i am 20 years old and have a 1 year old baby. i had her my senior year of high school and it didnt ruin my education or my life. i have been able to do everything i ever wanted to do. all my dreams are coming true even with the child. the child does not ruin your education its your own fault for it being ruined. i am sick of everyone blaming a baby for their problems. if you get pregnant it was your choice. you chose to have sex without protection. i did and i had my child on purpose. i love her with all my heart and i would never change it. and anyone who gets an abortion should be charged with murder because at 2 weeks the baby already has a heartbeat, and anything that has a heartbeat is alive so it should be considered murder. i am totally pro-life and its not even because i think god says its wrong its because its an innocent baby who cant defend itself and shouldn't have someone destroy its life because they did something wrong. now if the woman is raped she should have the baby and give it up for adoption if she chooses but don't kill the baby...its not your fault but its not the baby's fault either.