Same here man. There's this girl at college I used to have so much chemistry with. Suddeniy I began to like her a lot and now she barely even talks to me. I just want to tell her my feelings so she can reject me already and I can move on....
My girlfriend broke up with me saturday night...I used to be a pretty depressed person before I met her and she made me so happy all these 6 months (7 in two days). ): Goddamn, I miss her so much, I don't give a damn if I sound too "beta" or something like that, I became so obsessed with her. All I used to do all these months was just being with her I forgot all the things I used to do before...now, I feel a great void in my heart and in my life in general. :/ The worst part I couldn't make her happy like I promised myself to do...
It's alright man, I just broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years ago last week. I'm not saying it's easy, but everything will get better....I hope.... :(
Damn, two years...it must be rough. ): My gf said "love is for chumps"...I can't really blame her, you know. It hurts my soul she's not in my side anymore...distance can be a relationship's worst enemy. She has gone through a pretty rough life...even if I blame myself for all this, she says it's her fault for making promises she couldn't keep...I've always been the kind of person that takes the blame (only in things that corcern about me). The last thing she gave me was a kiss and a "Good Bye", the worst part is that our last week she was just lying to herself by saying "I love you" to me, but I don't hold any grudges against her or something like that, at least, she was honest and we didn't ended being angry to each other.
The worst part of everything...I imagine her being hugged by another person, being kissed, that such person tells her "I love you" and she says it back and she actually mean it...goddamn it hurts so much I feel like crying right now...I just want the pain to go away, she became such important person in my life. I had a lot of family problems and she helped me to go through them and I did the same...now, those days are gone..forever...):
You're not beta at all man, it's typical post-relationship feelings. I feel the same way. All the memories, hell even the bad ones I'm going to miss. Unfortunately my relationship did not end on good terms, and sure that stings a lot now, but I'm doing my best to try and get over it.
Times like these you need your friends, or even these lovely people here on FJ.
Just adding to this. It might be a bit late now, but my girlfriend broke up with me what would be 2 weeks ago. Basically not mentioning it here since "Haha you're so Beta." (Basically just hate being judged like everyone else probably does.)
Basically almost 6 months gone up in the air. Nothing compared to your 2 years of course. But I just keep looking at things she's given me, like games and movies just almost tearing up, sorta closing down. Same happens whenever I see her log on to anything where I have her as friend. It's just harsh, even no matter how much I try to convince myself that it's probably for the better.
So hey mate, life's a bitch innit? But at least when it all hits the bottom there's only one way to go.
She's pretty good at GIMP (kinda similar to photoshop) and photoshop as well...she gave me so many gifts for christmas and Valentines day...I don't know what to do with them. v_v I just don't know, I know I have to move on, yet, I can't...
Just let the gifts stay till you can face them. Nobody says you have to move on, at least not right away. It's your life and you can take as long as you want to move on.
Just do it whenever you feel you're ready. Nobody is telling you to jump right back in the ocean and get a new fish.
If they do, they are just hopefully trying to cheer you up. Or they are people who didn't understand what she meant to you. *bro-hug* You need it bro.
Same here man. 2 years, 6 months, doesnt matter. We had a good chunk of our lives basically taken away. I am dealing with the same **** where I see her everywhere. That's why I love FJ, especially now, since I can escape from the depression of being alone now.
But yeah I know we will be able to get through this eventually, just right now it stings like nothing else could.
Now that you're saying that first line, I remember a post I saw here some days ago:
"A relationship is not defined by how long you've been together, but what foundation you've built together."
I immediately just went a played games after the breakup, I got easily annoyed and stopped, but the gaming time I got was good fun and helped me, then checked FJ and some Youtube videos. It just feels weird that it's over. Like I was finally snapping out of my depression, getting psychological treatment and such. Then that happens.
It's like whenever you are so close to feeling good, then *bam* a new obstacle in the way. The one thing we guys, and girls for that matter, can do, is just stick together and show appreciation for each other.
So cheers to what'll be a fresh start to a new 'beginning'