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User avatar #4 - kusipaa (05/26/2012) [-]
Why do people cheat on each other? Why not just break up with the person?
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#117 to #4 - goatexam (05/27/2012) [-]

Ready for redthumbs...
User avatar #111 to #4 - tables (05/27/2012) [-]
cuz bitches and dicks be crazy
#47 to #4 - jollej (05/26/2012) [-]
Nimes sopii hyvin tohon sun kommentin sisältöön
User avatar #57 to #47 - kusipaa (05/26/2012) [-]
En ymmärrä. Olen juuri alkanut puhua suomea. Vaikka olen melko kunnollinen klo ääntäminen.
#63 to #57 - jollej (05/26/2012) [-]
Well, kusipää means douche :D
User avatar #266 to #63 - kusipaa (05/27/2012) [-]
I know :)
So far I only know curse words and pronouns. I know a few phrases as well. It helps if you listen to a bunch of interviews in Finnish.
I'm guessing you're from Finland?
#358 to #266 - jollej (05/27/2012) [-]
You guessed right! :D

User avatar #362 to #358 - kusipaa (05/27/2012) [-]
Ah, I've always wanted to visit. Tell me, are you all fond of foreigners? Especially if they're of a different race?
You should be very proud of your country. You have awesome music and beautiful places.
#368 to #362 - jollej (05/28/2012) [-]
Hopefully you'll someday get to visit Finland :) And for the foreigner matter, well some are and some are not. I don't think that is different from any other country. The basic rule is that people in the cities are more open-minded. So most of the people here like foreigners, if they are tourists or come here to work and not just to exploit our social security system. The biggest cities like Helsinki are also starting to have many immigrants from different races so you (assuming you are not caucaisian) should blend in just fine :D btw Where are you from?
User avatar #369 to #368 - kusipaa (05/28/2012) [-]
I feel like I would fit in well there, because I'm a very shy person. I'm from Arkansas. A small state in America.
#370 to #369 - jollej (05/28/2012) [-]
I'm sure you would! Just remember that the it's really cold here when it's winter :D And if you're an American the fact that you're a foreigner shouldn't cause you any problems.
#31 to #4 - hurrdurka (05/26/2012) [-]
Because Marriage sucks ass.
#36 to #31 - redrummurder (05/26/2012) [-]
Don't get married. Just find somebody you hate and buy them a house.
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User avatar #15 to #4 - Gandalfthewhite (05/26/2012) [-]
nature, most animals just **** every female they find because its just their instincts.
#8 to #4 - anonymous (05/26/2012) [-]
Psychological, selfish ******** .

Person cheating isn't entirely happy in their current relationship, but afraid of being alone.

They cheat in secret, have fun again with the person they're cheating with, and if that fails, they have their old one to fall back on.

Generally, anyone who cheats, no matter for what reason, is a raging asshole
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User avatar #14 to #10 - mhden ONLINE (05/26/2012) [-]
I red thumbed you because you changed your mind about them being assholes.
THEY ARE assholes ,and if you think otherwise you are an asshole aswell .

"Do unto others as you want others do unto you"
meaning you should treat others the way you would like to be treated.

I posted a religious quote and i dont give **** !

User avatar #292 to #14 - pickledherring (05/27/2012) [-]
i only gave you a red thumb because the golden rule ha you did onto him i did onto you
User avatar #295 to #292 - mhden ONLINE (05/27/2012) [-]
If i talk ******** , i would want people to show me were i am wrong so i can better myself .
User avatar #297 to #295 - pickledherring (05/27/2012) [-]
oh you really didnt do wrong i was just doing it ha you can red thumb me if you like
User avatar #300 to #297 - mhden ONLINE (05/27/2012) [-]
#81 to #14 - jackbrook (05/27/2012) [-]
but everything we do is pre-determined by cause and effect, i.e. we have no free will. so we aren't at fault if we cheat, as we have no choice in the matter.
#138 to #81 - stamfordsgio (05/27/2012) [-]
thats ******* stupid. You are saying that you have no control over what you do, it is all pre-determined. ******** . I'm not being forced to comment saying your wrong, i chose to myself. Don't try to justify doing something completely ******* wrong and saying it was pre-determined. The person could have chosen not to cheat, but did instead. No one was forcing her to cheat, there was no force making her cheat, she chose it out of her own free will.

