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#565 - iliekcereal
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(03/18/2012) [-]
I am in love with my best friend. But she considers me to be her best friend. Whenever someone tells us we'd be a cute couple, she says without hesitation that we are just friends. But I know she's really shy, especially with dating. Is there a chance that she only says this because she's afraid of being hurt, or is that wishful thinking at best? Please be honest... ._.
#627 to #565 - anon
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(03/18/2012) [-]
ya bro i feel the same way i dont know what to do. just talk to her
#593 to #565 - fuckyoshitnigga
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(03/18/2012) [-]
Just sack up and tell her. **** man.

I thought my girlfriend had me friend zoned, but she was just to shy to tell me she liked me. So I asked her out and we've been dating for 9 1/2 months. Honestly dude...
#595 to #593 - iliekcereal
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(03/18/2012) [-]
Maybe there is hope.. But idk.. She just doesn't seem too interested in dating. She hasn't had a boyfriend since around the time we started talking, which was over 2 years ago.
#604 to #595 - fuckyoshitnigga
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(03/18/2012) [-]
That's a good sign you sack of ****. If she was tossing around with other guys all the time then that would obliterate her chances of liking you.

It's like I'm talking to a wall. If you haven't asked her out by Tuesday you lose your balls.
#609 to #604 - iliekcereal
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(03/18/2012) [-]
Okay. I want to keep my balls
#600 to #595 - cjtsirhc
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(03/18/2012) [-]
that probably means she like you cause she wants to go out with you so she didn't go out with anyone else
#605 to #600 - iliekcereal
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(03/18/2012) [-]
That's what I'd like to believe. But it just feels like there's more to it than that. Every time I've tried to move that way, I've kinda been shot down a little.
#616 to #605 - fuckyoshitnigga
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(03/18/2012) [-]
Stop being so hesitant, begging for attention, and waiting to find out if she likes you for sure. You're just feeling sorry for yourself, and trying to make up excuses for why she doesn't like you, so people will tell you she might, so you'll feel better while you're standing around being to much of a pussy to put your balls on the table.

