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User avatar #4705 - ascian (08/07/2012) [-]
>tfw too depressed to workout, eat, and tired
User avatar #4714 to #4705 - unncommon (08/07/2012) [-]
...but on a more serious note. What's wrong?
User avatar #4728 to #4714 - ascian (08/07/2012) [-]
It also doesn't help that I'm fasting from food and drink. I get to eat at 5 am and have to fast until 8 pm. So that may be another reason for the way I am feeling.
User avatar #4719 to #4714 - ascian (08/07/2012) [-]
I am doing a lot better than yesterday though. I basically have the same feelings though, just yesterday it was a 9/10 and now it's a 5/10. (anxiety/stress level)
User avatar #4724 to #4719 - unncommon (08/07/2012) [-]
Working out relieves my stress (that's just me).

If that doesn't work, try smoking weed (I know that a lot of people on the Fitness Boards would go ape-shit over promoting drugs, but fuck 'em, that's what works for me).

Try just taking a day to relax, lay down, watch T.V., shit like that.
Take a long shower while listening to chill-music.

If that doesn't work than look up your favorite comedian on Pandora (mines Louis C.K.).
User avatar #4718 to #4714 - ascian (08/07/2012) [-]
I honestly don't even know. I guess the main things are that I am stuck in a rut because of summer. I literally do nothing all day. I was working out everyday for a bit less than a week so I guess yesterday could have been my 'rest' day. I have no games to play.

The second this is: I don't know what to do in a relationship. This is my first relationship and I am 17 years old. We broke up after 3 weeks and then got back together after 2. I don't know why we even broke up to begin with, and I'm afraid it will happen again. We also can't hang out too often even though we live fairly close (20-30 min away?) I don't know if she has the same feelings as I have for her. I like her a lot. Is there anything I'm doing wrong? Right? I know they seem like petty teen problems, but they have been taking a toll on me for some reason. Thanks for your concern.
User avatar #4721 to #4718 - unncommon (08/07/2012) [-]
Sometimes doing nothing isn't really all that bad, it gives you time to yourself.

Relationships will always be complicated, but if she's not doing her part, than that's not a real relationship. Both people have to do their part, or else it's not going to work out. Try texting her, and get her to call you, if that doesn't work, than ignore her for a little (don't be a douche about it), but make it apparent that you're ignoring her (girls go ape crazy for that shit, idk why). After a couple days, start texting her, get her to open up to you.

And about the workout. You don't have to workout, it's a more like a life style, for me, it helps relieve stress and promotes confidence. Sometimes you just gotta do it to get yourself in that state of mind.

Best of luck (if that helped at all).
User avatar #4725 to #4721 - ascian (08/07/2012) [-]
Thanks for the advice. We do talk via Facebook everyday but it feels more like friendly talk more than "gf/bf" talk lately. I do like time to myself, but I am so sick and tired of staying at home. My brother and best friend are both probably busy so I don't think we can hang out any time soon. My best friend is also dating my gf's sister and I am jelous of the time they can spend together whilst we cannot.
User avatar #4726 to #4725 - unncommon (08/07/2012) [-]
Try taking your gf to a movie. Try to be passive-sexual (if that makes sense). My girlfriend and I are going through kind of the same thing, even though like a month ago she was fucking crazy for me, than I started texting her more often, I realize that the more that you let girls in, the further away that they get. It's like they make it a personal goal to try to get to your emotional side, but as men if we show that, it makes us look week (they won't admit it, but I've noticed that that's when they start pushing away, from me at least).

Open up a little, but never all the way, it makes you look emotionally unstable, and they want someone who's strong willed and a shoulder to cry on when shit goes sour.
User avatar #4727 to #4726 - ascian (08/07/2012) [-]
She did complement me on how she feels safe with me so I guess that's a plus. The thing is though, we can barely ever go out together. And when we do, we have to do it as a group. I'm also tired of asking when we can hang out. At least she goes to my school but I don't want our relationship to go south before that.
User avatar #4729 to #4727 - unncommon (08/07/2012) [-]
Why do you guys have to go in a group?
User avatar #4733 to #4729 - ascian (08/07/2012) [-]
She doesn't have a cellphone so her sister has to be there with her.
User avatar #4734 to #4733 - unncommon (08/07/2012) [-]
Don't you have a cellphone?
User avatar #4735 to #4734 - ascian (08/07/2012) [-]
Yeah but her parents don't know that we are dating. I'm skyping with her right now, she said we may be able to hang out tomorrow :)
User avatar #4737 to #4735 - unncommon (08/07/2012) [-]
Well, good luck.

Wash behind your ears.

and in between your toes.
User avatar #4739 to #4737 - ascian (08/07/2012) [-]
Haha, thanks for the help man!
#4740 to #4739 - unncommon (08/07/2012) [-]
No prob.   
   
And again, best of luck.
No prob.

And again, best of luck.
User avatar #4720 to #4718 - ascian (08/07/2012) [-]
I also just re-read that and I am sorry for all those English errors. I'm not thinking too straight.
#4712 to #4705 - unncommon (08/07/2012) [-]
>"...too depressed to...tired."   
Too depressed to tired?
>"...too depressed to...tired."
Too depressed to tired?

User avatar #4713 to #4712 - unncommon (08/07/2012) [-]
Also, try not doing them simultaneously. That might help.
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