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User avatar #128 - IncarceratedNinja (05/23/2012) [-]
Oh god, i hate to be derpressing but i just talked on the phone with the girl ive fallen in love with for the past 3 years and we dated for a year and a half and 3 months back she broke up with me. I still havent gotten over her. i have classes with her everyday and i have to see her and her new boyfriend kiss and hold hands and hear people tell me about them being together. i called her and i was bawling my eyes out telling her how much i loved her even after the three months of being split up and all she says to me is "stop. its been three months." get over me. I tell her ill do everything and be the perfect guy for her but she just wont listen to me. I dont know what to do. I feel like there is no way out of this slump that im in. Funnyjunk is one of the only places i can go and just laugh and forget about everything. I dont care if its OC a repost or a horrible joke. I just want to thank everyone for making this website and the community great and A­dmin for creating and maintaining such a great website. <3
#180 to #128 - flipoutt (05/24/2012) [-]
She's not worth it, man. You could probably find better, even if you're not willing to admit it.    
   
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She's not worth it, man. You could probably find better, even if you're not willing to admit it.

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#175 to #128 - tomtomvdp (05/24/2012) [-]
You remind me of me , in a similar situation some years ago, to thats why im gonna help you. Its very simple , don't do any workarounds , any begin , any nothing . Just love yourself more ! care about yourself more ! , i understand that emotionally , this girls means a lot , but emotions are not the right path here , go for the logical approach , like "why would a want to be with a girl like this?" take your time , think about what i said , and don't stay at your house ! go outside ! i don't care if you have any friends or not , just get out , work out , get a shitty job , whatever , and if you feel something against her , just forgive her and let it go, its not worth it.
User avatar #203 to #175 - IncarceratedNinja (05/26/2012) [-]
thanks man, that really helps
#163 to #128 - heloshark (05/24/2012) [-]
Alright dude, I feel ya; listen up.   
I've known this chick for about four years know. And we've always been just good friends. That is, up until two or three months ago. Yeah, I fell for her. I did everything to help this chick out of a jam, spent whatever cash I could to support her, and was there when every she called on me for help. She even lived with me for a brief period recently. But, she's been with a guy too afraid to establish themselves as a couple. Even though she's had affection for him i've been there. I'm incredibly open with this chick, telling her about how I feel whenever it gets really hard to bear. Unfortunately she's been indirect about how she feels back. I asked her, &quot;would you not date me really because you see me as a brother, or because you're afraid of ruining a friendship?&quot; she replied with &quot;i'm not answering that.&quot; Every time anything similar get brought up between us she won't give me a definite answer either way. I leave for boot camp in 13 days now. And it kills me to have to give up on her.    
   
But that's life, man. Stiffen' up that lip and keep moving. Stay confident and you will find someone to make you happy in life.
Alright dude, I feel ya; listen up.
I've known this chick for about four years know. And we've always been just good friends. That is, up until two or three months ago. Yeah, I fell for her. I did everything to help this chick out of a jam, spent whatever cash I could to support her, and was there when every she called on me for help. She even lived with me for a brief period recently. But, she's been with a guy too afraid to establish themselves as a couple. Even though she's had affection for him i've been there. I'm incredibly open with this chick, telling her about how I feel whenever it gets really hard to bear. Unfortunately she's been indirect about how she feels back. I asked her, "would you not date me really because you see me as a brother, or because you're afraid of ruining a friendship?" she replied with "i'm not answering that." Every time anything similar get brought up between us she won't give me a definite answer either way. I leave for boot camp in 13 days now. And it kills me to have to give up on her.

But that's life, man. Stiffen' up that lip and keep moving. Stay confident and you will find someone to make you happy in life.
User avatar #204 to #163 - IncarceratedNinja (05/26/2012) [-]
thanks, i know how you feel, the same thing happened to me and this girl. im just gonna let it go and hope time will heal everything
User avatar #161 to #128 - bchewey (05/24/2012) [-]
you know something that's called an-hero?





don't do it
User avatar #162 to #161 - bchewey (05/24/2012) [-]
I feel you though... feel better
#157 to #128 - biddo (05/24/2012) [-]
how old are you?
User avatar #205 to #157 - IncarceratedNinja (05/26/2012) [-]
15, yeah i know. im 15 and i'm acting like this. its stupid. But after a year and a half of dating and getting so close...it really doesn't matter how old you are, you get certain connections with people that aren't defined by age
#209 to #205 - biddo (05/29/2012) [-]
i did the same in 11th grade and regret even feeling that way for anyone, it gets way better and you will understand why things didnt work out and its for good reason. keep your head up bro your teen years are for having fun and being you, save the relationships for your 20s trust me youll never look back
#156 to #128 - N. Korean citizen (05/24/2012) [-]
Bro, I feel for you I went through something similar, if she's to stupid to see what a nice and kind guy you are then fuck her she doesn't deserve you . Good luck man.
User avatar #206 to #156 - IncarceratedNinja (05/26/2012) [-]
thank you...i told her id be her everything and be the perfect boyfriend...begging her to get back with me, no dignity. she just doesn't see.
#152 to #128 - N. Korean citizen (05/24/2012) [-]
I'm so, so sorry. I teared up a bit reading that. Damn my emotional nature.
We're here for you, and you're never, ever alone. Over time, your heart will heal.
User avatar #207 to #152 - IncarceratedNinja (05/26/2012) [-]
i hope so, man...i hope so.
#142 to #128 - N. Korean citizen (05/24/2012) [-]
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#137 to #128 - travmike (05/24/2012) [-]
all of my feel
User avatar #132 to #128 - augustusxxiv (05/23/2012) [-]
Feels bro, feels.
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