I did the same thing. Sack up.
#620 to #616 - iliekcereal
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(03/18/2012) [-]
You're exactly right.
#613 to #605 - cjtsirhc
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(03/18/2012) [-]
mmkay can you give examples for "being shot down"
#619 to #613 - iliekcereal
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(03/18/2012) [-]
We went to the movies about a year ago. I asked her, and she said yes. The next day she seemed happy, and different. I felt like we were for sure going out. The next day I find out she wants to bring her fat, lesbian friend with. Last July, we again went to the movies. After that night, I was feeling great about how things were looking. So, the next day I message her to tell her she looked pretty, and her exact reply was "erm, well thanks...."
#584 to #565 - anon
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(03/18/2012) [-]
grow some balls and tell her, but slightly lie and say i think i am starting to like you more then a friend ( or something like), that way you can play it off if she doesn't like you and if she does like you, you should have your self a girlfriend. BUT DO NOT TELL HER if she has a Boy friend that just will mess it up, trust me i know
#586 to #584 - cjtsirhc
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(03/18/2012) [-]
^ this was me by the way, i forgot to sign in
#583 to #565 - forkliftrampage
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(03/18/2012) [-]
Chloroform
#578 to #565 - gorden
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(03/18/2012) [-]
good lord, i'll be honest.    
i was in a relation ship with my best friend - so its possible   
LONG STORY UNDER THIS LINE   
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So, you try to get your best friend, hm? thats a good thing, shw already knows you und you know her, so thats pretty good, you could tell er that she should comeover, to watch a movie or something. (thats what i would say) when you are watching the movie you should take a love film with a HAPPY ENDING!!!    
get under your bedsheet or something thats warm, takt her in your arm, and hold her hands, when the couple in the movie kiss , you could kiss her, or something romantic.   
and kiss her afterwards   
good luck m8, hope you get out of your friendzone
good lord, i'll be honest.
i was in a relation ship with my best friend - so its possible
LONG STORY UNDER THIS LINE
_______________________________________________
So, you try to get your best friend, hm? thats a good thing, shw already knows you und you know her, so thats pretty good, you could tell er that she should comeover, to watch a movie or something. (thats what i would say) when you are watching the movie you should take a love film with a HAPPY ENDING!!!
get under your bedsheet or something thats warm, takt her in your arm, and hold her hands, when the couple in the movie kiss , you could kiss her, or something romantic.
and kiss her afterwards
good luck m8, hope you get out of your friendzone
#582 to #578 - iliekcereal
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(03/18/2012) [-]
Thanks, but I doubt that would work with her...
#589 to #582 - gorden
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(03/18/2012) [-]
you only know if you try, dude.   
if you wont try you'll always ask yourself: "why didnt i say/do something?"   
you know, i met this awesome girl, whe kissed and had an affair for like a year or something, then she said she met this guy and is in love with him and we have to stop   
then she told me she really loved me and we could have started a relation ship , but i she didnt say something cause i never  said that i loved her. and now i'm like   
**** this, why did i never tell her i love her?
you only know if you try, dude.
if you wont try you'll always ask yourself: "why didnt i say/do something?"
you know, i met this awesome girl, whe kissed and had an affair for like a year or something, then she said she met this guy and is in love with him and we have to stop
then she told me she really loved me and we could have started a relation ship , but i she didnt say something cause i never said that i loved her. and now i'm like
**** this, why did i never tell her i love her?
#573 to #565 - SemiAnon
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(03/18/2012) [-]
If she doesn't hesitate at all, you're either ugly or she is afraid of losing the friendship when you two break up.
#575 to #573 - iliekcereal
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(03/18/2012) [-]
ah. that's not very convincing. Out of those two, I hope she's just afraid of losing the friendship...
#571 to #565 - imadabest
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(03/18/2012) [-]
Bud, get outta there and find a new woman because that won't change. Or at least it's very, very unlikely.
#572 to #571 - iliekcereal
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(03/18/2012) [-]
really? :/
#591 to #572 - cjtsirhc
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(03/18/2012) [-]
I disagree i know 3 friend who use to have a best friend and they got together and 2 of them have been together for years the 3 one ended because one moved away for collage so i say go for it.
#577 to #572 - imadabest
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(03/18/2012) [-]
Yeah. I'd say, if you have even a little bit of game, find a new girl and have fun lol. I used to be in your situation, but I stopped that ****. I still miss her, but nothing was gonna change. There's plenty of fish in the pond, and there's gotta be more than just one that's compatible with you.
#580 to #577 - gorden
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(03/18/2012) [-]
i was in a relationship with my best friend for like 1 year, it worked perfektly and it was the EXACT situation like the one above, dont make im insecure, he should try it atleast!
i was in a relationship with my best friend for like 1 year, it worked perfektly and it was the EXACT situation like the one above, dont make im insecure, he should try it atleast!
#579 to #577 - iliekcereal
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(03/18/2012) [-]
I've had a few girlfriend's since I started liking her, but those relationships have all failed miserably. It's kinda hard to like one person and date another.
#596 to #579 - cjtsirhc
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(03/18/2012) [-]
I was in the same situation i dated like 3 other girls, one cheated on me and lied to my face about it after the first month, and the other one ended cause we had like nothing in common after like 3 weeks , but you should tell her so you truly can get over her or be with her
#599 to #596 - iliekcereal
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(03/18/2012) [-]
The longest relationship I've had since I decided I like her is an entire three weeks.
#608 to #599 - cjtsirhc
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(03/18/2012) [-]
exactly, i would tell her
#612 to #608 - iliekcereal
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(03/18/2012) [-]
I want to
#588 to #579 - imadabest
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(03/18/2012) [-]
Idk then man. What would work for me is talking to her about it. Getting outright rejected is a little easier to handle than that game girls play if they're maybe on the fence about whether they like a guy or not. Maybe there's a reason she hasn't decided on you yet? Just have to get a straight answer..
#598 to #588 - iliekcereal
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(03/18/2012) [-]
Yeah. Part of me would rather be rejected and get an answer, but the other part would just rather believe that she likes me without knowing.
#629 to #598 - imadabest
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(03/19/2012) [-]
Yeppp I 've had that feel. Just be real subtle about telling her that you like her, if that's what you want to do. I mean maybe that really romantic "I'm always thinking about you" line could work, but I think that'd possibly creep her out more than anything. If she rejects you, be prepared for a little depression, it's what I went through. But it's worth it; sooner or later you're gonna find a girl that is just as good, if not better, than the girl you like now. Or maybe she actually likes you, still a possibility. Good luck!
#630 to #629 - iliekcereal
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(03/19/2012) [-]
I'm just scared she's gonna say no and I'll not have her as a friend anymore
#631 to #630 - imadabest
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(03/19/2012) [-]
Then go real subtle like I said. Or just say you kinda like her and you're wondering if she'f feeling the same. If she says no, then make sure she knows you're cool with just being friends too.
#632 to #631 - iliekcereal
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(03/19/2012) [-]
Subtlety won't work, I've tried it before, and she didn't get it.
#633 to #632 - imadabest
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(03/19/2012) [-]
Were you straight-forward in telling her that you do indeed like her? I'd just do what you have to do to get a straight answer, ya know?
#634 to #633 - iliekcereal
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(03/19/2012) [-]
That's what I'm planning on, if and when I ask her out.
#570 to #565 - anon
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(03/18/2012) [-]
I'm in the exact same situation....