You comprehend something being pre-determined wrong. Everything is pre-determined, but it is shaped by the actions of our free will, not chosen randomly by whatever. For example, lets say I am slightly overweight and want to lose a couple pounds. I can A) go for a run and eat healthy, or B) don't go running and eat junk food. Whose choice is it? It sure as hell isn't anyone's but mine. If i choose to not run and eat junk food, it is on me that i get fat, no one else. This is, implying i have the money and time for all this.
#361 to #138 - jackbrook (05/27/2012) [-]
you chose to comment because of cause and effect. cause and effect predetermines everything we do, free will plays no part. the cause was because you disagreed with me, and the effect was you carrying out your reply.
#364 to #361 - stamfordsgio (05/28/2012) [-]
But what do you mean free will has no part?!?!?!?! If i didn't want to i could have easily not commented. I CHOOSE what i want to do so i have free will. Just because something is pre-determined doesn't mean we don't have free will.
What pre-destination actually is, is what will happen because of our actions. Our future decisions out of our own free will is set in stone.
#366 to #364 - jackbrook (05/28/2012) [-]
if you didn't reply even though you disagreed with me the cause would be either that you couldn't be bothered, that you didn't think it was worth it, or that your computer crashed for whatever reason. the effect would have been the same. this is still cause and effect.

if you do something, like smash an object in anger (just a random example), that exact same situation in that exact moment in time under the exact same circumstances would not possibly have happened any other way than it did.

**** , i suck at explaining this. let me consult a friend who actually studies psychology and get back to you.
#367 to #366 - stamfordsgio (05/28/2012) [-]
Ok i don't really understand what you are trying to say but the point is you cannot say it is not a persons fault if they cheat. It is 100% the person that cheated's fault that they cheat. Period. Nothing anyone can say will make me change my mind on this. Get it in your head that you are responsible for your own actions. Unless you reply with something worth addressing, this argument is over.
#371 to #367 - jackbrook (05/28/2012) [-]
you haven't presented an argument, you just say you want it be that way so it is. My point is that the person's decision to cheat was determined, it was caused and given those causes the person could not have done anything else. if we went back that person would do the exact same thing again, because the causes would be the same.

if you still disagree with me, explain how free will works, how are we separate from cause and effect?
#372 to #371 - stamfordsgio (05/29/2012) [-]
This isn't ******* back to the future you cannot put up an argument saying that. Like you said:
My point is that the person's [big!decision[big] to cheat was determined,
key word DECISION. Tell me again who made that decision.
It was that persons ******* decision. That is free will. Thats it. That person chose to cheat, He/she didn't have to, but they did. It was NOT forced so it was out of their own free will.
Cause and effect is everywhere all the time but it does not take a way a persons decision making ability.
The point is YOU are held responsible for YOUR actions. Don't post this ******* ******** saying people are not at fault if they cheat because they have no choice in the matter. Honestly i want to believe you are an incredible troll because it astonishes me how can actually believe in this. If you are serious, please shut the **** up about this and don't spread this **** to normal people
#373 to #372 - jackbrook (05/29/2012) [-]
what i'm saying isn't some crazy ******** , convicted murderers have been saved from the death penalty by lawyers who bring this up and know how to properly explain it, so it must have some weight. and you still don't have an argument, what you are saying is like being angry at someone because they exist.

