? They're taking the life of an animal, sometimes by chasing it until it's too tired to move and then just walking up and slicing the throat. Afterwards that boy will go home and play with his friends and finish school and become a perfectly average part of society. He won't become obsessed with a person, because he's aware of how taboo this is. But he wouldn't feel that way if it was common in his home or there's something wrong with his brain. He's not to be held accountable for something that he believes is perfectly fine. Why? Because he believes it is, and this demonstrates a breakdown in development. But you understand so well that you took offense, which is natural, but then you lashed out. You picked out the weak among us and decided it would be fine to attack him, because of what he is. You should be held responsible for this situation. You should be held responsible for not doing the civil and discreet thing. You disgust me.

so you, without bothering to know the background of this story, decided to comment calling me a cunt. telling me all this awful stuff about me. and that reminded me of when i was verbally and physically abused by someone i loved and trusted. without knowing the background of someone you lashed out and reminded them of an awful time in their lives. and the only difference between you and me was that you were unprovoked. :( im not gonna reply to any more of your messages because i am really beyond caring if you win this or not. thank you for everything youve done. bye

If you were ever truly abused, or even in an abusive household, you'd know what was happening with this kid. If you had to explain to a teacher why there're cigarette burns on your neck, you'd understand why that shit is serious. If you sat in a police car with bruises under your shirt, you'd be able to admit it upfront. But you didn't, so I know you're bullshitting. With this content you're pushing for abuse of this child, and you know no matter how messed up a kid is, he's still a kid. One without defenses. It doesn't matter if I knew the background, because through you posts you've proven that I was right. And I was provoked. I was provoked by your savagery. The way you saw a sheep with a broken leg in a field and decided it would be better to break the others than to help. You went a step beyond rude and entered the zone of a frenzied swarm of bees, enlisting the help of a bunch of half-developed 13 year olds to hurt a child. Why? What made you think this was okay? The only thing that would explain it would be if you yourself were a child, which guessing from your spelling and punctuation, you might be. Prove to the world that you're at all better than a stray dog and remove this content.

im not encouraging the abuse. youre acting like you know his whole life story. you have no proof he was abused and your whole argument is based on guesses. how dare you accuse me of lying about something so serious

My argument is based on reasonable guesses and civility. The world would breakdown if we were all like you. If you paid attention during my rants you'd see that that isn't the only possibility. Anyway you cut it, the child is not alright and what you're doing is just as bad, if not worse.

You're so blissfully ignorant. You know nothing of the younger generations if you would assume that he would act this way because of problems at home. How old are you? I'm quite sure you're probably around 27 and you JUST had your first kid. Your child is going to grow up sheltered and have social issues if you really believe in what you preach. I personally know Zombie and I know what she's been through, if anyone here is emotionally insensitive, that would be you. You're acting haughty and arrogant because you THINK the child has had a rough life at home. I don't feel sorry for him, even with your assumptions on his household. He could be one of those kids whose parents are rich and buy him everything he wants and this could just be his way of acting out towards something not going his way. You don't know anything about him, nor do you know anything about my friend. Withdraw your crude statements because you have no grounds on which to argue them. Also, welcome to the internet, now kindly leave.

Thanks for asking about my offspring. I have 2 daughters, one 9 and the other a newborn(so you kinda got that). The 9 year old is pretty social, being in the school orchestra and all, though, she's probably gonna be home with her mom a lot this summer. The other I think might be slow. 2 months old and she doesn't really do much but sleep. But that might be normal, I don't know seeing how I was in Afghanistan when the 9 year old was born, witnessing the same kind of savagery seen on the internet as of late. And I have to disagree with my "emotionally insensitive" demeanor. As you're the one clearly lacking emotions, evidenced by your posting of a 'That 70s Show' picture. That program is just awful. And, once more, I have to disagree with your "rich kid" theory, as no spoiled child would try so hard for something when everything else comes so easily. But, you are right when you say I know nothing of your friend and her hard life. She herself could have been beaten as a child, stunting her empathetic growth. Or she could be autistic. Either way I was wrong for insulting her, as that is no more right as bullying this child. The handicapped and disadvantaged need us more than anyone, and to make fun of and argue reason with them is like yelling at a wall and then drawing a dick on it. While I apologise for hurting your friend's feeling, I will not not withdraw my statements. They will serve as a reminder to all that even the saints among us make mistakes.

