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#89036 - marriland (08/07/2013) [-]
I don't normally come here for help, but I've seen some of the suggestions you guys give and thought I'd give it a try. So there's this ex-GF issue. She dumped me on the first day of this summer and kept telling me she'd get back with me once school started again (totally not going out and fucking other guys). Anyways, all summer she's been playing mind games with me, telling me if I wait x amount of days that she'd get back with, I even hung out with her one day (don't ask) and she asked me out, and then changed her mind. She's recently been a complete douche to me, having her friends prank call me, blocking me on facebook etc.. She also said that we're not getting back together .-. . I guess what I'm trying to ask is, how do I get over her? I don't even want to see her, she's been a complete douche to me all summer. On a side note, I have some things that I can say and post that will ruin her reputation and life, are they really worth it? The sad part is, she made me the happiest I'd ever been in my life. I don't really feel like talking to my friends about it, since they're her friends too. Help anyone? (I've been meeting other girls but all of them just badger me about her) Sorry if this seemed a little unorganized and scrambled, just figured I'd ask
I don't normally come here for help, but I've seen some of the suggestions you guys give and thought I'd give it a try. So there's this ex-GF issue. She dumped me on the first day of this summer and kept telling me she'd get back with me once school started again (totally not going out and fucking other guys). Anyways, all summer she's been playing mind games with me, telling me if I wait x amount of days that she'd get back with, I even hung out with her one day (don't ask) and she asked me out, and then changed her mind. She's recently been a complete douche to me, having her friends prank call me, blocking me on facebook etc.. She also said that we're not getting back together .-. . I guess what I'm trying to ask is, how do I get over her? I don't even want to see her, she's been a complete douche to me all summer. On a side note, I have some things that I can say and post that will ruin her reputation and life, are they really worth it? The sad part is, she made me the happiest I'd ever been in my life. I don't really feel like talking to my friends about it, since they're her friends too. Help anyone? (I've been meeting other girls but all of them just badger me about her) Sorry if this seemed a little unorganized and scrambled, just figured I'd ask
#89176 to #89036 - iridium (08/08/2013) [-]
Being spiteful and getting revenge won't do anyone any good, and don't use it for blackmail. Keep the revenge option only for when you absolutely need it. Until then, just accept that she's a total bitch, and move on. It might suck to, but if it doesn't work then it doesn't work.
User avatar #89066 to #89036 - theantidote (08/07/2013) [-]
I don't know if this has already been answered but thought I would throw my two cents in there as well
First off I wanna just point out that you should never burn your bridges, you never know what will happen in 10 years time and you see her again or one of her friends etc, and they seen what you did. You will also have some troubles hooking up with other people in the same circle of your friends and hers simply because the girl you hook up with won't really want to trust you with anything simply because you already blew one girl out of the water..
Okay, the next part is fucking hard! You don't just get over a girl in one night. You are doing the right thing by meeting other girls but the problem is, they know about you two and the relationship you had. Seeing as it made such a big impact it is important to move away from these people simply because you will be labelled as "x's Ex" or whatever. But look at what you just wrote, she is being a total douche. No you shouldn't see her again, and in all honesty I wouldn't really want to stay friends just be acquaintances =/
Now you must remember, it's the happiest you have been so far, you have the rest of your life to beat it, in 10 years time you will look back with your new girlfriend and realise it was nothing special, just a high school fling!
Don't hesitate to bug this board, we like to throw some of knowledge out there for you Just don't let her get to you!
#89067 to #89066 - marriland (08/07/2013) [-]
I just got finished throwing out all the things that reminded me of her, deleted all the pictures, and I texted her for 10 minutes and we ended things on a peaceful note. It was definitely hard, but now I feel so much better. I decided on being the better person and not going all rampage mode and posting all her stuff and what not. Thank you for the advice, it's gonna be a long road, but in the end things will work out.
User avatar #89069 to #89067 - theantidote (08/07/2013) [-]
That's the way, and I wish you all the luck for it
#89062 to #89036 - anonymous (08/07/2013) [-]
What stuff have you got to use against her? I'm curious.
User avatar #89063 to #89062 - marriland (08/07/2013) [-]
All of her personal information, some slutty pics she sent me, and a few pics of her boobs. But I decided against using them against her and, I'll be the better person
#89059 to #89036 - ossimjohn (08/07/2013) [-]
move on, become awesome, proceed to find someone as awesome as you are.
move on, become awesome, proceed to find someone as awesome as you are.
#89060 to #89059 - marriland (08/07/2013) [-]
I needed that, thank you. I just finished up deleting everything from her, and throwing out stuff she got me
I needed that, thank you. I just finished up deleting everything from her, and throwing out stuff she got me
#89061 to #89060 - ossimjohn (08/07/2013) [-]
np good luck. I suggest you dont ruin her life with her private info. I think you'll be a better person for it. And the way shes acting, she may find her self in a hole, while you are living it up. stay strong and kick ass!
np good luck. I suggest you dont ruin her life with her private info. I think you'll be a better person for it. And the way shes acting, she may find her self in a hole, while you are living it up. stay strong and kick ass!
User avatar #89057 to #89036 - silverzepher (08/07/2013) [-]
i don't want to sound rude but, just forget the bitch. drop her like a stone, you don't need her, get back out there and act like she is nothing. if asked tell the truth, she was playing with your emotions, and you decided you shouldn't have to take it anymore. then just focus on you, being the best you, you can be never hurt anyone. make her sorry that she decided you where someone she could pick up, and put down on a whim.
#89055 to #89036 - sundip (08/07/2013) [-]
I think you're giving her the reaction she wants. She's making a fool out of you, and you're falling for her trap.   
   
Ignore the bitch, avoid Facebook or any other social networking sites where she can get to you, do something to get your mind off her. Don't stoop down to her level as well. You're the mature one in this situation, so you'll be better off than her at some point.   
   
Chin up, get fuckin' wrecked and party all fuckin' day.
I think you're giving her the reaction she wants. She's making a fool out of you, and you're falling for her trap.

Ignore the bitch, avoid Facebook or any other social networking sites where she can get to you, do something to get your mind off her. Don't stoop down to her level as well. You're the mature one in this situation, so you'll be better off than her at some point.

Chin up, get fuckin' wrecked and party all fuckin' day.
User avatar #89043 to #89036 - zzonked (08/07/2013) [-]
Just cut and run it's all I can say. I was in a similar situation when I was younger and you just have to kill it. Don't talk to her at all.

Don't 'ruin her life' either.
User avatar #89040 to #89036 - btwoshaed (08/07/2013) [-]
funnyjunk your ass off or smoke weed cut ties and be done withit
User avatar #89039 to #89036 - Timmietim ONLINE (08/07/2013) [-]
Forget about the cunt
User avatar #89038 to #89036 - mimidevlin (08/07/2013) [-]
Just do things you like to do. Get you mind off of her and keep your mind busy. Don't say/post shit that would ruin her reputation and life. It's not worth it. Let her do that to herself, don't stoop that low. Just let it go.
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