Ignorance

Maybe if you didn't fall for bitches this wouldn't happen.

Here's my rules for you guys who want girlfriends:
1. Don't hang out with her alone until you are sure she likes you, only hang out in groups so she feels comfortable.
2. Don't be constantly calling them pretty or beautiful outside of a relationship, that's what friends do. Just talk to her about fun stuff that you guys have in common.
3. If she doesn't like you, move on. It may have seemed like she wasted your time, but sometimes she just doesn't like you in that way. Don't demonize her. It's like if a girl you had NO romantic feelings for asked you out, you wouldn't just say yes would you?

>asked out a girl
>friendzoned
>tried asking out a different girl
>friendzoned
>repeat 6 times
>all friendzoned
>realized I was asking out people I didn't know very well
>came to the conclusion that I was basing my attraction to girls on looks alone for the longest time

>epiphany, motherfuckers
>asked out one of my best female friends, with whom I had already shared many great memories as friends. I hadn't thought of her as anything more than a friend for two years because I was too focused on hot girls that weren't interested in me
>she says yes, tells me she's liked me for at least a year but was afraid to say so


and that's how you get women

> Guy thinks he's a "nice guy" and other guys are "assholes"
> Guy is ugly/shy/unlikable, so no one goes out with him
> Guy sees other people get dates, assumes it's because they're assholes
> Guy starts acting like an asshole
> Guy's friends follow suit
> More assholes are created
> Entire population becomes filled with assholes
> Earth becomes one giant, gaping asshole
> Mars and the asteroid belt combine to form giant cock
> Planets starts anally fucking and explode, leaving behind huge amounts of lube, cum and feces
> Gravity pulls the mixture slowly together
> A solid, dense mass is formed
> Mass slowly takes the shape of a human
> Legs and arms form, head materializes
> Rick Santorum is born

What if I told you
that being nice to a girl doesn't constrain her to love you

I don't even have to scroll down to know that there's a shitstorm.

Then don't let yourself get in the friendzone.. Girls experience it too, we just don't post about it. Maybe the girl isn't just going for a douche bag guy, you could be going for a manipulative bitch too?

I'll give you an amazing tip on how not to get in this situations.
Number 1: Don't be ugly.

There's absolutely no point in entering a relationship with someone you're not attracted to, regardless of how nice to you they are. This works for both sexes. If you do choose to go out with someone just because they ask you without considering your own feelings, you're just starting a relationship that's doomed to end in a month or two, because you won't be interested in putting any effort in to sustain it. Then, the person who asked you will probably take the break up harder than they would have taken you politely saying no and allowing them to move on.

I witnessed a chick being cheated on by her bf :'( I would not have cheated on her, I once asked her if she wanted to hand out but she said no because I look "creepy" *forevercreepy*

I know from experience that girls are not attracted to the "clingy" type. It's not about being a douchebag, its about playing hard to get.

If you want to know why women are attracted to douchebags even if the guys are ugly as fuck, you must view your situation from an evolutionary perspective.

12,000 years ago, men had to be aggressive and not overly sensitive to their emotions. If you were the opposite of that, your ass wouldn't survive long enough to plant your loving and sensitive seed in any woman. Aggressive and dominant males were a ten times more likely to reproduce, as time goes on this type of man is wired in women's brains as the ideal.

Aside from that natural almost subconscious inclination women have, they also look for assertiveness and the ability to provide.
Look at these two:

> A man who is able to be on his own and still follow a path that leads to his vision of life fulfillment without having a relationship.
>A guy who is obviously in desperate pursuit of a sweet and caring relationship.

They see the the first guy as one who is mature and has a determined goal, a potential mate who can provide for their offspring with stability. They see the second guy as one who will need as much care-giving as he will provide to her.

The masculinity is what they look for initially, they want a man who has that independence but then is able to be caring and loving when they are in a relationship, so she feels privileged to have earned a part in his life and focus. They chase guys who can provide the main thing and then leave when they lack the other. It doesn't typically work the other way around at all.

So, nice guy, what do? Simple, don't be a try-hard. Set your focus on yourself FIRST, build your goals and make them your main drive, but still remain social to stay in the game. This tells women "I'm happy where I'm going, and I'm available." rather than what your behavior usually says, "I'm looking for somebody." when you say you're sensitive you're telling them "I often feel sorry for myself." and when you shell out your feelings with them there's nothing left to hold their interest.

mfw "Wass6p"

**Justincredible rolled a random image posted in comment #53 at Strechmarks ** my face when girl I have been on and off with for 3 years tells me that shes finally ready to be with me, but that shes going to Italy for a year so there is no point in us being together.

I INSERTED KINDNESS AND CARE BUT SEX WONT COME OUT

HOW FIX?

~OP