Also, thanks for the welcome, but I've been here since '98, sooo..

If you've been on the internet since '98, then why do you find it so appalling that there's a possibility of this child being spoiled? No one is the same and judging from 'rich kid' stereotypes, you're correct. You can't really assume anything fro certain, however, you never know what can happen. What does my posting a picture of Kelso have anything to do with lack of emotion? I can assure you that the kid that is referenced in this content lives in at least and upper-middle class family, so it's highly unlikely that his parents are abusive, according to statistics. I'm truly happy for your 9 year old daughter and I wish for the best for her, maybe she will pursue a career in the orchestra! To be quite honest, I'm trying to be a mediator rather than taking sides, zombiestookmybike is a good friend of mine and she is important to me, but I'm not looking to start a flame war. You may find me emotionally sensitive because I don't pity the kid in this content, the reason why is because I have grown up in a harsh environment, my mother raised my sister and I alone because both of our fathers walked out on us. My mother worked hard to get where she is and I appreciate everything she's done for us. I probably don't show it as much as I should, but I'm still always there for her when she needs me to be. Are you currently deployed?

Judging by your comment, you're the dirty cunt around here...

Perhaps. I'm not entirely sure of my hygiene habits, though.

But don't worry about it, bro. I don't have a problem with you, but maybe you do with me? Let's hear it.

I don't know you, so I don't have a problem with you, this was simply about your reaction to a harmless photo..
I mean, it's not like someones name and address was posted here.
Only an xbox live gamertag. And because of that, you start a comment by calling OP a dirty cunt. That's just rude..

Evil begets evil. OP just wants to hurt this kid for being dysfunctional. Nobody wants a child to be hurt, correct? Yeah, my comment is rude, because I'm angry at OP for being such an animal. Surely you can understand.

So, a 12-year-old can act in any way he/she wants, but when someone posts his/her GAMERTAG online, THAT person is the bad person?

That's exactly what's wrong with the modern youth. NOBODY expects them to take responsibility and every just says "Come on, he/she is just a kid". How do you expect kids to learn when they are treated like babies until they are adults? Many of us have had a difficult childhood and problems, but that's not a reason to act like a dick...

This kid went past the point of being a dick. He LITERALLY stalked her the way an abusive boyfriend would. If they were in that type of relationship, well that's one horrible thing. But he became obsessed with a stranger because she jokingly agreed to marry him. The child is not of right mind, and he needs help like a flower does water. Instead, OP asked scores of people to terrorize this kid. Like I said in an earlier post, beating the schizo does not help him.

youre just a heartless troller who wants to start a fight with the world.

You're not the guy. And no, you're the one without a heart.

and by the way, a guy on the front page got THREE messages from a 12 year old kid on xbox live that were not personal threats just general stupidity, and he left the ganertag on so people could message that kid. but when i get an obsessive, verbally abusive 12 year old who also harasses my friends and sends me in excess of 400 messages, party invites and lrivate chat invites and i leave his gamertag there i get a bollocking? think your priorities need sorting.

I don't read front page until noon, so it has time to load up. When I come across the post I'll bitch on that one, too. But for right now we're discussing your grievous mistakes.

Well thanks! :P

i did, several times :( i told him it was just because i thought he was kidding (who takes an xbox live proposal seriously?) and that id be his friend but nothing more so could he stop messaging me and my friends and thats when he started calling me a whore etc.

ta :)

heartless! he was not only harassing me but he was harassing my friends :P i made up a lie and told him my dad worked for the police force and could trace the messages and would be contacting his parents about it and he freaked out.

okay, maybe a little heartless..

yeah just a little...

it did get a bit 'restraining order'ish