and the question i proposed to you has never been answered, by anyone, not even top philosophers and psychologists. if you can answer that question, you will have proved determinism wrong and your argument would be correct. but not one person has been able to do that in the history of mankind so i doubt we'll be starting with you.
User avatar #151 to #138 - corkscrew (05/27/2012) [-]
I think you are comprehending predetermined wrong
Who's to say the "choice" (or "free will") you made wasn't already predetermined?
Maybe you were destined to say there is no such thing as destiny and you do actually have a free will
Everything you do would be set in stone. Even if you decide to go back on your previous "choice", that was also be set in stone.
Everything you do, everything you think, everything would have been set out before you and all your choices already made.
#154 to #151 - stamfordsgio (05/27/2012) [-]
When you said:
"Who's to say the "choice" (or "free will") you made wasn't already predetermined?"
That is actually exactly what i meant, i may not have been as clear when i said it.
User avatar #156 to #154 - corkscrew (05/27/2012) [-]
... But you said "Everything is predetermined, but it is shaped by the actions of our free will"
you just contradicted what you said
In what I said, there is no free will, only a false sense of free will
#163 to #156 - stamfordsgio (05/27/2012) [-]
Oh then i understood you wrong. Can you please explain though? How are we not able to choose what we do? I can choose whether to stay in school and get a great job and own a huge house or i can drop out and live in an apartment. This basically has to do with the higher dimensions, where time is not a minute-by-minute thing. What is planned to happen will happen regardless, but people are the makers of their own future, nothing else.

I see what you mean by the false sense of free will, but no, it does not work that way. Btw, are you trying to justify the initial comment by jackbrook that said we are not at fault if we cheat
User avatar #165 to #163 - corkscrew (05/27/2012) [-]
no, jackbrook said it like a dumbass

and again, you are contradicting yourself by saying "what is planned to happen will happen" and then you say people make their own future.

what I am trying to say is that you cannot chose what you do because it has already been set

you can say you made the choice yourself, but in reality it was determined already

why isn't it minute to minute, though? If I believed this (yes, I am playing devil's advocate) then it would be minute to minute. It would be like the sims where we are "controlled". You don't have a choice in anything you do.

but, any "choice" you ever take has already been written and will happen exactly the way it did happen. you didn't truly have a choice.
#360 to #165 - jackbrook (05/27/2012) [-]
i did not say it like a dumbass. what i said is 100% correct. i just didn't really fully explain it.
#174 to #165 - stamfordsgio (05/27/2012) [-]
What i am trying to say is both those ideas are right. What will happen is set in stone, but we create it. It is very confusing and my religion teacher (not specifying which religion since it doesn't have to do with what we are talking about) had to explain it to me. A better example is in 5 years i have the choice between 3 cars A, B, and C. I am already destined to pick car A. I look through all the cars and look at the mpg, prices, etc. I feel as if car A is the best deal, so i buy it. I was meant to buy it, but it was my choice. Once again, hard to comprehend over text.

With the minute to minute thing, it is about dimensions and higher dimensions deal with time as a single point instead of a line of events happening back to back. We can only go up to the 3rd dimension because we are limited as humans, just as a drawing is limited to 2 dimensions since it cannot have any depth. We are living it minute to minute, even though it does exist as one point.
Basically, everything is already set to happen though we have full control over it. it may seem impossible since we are limited in our thinking capacity.
User avatar #331 to #174 - scarletspider (05/27/2012) [-]
In psychology, that's known as a "confirmation bias"
#176 to #174 - corkscrew (05/27/2012) [-]
you're right, it is hard to understand through text
User avatar #294 to #176 - mhden ONLINE (05/27/2012) [-]
Both of you talk ******** .
You do know that in science one of the 10 dementions ,the 5th one to be exact ,
IS POSIBLE OUTCOMES of the future .
You do remember this post dont you?
#178 to #176 - stamfordsgio (05/27/2012) [-]
Took me a looooong time to understand it. As for the dimension look up on youtube for videos describing the dimensions but with the pre-destination idk what to tell you.
#25 to #14 - jesuslizardftw (05/26/2012) [-]
It's not cheating if it's in a 3-way
User avatar #303 to #25 - sussninja (05/27/2012) [-]
It's not gay*
#16 to #14 - valneron (05/26/2012) [-]
*shrug* A variety of words for it, not just assholes is what I'm saying

Say a girl has a guy cheat on her, she does it back, not exactly an asshole of her, but certainly not woman of the year or mrs nice girl.

A good person will break it off, quit the drama, quit the hurt feelings.

A terrible person will start the whole situation up, or keep it going
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