not once have i seen the people that have been a friend zoned describe themselves (personality) there could be a number of reasons why the girl doesn't like you probably for most people their appearance, then its personality, maybe the girl wants someone else or maybe she actually does care for the friends ship and your probably thinking "why not bring it to the next level your such great friends" well maybe its because she doesn't want to ruin that friend ship i mean think about it, you spent so many years with this girl and then you date. perfect right? however then lets pretend something occurs and you guys break up thus the friendship is over and all those years of good times are flushed down the drain and are only memories (though if your lucky you can still be friends but still be a lil awkward) and us guys do it too. we may have that one friend that's a good friend but she may be ugly,different, whatever and the reason why we deny them are the same reasons or w want someone better yeah its sad but its the truth